Do escorts hire other escorts?

[tj_forplay]

You know a dentist probably sees another dentist for dental work. Just curious if escorts do that too. Maybe for market research? Or for training? Or just checking out the competition?

[big-n-tall]

In a word, yes.

 

There are also escorts who contact other escorts to try to get a free session just because both are escorts.

 

One of the escorts I'm close with tells me he gets hit up by escorts all the time. Some are willing to pay and some talk to him as if they expect to get a free ride (pun intended). He turns down the ones trying to get a free session.

[caramelsub]

I always wondered this as well.

[hypothetically]

In a word, yes.

 

There are also escorts who contact other escorts to try to get a free session just because both are escorts.

 

One of the escorts I'm close with tells me he gets hit up by escorts all the time. Some are willing to pay and some talk to him as if they expect to get a free ride (pun intended). He turns down the ones trying to get a free session.

 

Lies. It goes a little something like this...

Escorts play with other escorts off the clock, frequently.

 

Other escorts seldom contact me with the intent to pay. And vice versa. Kind of common courtesy, although I tend to avoid playing with other escorts as it’s treacherous territory and can be a bit of a mindfuck.

 

Money only comes into play if one is not attracted to the other or the initiator is uncertain of the prospect’s interest. The prospect has the option to accept or decline the offer whether he’s into it or not. My rule of thumb is: if another escort contacts me during “business hours,” he will be paying my hourly, otherwise it’ll have to wait. Business before pleasure, always.

 

If it came down to it would I hire another escort for his time? Absolutely. Why? Because I know there will a time when I’m in a foreign place and horny and I certainly don’t have the patience to swipe through countless profiles on the dating apps. I can find exactly what I want amongst my “colleagues” and I would not expect not to pay while someone is trying to earn during, say, peak hours. Whether he wants me to pay or not is at the discretion of the other escort. But we haven’t got there yet, so. Let me not get ahead of myself lol.

Edited June 16, 2019 by hypothetically

[MrMattBig]

You know a dentist probably sees another dentist for dental work. Just curious if escorts do that too. Maybe for market research? Or for training? Or just checking out the competition?

Every aspect happens all the time.

Personally, I find it rather distasteful when another escort just assumes I'll be into them and fuck them for free, without even asking if I have any plans or appointments later.

Common courtesy and respect please.

But the overall answer is yes.

@hypothetically is spot on!

[big-n-tall]

Lies. It goes a little something like this...

Escorts play with other escorts off the clock, frequently.

 

Are you being facetious? If so, then as you were.

 

But if not...

What exactly is a lie? ...that escorts don't hire other escorts? ...that escorts sometimes pay for the session with another escort? ...or that sometimes some escorts do or expect a free session with other escorts?

 

I reiterated what was told to me (clearly not in as much detail as you did) by an escort I know rather well. Your experiences are your own and his are his. You admitted (as did @MrMattBig) exactly what I stated he said. It's just you seem to maybe experience the same things but at different levels. The only difference is my escort buddy said he has never knowingly seen another escort off the clock.

 

Whatever level or for whatever reason escorts hire or see other escorts, as I have said, it happens.

Edited June 16, 2019 by big-n-tall

[+ Charlie]

Many years ago, after a delightful afternoon appointment in NYC with a really hot escort, we cuddled up in bed with a copy of the Advocate "pink pages" (I told you this was many years ago!), and we compared notes on which escorts each of us knew. He said that he often had sex with other escorts, sometimes as a client and sometimes off the clock, depending on what the situation called for. Unfortunately, some time later he became emotionally involved with one of the escorts I knew, who was a gorgeous psycho--yes, escorts "fall in love with" escorts just as clients sometimes do--and it turned out badly for him.

[hypothetically]

Are you being facetious? If so, then as you were.

 

But if not...

What exactly is a lie? ...that escorts don't hire other escorts? ...that escorts sometimes pay for the session with another escort? ...or that sometimes some escorts do or expect a free session with other escorts?

 

I reiterated what was told to me (clearly not in as much detail as you did) by an escort I know rather well. Your experiences are your own and his are his. You admitted (as did @MrMattBig) exactly what I stated he said. It's just you seem to maybe experience the same things but at different levels. The only difference is my escort buddy said he has never knowingly seen another escort off the clock.

 

Whatever level or for whatever reason escorts hire or see other escorts, as I have said, it happens.

 

“Lies”’ per your escort friend turning down free rides.

 

Don’t take this personal, it’s not an attack, but I’m not a fan of clients so quick to elaborate on the escort experience in the “Ask An Escort,” section of the forum. I value many a perspective but what one allegedly heard from a close escort friend is hearsay. And then topics like this turn into glorified hearsay. Thank you for sharing but I’d love to hear more feedback from actual escorts. Let the escort share the escort experience?

[tj_forplay]

So it seems it's a common thing to give freebies between fellow escorts, as long as both are off the clock. But that just sounds like a regular hook up, which just makes sense. Instead of using Grindr it whatever, escorts use escort sites to find that NSA hookup.

 

It doesn't sound like escorts turn into paying clients themselves too often, for whatever reason they decide.

[marylander1940]

You know a dentist probably sees another dentist for dental work. Just curious if escorts do that too. Maybe for market research? Or for training? Or just checking out the competition?

 

They do… for market research, fun, or both. Now with Grindr and a likely hookup at the tip of their fingers they don't do it as often but I'm sure it happens.

 

Some escorts may not do it just out of discretion.

 

I have escorts who are my friends and my posts on this area are hearsay but my friends are honest people who tell it like it is. If they had a good week they tell me so and if they didn't they share that with me too.

[hypothetically]

Never have hired another escort but to be fair I haven't had even a random free hookup in over 2 years maybe even closer to 3 because I get calls/texts by clients at random so I like to save my energy and my big loads for my clients! I have a great time with clients and my regulars so theirs no need to look for sex off the clock I just wait until a client messages me

 

P.S...Does a client hiring me and another escort for a threesome count? Hehe but even then those happen rarely as well

 

You haven’t had casual sex in nearly 3 years? If not too personal a question, do you feel escorting has affected your personal sex life? As I would anticipate you’d like to have casual (free) sex, no? Unless you view sex strictly as a transaction. Again. If too invasive of a question. I respect you not answering.

[Kevin Slater]

I've been hired by a few escorts.

 

My few experiences on the other side of the equation are too tawdry to invoke the term escort.

 

Kevin Slater

[tyro]

I've been hired by a few escorts.

 

My few experiences on the other side of the equation are too tawdry to invoke the term escort.

 

Kevin Slater

You? Tawdry? Naaaah...

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[bendable2019]

Hmmm I’d love to off the clock with 10 escorts... ????

[big-n-tall]

“Lies”’ per your escort friend turning down free rides.

 

Don’t take this personal, it’s not an attack, but I’m not a fan of clients so quick to elaborate on the escort experience in the “Ask An Escort,” section of the forum. I value many a perspective but what one allegedly heard from a close escort friend is hearsay. And then topics like this turn into glorified hearsay. Thank you for sharing but I’d love to hear more feedback from actual escorts. Let the escort share the escort experience?

 

I didn't take it personally or as an attack. I was asking for clarity in what you meant. ?

 

I understand your point. I don't agree with the "lies" part. Since you don't know the circumstances of his choice, you're basing the comment on your choices... I get it. No harm or foul and it's all gravy.

Edited June 16, 2019 by big-n-tall

[+ OliverSaks]

No, but:

 

If I thought that @Mikegaite was into young thin dudes, I wouldn’t hesitate to hire for research purposes

[Aaron_Bauder]

• I've inquired with other escorts about off-clock play, and gotten a yes because they found me mutually attractive
  
• Hired other escorts (not often, a few times when traveling)
  
• I've asked escorts for off-clock play, and been turned down (no more upsetting than being turned down anywhere else)
  
• Played off-clock with other escorts I first connected with via a client who put together a group session (so, so hot)
  
• Turned down escorts I've met in a client-organized group, who were convinced by my in-session acting/performance that I was super duper into them when I wasn't really (awkward)
  
• I've been contacted by other escorts for off-clock play, and turned them down because they're not my type (some get really offended I'm not automatically into them, which is hilarious)
  
• Hooked up with guys, then later found out they escort, then worked together
  

All sorts of scenarios happen. I would love to date another escort, active or retired, because sex work is a barrier to dating the kind of Ivy League/military "I work a desk job" boy next door type I'm drawn to. But I wouldn't date someone who's not my type just because he escorts too.

 

Very few would turn down a free hookup with a guy they find really hot.

Edited June 16, 2019 by Aaron_Bauder

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

... are too tawdry

 

Your hoop skirt is showing. I'm hoping to catch a passing glance of a bare ankle.

 

I'm getting the vapors.

[+ glutes]

Not only do they hire fellow escorts, they come on here a write 'reviews', and promote.

 

[hypothetically]

Not only do they hire fellow escorts, they come on here a write 'reviews', and promote.

 

 

Zero lies detected, but I don’t see the relevance.

[Guy Fawkes]

So you. are saying the escorts are not allowed hire other escorts and then write a review. I think that their a rule about that on DR. It would appear that your just flapping your gums and in addition being rude to multiple people.

 

Who can submit a review?

Basically we accept reviews from anybody. If it's an unusual circumstance we expect you to be up front and mention that in the review.

For example: Reviewing your roommate, reviewing your agency, your phone number is the same as the reviewer)

If you don't we'll either decline the review or mark it as suspicious. Writing you own review is too narcissistic for even Daddy to handle.

 

Not only do they hire fellow escorts, they come on here a write 'reviews', and promote.

[bigvalboy]

Lies. It goes a little something like this...

Escorts play with other escorts off the clock, frequently.

 

Other escorts seldom contact me with the intent to pay. And vice versa. Kind of common courtesy, although I tend to avoid playing with other escorts as it’s treacherous territory and can be a bit of a mindfuck.

 

Money only comes into play if one is not attracted to the other or the initiator is uncertain of the prospect’s interest. The prospect has the option to accept or decline the offer whether he’s into it or not. My rule of thumb is: if another escort contacts me during “business hours,” he will be paying my hourly, otherwise it’ll have to wait. Business before pleasure, always.

 

If it came down to it would I hire another escort for his time? Absolutely. Why? Because I know there will a time when I’m in a foreign place and horny and I certainly don’t have the patience to swipe through countless profiles on the dating apps. I can find exactly what I want amongst my “colleagues” and I would not expect not to pay while someone is trying to earn during, say, peak hours. Whether he wants me to pay or not is at the discretion of the other escort. But we haven’t got there yet, so. Let me not get ahead of myself lol.

 

Well said!!

[Youngmilkman]

When I used to escort I'd spend my hard-earned cash on escorts ?

[+ keroscenefire]

I've noticed that some also hire each other to make porn videos on like just.for fans and stuff. Joshua Mann has hired Maus and Terry Boulevardman and others and filmed them for videos. Sounds like a good way to have a hot time and make some money.

[+ IronMaus]

I hire escorts for the same reasons my clients hire me. But because of how it can seem to other people, I don't talk about who and I won't review them. However, I will show them a good time!