Boys from Grindr, social media, SA, etc.

[+ BenjaminNicholas]

Any guy who calls me 'hun' would immediately get a block anyway

[kko123]

Things you’ll see on Grindr...next!

 

LOL

[PMintJack]

Been reading this thread with great interest. CL guys were my bread and butter for a long time. I was pretty careful and never got ripped off or put in a dangerous situation. Sure there were a few duds, but I struck gold a few times too.

A4A has worked well for me. It's all about being upfront about what you expect and what you are offering. And prices aren't set in stone. More than once I've decided I couldn't afford to meet a particular guy and he's immediately come back with a much better offer.

I've corresponded with a few guys on double list but haven't gotten lucky there yet. They are REALLY picky about what you are allowed to say in your ad.

I've had some luck on Grindr by putting "gen" in my profile... But I also get a lot of responses from guys who don't know what that means. Had a few awkward convos trying to figure out if a guy was talking to me because he was horny or just broke!

And finally, the day laborer fantasy... Have hired guys in the U-Haul parking lot to help me move apartments a few times and some of them were real hotties. They did good work and were really nice, so I never tried to get anything "extra". That will probably remain a fantasy...

[SirBillybob]

I need a roofer with enough stamina to bang all day on top of me.

[kko123]

Bumping this

[marylander1940]

It works on Grindr, and it’s fun. You need a very thick skin, high tolerance for rejection, and you need to be a little brave. But I’ve had great luck, met a few really cool guys. Previous suggestions have mentioned putting roses emoji ??in your profile, also ? works! I prefer the emojis to any outright text in my profile.

 

You may get reported (we have a forum member right here who reports generous and looking for generous on Grindr). But it’s unlikely. If a conversation gets contentious and you feel it going the wrong way...block the guy ASAP.

 

Damn you love to beat a dead horse...

 

Thank you from bringing this up, you're the one who bump this thread from the past not me nor @samhexum

 

At first I thought Grindr for escorts would be a bad thing and that's why I was against it. After much thought, reading posts by other members and talking with a few escorts I think I was wrong and Grindr would be a good thing for escorts.

 

1. Hiring or not is a big step in life we all have crossed at a different type and for different reasons. Grindr might be a way to make some folks hire someone they can't have for free because he's "out of their league". Later on that client after a few good experiences paying and getting exactly what he wants, when he wants and without drama (and some not to so good times spending hours texting and getting blocked) will move on to hire from RentMen.com.
   
2. I still think most of the guys offering money on Grindr do it because it might be cheaper and it's almost like hooking up, yet they're hiring... This might get rid of the guys asking for a 30 mins rate and other bottom feeders who after BP was shut down started harassing escorts on Rentmen.com
   
3. Caveat emptor: some folks start using it to attract men with fake pictures and mugging them if they don't give their wallet. Something like this happen a few blocks from my place at a hotel called Dorchester House to a well-known lawyer. I think it was either Back Page or Craigslist.
   

 

An escort recently posted that in Europe guys on Grindr are using diamond symbols to announce they are available to anybody who wants to pay. What if Grindr uses the system of Adam4Adam* and makes sure those advertising as escorts and making a profit from their site have one free account to have fun with their neighbors, and a paid one to be hired by other mostly older and out of shape men?

 

*After Sesta and Fosta I'm sure they'll never do it.

[marylander1940]

is it ok to advertise on grindr?

 

Considering you prefer broke straight men you should try tinder!

[DallasClient]

I use Grindr all the time. I introduced one who was really good, to Rent Men where he now has a page and does really well. I like 18-27 range and I find a lot of guys who are interested in a generous guy. I have several regulars. I also see several guys from Rent Men on Grindr.

[studchaser]

Considering you prefer broke straight men you should try tinder!

 

Lol i was asking becuz a poster seemed to indicate he was or wanted to. Alot of trannies and crossdressers use tindr to lure str8 guys n it works sometimes when the market for females is down or moving slow.

[marylander1940]

Wait, so are you guys just talking shit when ranting about escorts being “catfish,” having no reviews, little to no track record and sending questionable photos?

 

Because if not, interesting avenue you’ve chosen.

 

As @Benjamin_Nicholas said “beware of your surroundings” if you do this.

 

First I thought it would be bad for escorts and I even reported 2 guys who ask me for $ but now I think it will be good!

 

It will bring more guys into hiring after Grindr fatigue sets in. It will make hiring someone (they cannot have for free) a choice, more mainstream.

 

Later new clients will move to mainstream sites.

 

Just an alternate route...and don’t lump us all together

 

Please don’t lump us all together! I am not interested in a race to the bottom bragging about the cheapest amateur “hookup” I had last week with someone who’s not available to anybody else after a hour “hunt” while seated in a sofa...