Swallowing

[Quincy_7]

One of the few things I'm yet to try with an escort is swallowing their cum. It's something I find very hot in porn but never tried it myself because I don't know if there's an increased STD risk from swallowing. Is it safe to swallow?

[Nvr2Thick]

Oral sex itself is considered high risk for some STDs, if not HIV, regardless of whether you swallow. According to many sources swallowing cum does not increase that risk. I'd speculate that exposing semen and any skin-transferred STD to irritation in your mouth is where the risk starts. That can happen whether your partner ejaculates in your mouth, and/or you swallow, or not.

 

Googling "is swallowing cum risky" will bring up guidance from many good sources.

 

http://www.sfcityclinic.org/drk/oralsex13.asp

[+ keroscenefire]

NvR2Thick..is basically right. The risk of infection is in the mouth and throat and not in the stomach. One thing to remember is to avoid brushing/flossing your teeth about 30 minutes before any oral sex as that often creates lesions where bacteria can infect. Also generally avoid oral sex if you've had recent dental work or any mouth sores, gingivitis or even cavities, which can also increase the risk of infection. Whether the man ejaculates into your mouth doesn't matter as much as you might think as a lot of the bacterial STIs basically live at the tip of the urethra in the penis and can infect from there and herpes and genital warts can be infected just from skin contact. Possibly HIV might be the only one that you'll be less likely to get without ejaculation.

 

Generally though oral sex is a less risky behavior than sexual intercourse, particularly unprotected sexual intercourse. Though just because it is less risky does not mean it is risk-free. This article from the Journal of Global Infectious Studies has some good information: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC2840968/

 

TL: DR; Basically the better your oral hygiene is the less likely you are to get an STI through oral sex.

[Nvr2Thick]

Basically the better your oral hygiene is the less likely you are to get an STI through oral sex.

 

But if you're getting your mouth beat up servicing a particularly well hung, aggressive alpha all bets are off regarding oral hygiene.

 

Just thought I'd add that...

[+ keroscenefire]

But if you're getting your mouth beat up servicing a particularly well hung, aggressive alpha all bets are off regarding oral hygiene.

Very true...I think another key point is that you kinda have to trust the guy you're hiring and ask questions. I definitely don't think there is anything wrong with asking when the client has been tested for STIs, which STIs he's been tested for and even the places on his body where he was tested. Obviously if you are the receiving partner, the genitals matter the most, but STIs can be passed from mouth to genitals as well and not a lot of people test their throat culture for gonorrhea or chylamydia. And though it may not be as fun, you can do oral sex with a condom if you're unsure. Just be sure to ask because there are a few people in the business who have STIs but do not reveal that unless asked directly. I have encountered this myself. However, almost all will be willing to give you information so you can make and informed decision.

[+ Pensant]

Everything’s a horror show when you think with your big brain it seems.

[MscleLovr]

One of the few things I'm yet to try with an escort is swallowing their cum. It's something I find very hot in porn

 

This is something I find insanely hot. As a top, I love it when a fit young man enjoys me unloading in his mouth, swallows my load and drives me wild by keeping on sucking my cock until I’m totally drained.

 

A few years back when I hired, I was lucky enough to find several escorts who were talented cocksuckers and dedicated cum-swallowers. My favourite blond muscleboy was such a cum-hound that, as my cum hit the back of his throat, he himself would ejaculate hands-free.

[liubit]

I love to swallow. I find the sight of my partner’s face while he is cumming in my mouth, with his cock pulsating under my tongue and his body twitching, just priceless...priceless. And then sharing his load in deep passionate kisses is the cherry on the cake. As @MscleLovr says, this is insanely hot.

Edited December 20, 2018 by liubit

[+ PapaTony]

My motto: “Good to the last drop” and you damn well let me take my time nursing out every SINGLE drop. Don’t give me that twitchy, sensitive cock after shooting BS - what’s mine is mine and you’re not going to deny me.

[rvwnsd]

My motto: “Good to the last drop” and you damn well let me take my time nursing out every SINGLE drop. Don’t give me that twitchy, sensitive cock after shooting BS - what’s mine is mine and you’re not going to deny me.

My motto is:

 

Mean people suck

Nice people swallow

I'm VERY nice.

[bostonman]

I'm very much an oral guy, and have never really been interested in anal sex. (And in the relatively few times I've received anal, it's been with protection.) And yet I've been swallowing since embracing my sexuality in my late teens (I'm now in my 50's). I've never had an STD. Whether that's luck or prudence I don't know.

 

For me, swallowing is part of the fun of sexual male bonding. I know that many guys love the sensation of being able to shoot that way, and that makes it hotter for me - as well as my own feeling that I'm getting to share in his sperm in a very fun and sensual/sensorial way. (I imagine, yes, that guys who bareback would have a similar explanation, but for me, getting to actually taste a guy's semen is SO much more satisfying. For me, having it shot inside me during anal sex wouldn't be something I'd experience in the same satisfying way. I'd understand that it might feel great to my partner, but I wouldn't get the same kind of excitement out of it personally.)

 

I've even had fun talking about it with guys - this may sound silly, but one playfully erotic thing I like is to personalize a guy's load, because for me, swallowing IS about enjoying that particular guy's load. So, let's say hypothetically I'm hooking up with a guy named Tom - I might flirt with him by saying that I can't wait to taste his "Tom-flavored sperm" (Yeah, that may sound silly, but it often gets the right aroused reaction lol) - or, if afterwards, he asks me what it tasted like, I might look him in the eyes and smile and say "tastes like Tom." That might get a chuckle, but I can tell when a guy likes his ego, um, stroked like that. As I said, to me, swallowing is very intimate male-bonding, and how better to do that than to make it feel as personalized as I can?

[TruthBTold]

For me it is a spur of the moment thing but always my choice. I cannot have someone hold my head down and force me to swallow. On the other hand there are times when I absolutely love to build the sex to the point where he shoots and I keep his cock in my mouth during the whole process.

[rvwnsd]

For me it is a spur of the moment thing but always my choice. I cannot have someone hold my head down and force me to swallow. On the other hand there are times when I absolutely love to build the sex to the point where he shoots and I keep his cock in my mouth during the whole process.

Same here. Someone holding my head on his cock is a complete and total turn off.

[marylander1940]

My only advice: no asparagus for the guy feeding

[marylander1940]

But if you're getting your mouth beat up servicing a particularly well hung, aggressive alpha all bets are off regarding oral hygiene.

 

Just thought I'd add that...

 

Not my cup of tea either but to each his own.

 

 

As a precaution, mouthwash before and specially after.

 

[bostonman]

As a precaution, mouthwash before and specially after.

 

Yes.

[marylander1940]

Yes.

 

I couldn't find the article about using mouthwash to prevent STDs on here...

[bostonman]

I couldn't find the article about using mouthwash to prevent STDs on here...

 

I didn't know there was an article, per se, but I've always felt mouthwash certainly isn't a bad idea, whether it's really effective or not.

[+ Keith30309]

https://www.verywellhealth.com/does-mouthwash-reduce-risk-of-oral-stds-4124069

 

....gargling with an antiseptic mouthwash such as Listerine before sex may reduce your risk of transmitting any oral STD to your partner. (It's theoretically possible that gargling after sex might reduce your risk of catching such an STD. However, it's very hard to do that research ethically. As such, there isn't any clear data.)

Is gargling with mouthwash as good as using oral sex barriers for preventing the spread of oral STDs? Absolutely not. However, it looks like, for at least some STDs, it is definitely better than doing nothing.

[+ Charlie]

In my wild, impetuous youth, I was completely unaware that one could get an STD of any kind from sucking cock, so I indulged that impulse enthusiastically. (STDs were not discussed in those days, and some of the now common ones weren't known--I had never heard of anything but syphilis and gonorrhea, and assumed both were transmitted only by fucking.) It wasn't until I had contracted a couple of nasty throat infections that I realized that insertion of a cock in any orifice carried some danger, with or without ejaculation. By then the connection between cock-sucking and sexual excitement had become so firmly imprinted on my brain that it was impossible to eradicate. Alas! None of the safer practices have ever brought me the same level of satisfaction.

Edited January 23, 2019 by Charlie

[suckersnj]

I'm very much an oral guy, and have never really been interested in anal sex. (And in the relatively few times I've received anal, it's been with protection.) And yet I've been swallowing since embracing my sexuality in my late teens (I'm now in my 50's). I've never had an STD. Whether that's luck or prudence I don't know.

 

For me, swallowing is part of the fun of sexual male bonding. I know that many guys love the sensation of being able to shoot that way, and that makes it hotter for me - as well as my own feeling that I'm getting to share in his sperm in a very fun and sensual/sensorial way. (I imagine, yes, that guys who bareback would have a similar explanation, but for me, getting to actually taste a guy's semen is SO much more satisfying. For me, having it shot inside me during anal sex wouldn't be something I'd experience in the same satisfying way. I'd understand that it might feel great to my partner, but I wouldn't get the same kind of excitement out of it personally.)

 

I've even had fun talking about it with guys - this may sound silly, but one playfully erotic thing I like is to personalize a guy's load, because for me, swallowing IS about enjoying that particular guy's load. So, let's say hypothetically I'm hooking up with a guy named Tom - I might flirt with him by saying that I can't wait to taste his "Tom-flavored sperm" (Yeah, that may sound silly, but it often gets the right aroused reaction lol) - or, if afterwards, he asks me what it tasted like, I might look him in the eyes and smile and say "tastes like Tom." That might get a chuckle, but I can tell when a guy likes his ego, um, stroked like that. As I said, to me, swallowing is very intimate male-bonding, and how better to do that than to make it feel as personalized as I can?

[alrajee]

I did it once—and only once—to a man I had the hots for. (Well, still do.)

I had always used protection with anal and could not figure out for the life of me why I swallowed.

Thankfully, I came out with a clean bill of health, but I swore never to do it again.