My go to guy has a kid!

[+ FreshFluff]

Is this a more personal relationship than you realized @topinla? After all, you are topping him a lot!

 

If this gets any more intimate, topinla will be paying child support.

[+ purplekow]

Now if he had a hot 25 year old son I might consider asking if I

could do the son too.

[+ WilliamM]

You know what @WilliamM you could be right on this. I have not thought about it that way. But I am paying him for his time so in a way it is a business relationship than a personal one.

 

I had a similar experience long ago when the extremely attractive office janitor asked me if I wanted to play tennis. I feel in love after the first set.

 

Not based on any financial arrangements, we had occasionally talked about tennis, but I over 10 years older. We did talk about attending the U.S., but he could not afford it.

Edited November 29, 2018 by WilliamM

[+ purplekow]

You were game. Then you were set. What a match. Love may be nothing in tennis but it everything everywhere else.

[+ purplekow]

I had a similar experience long ago when the extremely attractive office janitor asked me if I wanted to play tennis. I feel in love after the first set.

6-0 6-0?? He must have been a very experienced player.

[+ friendofsheila]

I guess I can understand seeing him again, and thinking right away of him having a child nearby.

 

I would say if the idea of his having a child enters your head when you are with him, do your best to concentrate on

 

1) him peeling his clothes off and the parts of his body you like

2) the hot hole he wants you to turn into a freeway tunnel for your Pelvic Prius

3) his grunts and gasps of pleasure

 

Thinking about those things right now sure drive off the thought of anything else in my mind!

[marylander1940]

I’ve been seeing this guy for a couple of months now. He escorts on the down low. Hot as but gay for pay, which didn’t bother me because we usually do what I wanted to do which is topping him. I have booked to see him again this weekend but today I saw him in public. With a kid in tow. He saw me, gave me a nod and I responded with a nod. I sent him a message tonight asking him about the kid. He admits it is his and that he is co-raising it with a woman he no longer has a relationship with but that they are still friends.

 

When we get together we never talked about our personal lives. Just general chit chat. So now I’m a bit anxious about seeing him this weekend. I don’t want to bring it up but I know it will be at the back of my mind.

 

What are your thoughts guys?

 

I guess he's a hot daddy now!

[+ Axiom2001]

Although you have thanked your previous respondees, I just wanted to chime in that I have been with guys who are married or have girl friends: they consider themselves to be bisexual; a few have kids.

I DID NOT or DO NOT let that bother me, for if the guy is responsive sexually and "rocks my world"--that is ALL that matters.

 

My super hot and very hung and highly talented go-to-guy in San Francisco considers himself to be bi sexual,but he likes to take fingers up the arse as well as be furiously rimmed, but when he fucked me into oblivion during our last play session, I asked him if he'd ever been fucked. His response was NO, and if I understood him correctly [...both quite euphoric after havin' partaken in some very mellow blow] he relayed if he were into the person or when he found one to which there was some connection.]

 

He has a child also. ...showed me a photo of which I was NOT too interested, but I made some polite comments and we went from there.

 

If he desires to share some personal information, I let him present it; I don't question or discuss. Both of us have connected on varying levels, and that's my prime concern.

[topinla]

I guess I can understand seeing him again, and thinking right away of him having a child nearby.

 

I would say if the idea of his having a child enters your head when you are with him, do your best to concentrate on

 

1) him peeling his clothes off and the parts of his body you like

2) the hot hole he wants you to turn into a freeway tunnel for your Pelvic Prius

3) his grunts and gasps of pleasure

 

Thinking about those things right now sure drive off the thought of anything else in my mind!

 

We caught up today and well guess what? The idea of him having a child did enter my mind as he went down on me. For a few seconds it lingered in my mind but disappeared as soon as I saw my cock disappear deep into his mouth.

 

Neither of us mentioned about the child. Whew!

[LookingAround]

I can’t figure out why him having a child could even remotely be a factor or cause for even a pause. Maybe I’m missing something.

[+ azdr0710]

I can’t figure out why him having a child could even remotely be a factor or cause for even a pause. Maybe I’m missing something.

 

there are many forum members here (not including me) who have no interest in messing around with a dude who has even a passing interest in a female..........is what you're missing ......

Edited November 18, 2018 by azdr0710

[+ E.T.Bass]

there are many forum members here (not including me) who have no interest in messing around with a dude who has even a passing interest in a female..........is what you're missing ......

...yet the OP makes a point of the idea his hire is a straight dude (that bottoms)

[LookingAround]

Why, do you think they’re contaminated? Lol. I’m 1110% gay have never been with a woman and prefer gay guys only. But I’m not freaked if an escort has a kid from a prior involvement.

[+ E.T.Bass]

Perhaps he can't reconcile never being able to get him pregnant, while knowing his hire is already a father ten years.

Good thing we are here too provide free talk therapy, now that he's asked for it.