"Go get AIDS, queer" - Reese

[NJmusclelover]

I rarely log on here anymore, for no reason other than I have not engaged with any escorts or masseurs in some time and my priorities have overall shifted. However, a text exchange I had earlier this evening angered me enough that I felt moved to stop by.

 

Several months ago, I reached out to an escort named Reese who is based in Las Vegas. I saw that his travel schedule included an upcoming NYC visit, and was intrigued by his photos and stats. I never heard back, and did not give it much thought. I figured it was the universe doing me a favor and life carried on.

 

This evening, I was out to dinner when I received a text from a 646 number alerting me to the sender's brand new OnlyFans account. He said he hoped I would follow, and attempted to sell me by describing several "hard cock videos" he'd recorded. I responded honestly: "Who is this?" In reply, he simply linked me to his RM ad: https://rentmen.eu/REESE

 

I then told him that I was not an OnlyFans subscriber, and that as he had never responded to my inquiry some months ago I wasn't particularly interested in his videos. I then deleted the thread from my phone, as I was out to dinner celebrating my birthday, so I unfortunately do not have evidence of this exchange.

 

After dinner, I checked my phone for new messages and saw I had received three from "Reese." Technically two, with one being a spelling clarification:

 

 

You can believe my story, or don't. I don't really care. If you for any reason believe a (likely straight) escort telling a complete stranger to "Go get AIDS" is deserved, we have nothing to say to each other. But if you, like me, are a gay man with an understanding of the history of AIDS and its decimation of so many of our brothers, you will understand my outrage. This man does not deserve a dime from any one of us. It's time that we stop giving cisgendered, straight men our business and our attention just because they fit a physical ideal we have been engrained to put above all else. I am tired of men like this. I am tired of being "baby" until I am determined unprofitable, until I am a "homo," a "queer." I am DONE.

I just talked to him he said he would contact you

[BabyBoomer]

I just talked to him he said he would contact you

 

Hopefully, with an apology.

 

~Boomer~

[marylander1940]

Hopefully, with an apology.

 

~Boomer~

 

or a death threat!

[caliguy]

I just talked to him he said he would contact you

I'm pretty sure that if someone called me a queer and a homo and told me to go get AIDS I'd be done with them. Not into the battered wife syndrome BS. I'm sorry I didn't mean it. Bullshit. Lol

Edited November 11, 2018 by caliguy

[+ harey]

At first glance, it appears this thread has cost Reese a good deal of money.

[Jomo]

I don't hire for muscle worship. I certainly don't hire to be degraded. He didn't lose any money from me

[+ Topseed]

Many thanks to GoldenGrill for bringing this to light. This took guts, and I salute you.

 

I want to believe in redemption. I’m not sure it’s possible here.

[+ oldNbusted]

I want to believe in redemption. I’m not sure it’s possible here.

 

I want to believe also. I think it's possible, but not easy, so perhaps not likely.

[Gymowner]

telling someone to go and die, especially from such a horrible horrible disease allows noone in my book to stick up for such actions...period!

[GoldenGrill]

I want to thank everyone who has shown their support in response to my post. Reese did in fact contact me today, claiming to be sorry and that he is "not the kind of person" he showed himself to be with those messages. He claimed that he was impaired by alcohol, and that as an escort who specializes in domination scenes he is often asked to use homophobic and/or racist language towards johns - thus why "homo" and "queer" rolled off his tongue so easily. I responded, and I maintain, that one's state of mind is no excuse for such conduct... if he was not comfortable using those words outside of client sessions, no amount of alcohol would have brought them out in that moment. Period.

[coriolis888]

 

I want to thank everyone who has shown their support in response to my post. Reese did in fact contact me today, claiming to be sorry and that he is "not the kind of person" he showed himself to be with those messages. He claimed that he was impaired by alcohol, and that as an escort who specializes in domination scenes he is often asked to use homophobic and/or racist language towards johns - thus why "homo" and "queer" rolled off his tongue so easily. I responded, and I maintain, that one's state of mind is no excuse for such conduct... if he was not comfortable using those words outside of client sessions, no amount of alcohol would have brought them out in that moment. Period.

 

 

I hope you realize that the "escort" apologized only because he will lose future revenue because of this negative thread.

 

Obviously, he will still earn money from clients who are not aware of the things he said to you, verified by your screen shots of his conversation.

 

Alcohol is no excuse. Alcohol merely reduces inhibitions allowing the person to say and do the things they really mean or want to do.

 

If you are leaning toward accepting his apology and hiring him, be sure to go through the exercise I described in my post number 6, above

 

https://www.hide.me/en/proxy

 

You will be able to read the hidden narratives written by clients who have met him and who state that the photos are not of him and/or the photos are heavily edited.

 

Good luck on what ever you decide.

[+ oldNbusted]

So now he's admitting he's not alway in control of himself? That's not a good look for someone who specializes in domination scenes.

 

Having said that, I think a few words fall way short in this situation.

[GoldenGrill]

I hope you realize that the "escort" apologized only because he will lose future revenue because of this negative thread.

 

Obviously, he will still earn money from clients who are not aware of the things he said to you, verified by your screen shots of his conversation.

 

Alcohol is no excuse. Alcohol merely reduces inhibitions allowing the person to say and do the things they really mean or want to do.

 

If you are leaning toward accepting his apology and hiring him, be sure to go through the exercise I described in my post number 6, above

 

https://www.hide.me/en/proxy

 

You will be able to read the hidden narratives written by clients who have met him and who state that the photos are not of him and/or the photos are heavily edited.

 

Good luck on what ever you decide.

 

I have no interest in hiring him, and you basically reiterated everything I've already said. Thanks just the same.

[rvwnsd]

It is great to hear that so many men have been "out" to themselves and to others since they were but wee lads.

[Gymowner]

interesting that rosanne lost a huge mega million dollar contract for saying something off putting and ignorant yet not nearly as offensive as "i hope you get aids and die". boycotts all over the place until she lost everything. i hope we as a community can do the same for this level of hateful intolerance with the same said outcome. if not, then we should be ashamed of ourselves to put a muscled body and "getting off" above our humanity and dignity.

[studchaser]

I want to thank everyone who has shown their support in response to my post. Reese did in fact contact me today, claiming to be sorry and that he is "not the kind of person" he showed himself to be with those messages. He claimed that he was impaired by alcohol, and that as an escort who specializes in domination scenes he is often asked to use homophobic and/or racist language towards johns - thus why "homo" and "queer" rolled off his tongue so easily. I responded, and I maintain, that one's state of mind is no excuse for such conduct... if he was not comfortable using those words outside of client sessions, no amount of alcohol would have brought them out in that moment. Period.

 

best spin i ever heard. even better than Sara Sanders. Awesome.

 

Now dont villify all str8 guys. I know alot of very humble str8 guys from small towns who are so appreciative to get to meet new ppl especially being from towns with no industry. Sometimes its hard for guys from nyc miami n vegas to remain humble livin the fast life when they are in such demand. i make it my mission to give the guys not on the a list a shot vs the same 3 or 4 guys.

Edited November 12, 2018 by studchaser

[Gymowner]

I for one usually hire only straight guys. For reasons I've mention on the boards in the past. Most straight guys are awesome! Was at piranha nightclub last night. Met a guy that was a hottie. Vibe he was straight. Sure enough his girl came over. Had a great open chat with him. He even mentioned he did a solo video in the past for a porn company. Man he was just an easy going awesome guy.

 

Cant agree more to not pigeonhole everyone into being a hater. That being said, when we do come across one... hit him where it hurts the most...not on the chin...in his pocketbook!

[Mo Mason]

Yeah, the "homo" and "queer" thing I could forgive from a drunk text because I don't find those words offensive anymore, and as a recovering alcoholic I've sent my share of drunk texts and online comments that I wish others would look past. I'm definitely into forgiveness for this type of behavior. But bringing AIDS into it, and from a straight guy... that's where he crossed the line.

 

But I do love me some straight guys, usually.

[Blade9]

I’ve heard way worse from the mouths and minds of gay guys. Way worse. For myself, I never would have responded to his text asking me to subscribe to his channel. Consequently, none of this would have happened.

 

B

[GoldenGrill]

I’ve heard way worse from the mouths and minds of gay guys. Way worse. For myself, I never would have responded to his text asking me to subscribe to his channel. Consequently, none of this would have happened.

 

B

 

So you're saying this is my fault? You guys will really twist yourselves into pretzels to defend straight, muscular men huh...

[+ E.T.Bass]

The market is there!

 

In big cities with so many gay men around women have to lower their requirements and hope the guy will call back and not move on who whoever is next.

 

When I was in the Navy I had sex with plenty of truly straight men, maybe that's why I don't hire them.

 

That was very generous of you to help out your straight comrades. But sounds like you don't have fond memories of it?

[+ FrankR]

Reese did in fact contact me today, claiming to be sorry and that he is "not the kind of person" he showed himself to be with those messages. He claimed that he was impaired by alcohol, and that as an escort who specializes in domination scenes he is often asked to use homophobic and/or racist language towards johns - thus why "homo" and "queer" rolled off his tongue so easily.

 

Thank you, church lady!

[KeepItReal]

So you're saying this is my fault? You guys will really twist yourselves into pretzels to defend straight, muscular men huh...

Shifting the blame is a true and tested approach. Glad you recognized it for what it is.

[caliguy]

I’ve heard way worse from the mouths and minds of gay guys. Way worse. For myself, I never would have responded to his text asking me to subscribe to his channel. Consequently, none of this would have happened.

 

B

Maybe in your circles you hear it. Probably a real reality for those that lack class, morality, or any basic understanding of history. Sounds like it might even turn you on.

Edited November 12, 2018 by caliguy

[caliguy]

Shifting the blame is a true and tested approach. Glad you recognized it for what it is.

The superior man would kick their asses for saying that. Of coarse writing up the experience on Daddies will suffice as well.