"Go get AIDS, queer" - Reese

[creoleblanche]

I am completely surprised by this thread. Not by all the opinions of respondents who wouldn't have hired him in the first place, or outrage (understandable) of his comment, but that it would have happened at all.

 

Just my opinion, but I would give the guy the benefit of the doubt regarding the sincerity of his apology. This is based on 18 of 19 positive reviews on Daddy & 37 of 38 positive reviews on RM https://rentmen.eu/REESE/reviews/, as well as 59 (!) videos on RM showing what he looks like now. I'm sorry, but you can't fake all of that. We all have done or said things we've regretted, at least I have.

[marylander1940]

I’ve heard way worse from the mouths and minds of gay guys. Way worse. For myself, I never would have responded to his text asking me to subscribe to his channel. Consequently, none of this would have happened.

 

B

 

1:50

 

What exactly does that sick individual say to you?

 

[KeepItReal]

Just my opinion, but I would give the guy the benefit of the doubt regarding the sincerity of his apology. This is based on 18 of 19 positive reviews on Daddy & 37 of 38 positive reviews on RM https://rentmen.eu/REESE/reviews/, as well as 59 (!) videos on RM showing what he looks like now. I'm sorry, but you can't fake all of that. We all have done or said things we've regretted, at least I have.

 

Perhaps you would care to reconsider when you look at all the rentmen reviews? It sounds like there is more to the story...

 

Go to his ad as shown in the initial start of this thread and then click on reviews. There are more than 30 reviews.

 

https://rentmen.eu/REESE

 

Next - go to this site - https://hide.me/en/proxy

 

Copy the review link from the ad and paste it in the above link.

 

By using the hide.me link, you will be able to read the narrative reviews of the escort that are not normally shown to U.S. readers.

 

Notice that there are a few bad reviews and that several of the reviews say the escorts photos are not of him and/or are heavily edited.

 

Those reviews that say the photos do not match the escort contradict what the escort says in his ad.

 

Many of the written reviews that flatter the escort appear to have a same writing style. There is a good possibility the flattering reviews were written by the same person.

 

In view of the above, I am not surprised that the escort sent such a nasty response to you. His mask slipped and his true feeling came out in written form.

[creoleblanche]

Perhaps you would care to reconsider when you look at all the rentmen reviews? It sounds like there is more to the story...

 

I'm just looking at the 5 stars. What am I missing re: written reviews?

[caliguy]

1:50

 

What exactly does that sick individual say to you?

 

Ha. You gotta wonder how many people he texts back with his insults. You just know Goldengrill wasn't the first or last.

[MisterMike]

I'm tempted to do some texting of my own.

[GoldenGrill]

I'm sorry, but you can't fake all of that. We all have done or said things we've regretted, at least I have.

 

Yes, I cannot tell you how many times I have wished AIDS, Alzheimers, or cancer on someone in the heat of the moment. We're only human!

[instudiocity]

It's no more appropriate for homosexuals to adopt for their own use queer and faggot than is it appropriate for black people to use the N-word and be offended by other races using it.

 

If a word can offend -- even members of the group it would offend should not co-opt it, ever.

[marylander1940]

Ha. You gotta wonder how many people he texts back with his insults. You just know Goldengrill wasn't the first or last.

 

Exactly @GoldenGrill it's never their first homophobic temper tantrum... yet there's always a chance for escalation.

 

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Timothy_J._Boham

 

http://www.newnownext.com/gay-porn-star-and-girlfriend-arrested-for-murder-of-his-millionaire-boyfriend/12/2015/

 

www.thesmokinggun.com/buster/donald-burns/gay-porn-star-convicted-of-extortion-675920

 

https://nypost.com/2010/07/16/porn-actors-charged-in-murder-of-florida-tattoo-artist/

[GeoMitch]

Sorry. The message you received from Reese was totally unacceptable. Makes you question his judgement in other matters, as well.

[+ FreshFluff]

I want to thank everyone who has shown their support in response to my post. Reese did in fact contact me today, claiming to be sorry and that he is "not the kind of person" he showed himself to be with those messages. He claimed that he was impaired by alcohol, and that as an escort who specializes in domination scenes he is often asked to use homophobic and/or racist language towards johns - thus why "homo" and "queer" rolled off his tongue so easily. I responded, and I maintain, that one's state of mind is no excuse for such conduct... if he was not comfortable using those words outside of client sessions, no amount of alcohol would have brought them out in that moment. Period.

 

He was scared that you'd send the screenshot to Str8UpGayPorn or similar outlets.

[coriolis888]

 

Yes, I cannot tell you how many times I have wished AIDS, Alzheimer's, or cancer on someone in the heat of the moment. We're only human!

 

 

You are the originator of this thread.

 

Please tell me your statement is a joke that I am missing!

 

Anyone who would repeatedly wish those horrible afflictions on another person "in the heat of the moment" cannot be rational or normal by everyday standards.

 

Is it really "only human" to wish those horrible diseases on someone merely because of "the heat of the moment"?

 

Now I wonder what you said to Reese that made him write those awful things in messages to you.

 

Color me shocked and disappointed!

Edited November 12, 2018 by coriolis888

[marylander1940]

You are the originator of this thread.

 

Please tell me your statement is a joke that I am missing!

 

Anyone who would repeatedly wish those horrible afflictions on another person "in the heat of the moment" cannot be rational or normal by everyday standards.

 

Is it really "only human" to wish those horrible diseases on someone merely because of "the heat of the moment"?

 

Now I wonder what you said to Reese that made him write those awful things in messages to you.

 

Color me shocked and disappointed!

 

@GoldenGrill statement was sarcasm!

[marylander1940]

... We all have done or said things we've regretted, at least I have.

 

No doubt but even in the heat of the moment I have never wish someone AIDS, cancer, etc. in his face nor by text... and by text at least you have a few seconds to think before clicking send.

[Gymowner]

I text him about 8 months ago. Told him what I was interested in. He quoted me his price "x". I replied back that for what I was looking for other top notch escorts I give them "y" and they are happy. He then replied back with a lol then said " I wouldn't get out of bed for "y". You better stickto your "top notch" escorts then. Little did he know that one is a very good friend of his!

 

Appears he has disdain for his way of making money to fund his lifestyle. If all goes well he may or may not show up for the appointment (this has happened to many here), yet if you challenge his position, very arrogant or down right vile things come out showing his true regards.

 

I wouldnt be surprised when he text the "go get aids and die queer" he was partying it up and had a good laugh with all around him.

[+ Pensant]

I find him most unappealing.

[GoldenGrill]

You are the originator of this thread.

 

Please tell me your statement is a joke that I am missing!

 

Anyone who would repeatedly wish those horrible afflictions on another person "in the heat of the moment" cannot be rational or normal by everyday standards.

 

Is it really "only human" to wish those horrible diseases on someone merely because of "the heat of the moment"?

 

Now I wonder what you said to Reese that made him write those awful things in messages to you.

 

Color me shocked and disappointed!

 

Google "hyperbole," sweetheart.

[+ FreshFluff]

The market is there!

 

In big cities with so many gay men around women have to lower their requirements and hope the guy will call back and not move on who whoever is next.

 

Even if this is true, these women are lowering their requirements for a relationship. They can easily get no strings sex for free, and on their terms. Back in the days of CL an AdultFriendFinder, men on those site would complain that the women on there were all fakes.

[caliguy]

@GoldenGrill statement was sarcasm!

Gilda Radner award today.

[Caddy33]

I had an appointment with Reese in July. I was really excited about seeing him. One hour before our appointment he texted me again for my room number at Paris Las Vegas.

 

I waited and waited. Again I waited but no Reese. I texted about if he was going to show. No reply, no show.

 

I’ve had some great times with Zeb Atlas (my first), Rafael Alencar, Nick Capra, Derek Atlas, Peter Hung, Derek Parker, and just last week JamesXL(no longer advertising) and 2 nights with Giovanni Volta.

 

Thus, I’m so glad I didn’t waste my money on Reese because he is a real loser in my opinion.

[Blade9]

So you're saying this is my fault? You guys will really twist yourselves into pretzels to defend straight, muscular men huh...

 

Nope. Not at all. I was speaking for myself. No twisting here. Not defending anyone. Straight or otherwise. Everyone is responsible for their own actions.

 

B

[builder boy]

I feel badly this happened and was your experience. I have never had an issue with him and have been vocal affirmative about others seeing him as well.

I agree his reaction was not acceptable, but I also think knowing him as I do, he regrets the reaction he gave. Just my 2cents.

[+ FrankR]

I feel badly this happened and was your experience. I have never had an issue with him and have been vocal affirmative about others seeing him as well.

I agree his reaction was not acceptable, but I also think knowing him as I do, he regrets the reaction he gave. Just my 2cents.

I appreciate your perspective and personal knowledge of the man. Trying hard to put myself in your shoes; it leaves me with a dilemma of sorts: 1. Would I continue to be a vocal advocate for him after this behavior (considering that this may not be an isolated incident) and 2. Would I continue to spend time/money by seeing him again?

 

Your thoughts?

[builder boy]

I am not condoning anything he said, and obviously these remarks were some of the worst things to say, but for me personally he's been great. I have plenty of not great experiences and shared them here, and I am sure many have still continued to see the "said Person", I think Reese acted without thinking clearly, but I don't think he's a villain or bad guy and my experiences have been first rare. I am NOT excusing his remarks and feel badly for the incident, so yes it's unfortunate Fall all parties. I do believe Reese agrees it was a terrible mistake though as well.

[Tonyko]

In vino veritas. Nuff said.