Escort giving you drugs without yr consent?....

[+ Italiano]

Sorry for this perhaps stupid question and thread. But I am quite distressed.

 

I hired yesterday a guy, went to his place, nice friendly latino guy, the first thing he asked me as soon as I was inside his apartment was if I wanted a drink to warm up the engines and relax.

It was 1:30 pm so I wasn't really in the mood, but he insisted, I accepted and he poured in a little glass a little tequila. He bizarrely insisted that I would drink it in one shot, "like tequila should be drunk".

 

I found it a bit odd but really I didn't think too much. I like tequila, it was really just a little and I enjoyed it.

The encounter was so-so, after I left I even sent him a text expressing the fact that I was a bit disappointed (he was hot and passionate but he couldn't really get hard), but he didn't even reply...

After 1/2 hour I started to feel really up and full of energy. I walked 35 blocks in Manhattan (it was hot!) and felt great. I took the subway to go back home and slowly I started to feel sort of edgy, hyper, a little goose bumps throughout my body, and very dry mouth.

At home I measured my blood pressure and heart rate and both were a bit higher than normal. A little difficulty to pee.

This bizarre feeling continued throughout the evening, I tried to think what could have caused it and the only thing I had shortly after I left his apartment was a bottle of natural juice with spirulina at a Starbucks.

I tried to look online and read that spirulina can actually rarely give some similar symptoms.

I looked at myself in the mirror and I saw my pupils were a bit dilated...

All of a sudden I recalled the weird tequila little episode, a thought came to my mind and I started to look online at Ecstasy's effects and side effects. It was EXACTLY what was happening to me! I had to take a little natural things plus a little lorazepam in order to stop the edginess.

It's 7 am and I couldn't sleep a single minute! I still feel a bit edgy, my heart rate is a bit high and of course I feel like shit for the total lack of sleep. And I have been with a total lack of appetite since yesterday (I only had breakfast) which is also another matched symptom. I am a foodie, for me it doesn't exist skipping dinner.

I cannot proof he did it, but I have NEVER taken any heavy drug in my life apart from a few joints. I don't even use poppers!

At one point during sex he told me that we had only 10 minutes left (not even 40 minutes had passed by...) unless I wanted to extend to another hour. At that point I said I wasn't interested, finished, showered and left.

Now I think that if he DID put something in my tequila perhaps it was in order to make me want more and more sex with him, as I read that Ecstasy can make you much more aroused.

I don't see any other reason.

The tequila didn't have any weird taste.

I don't know what to think, I sent him another message questioning him about the drink but of course he didn't reply, perhaps he blocked me after I expressed my dissatisfaction with the session.

 

I am quite distressed, I hate the idea that this happened FOR REAL, if it did it is really a crime and he was a fucking bastard.

And of course I am pissed at myself (IF it happened, but hey, there is no other reason for me to feel how I feel!) for being SO naive and SO stupid.

I am not savvy with drugs at all, and I don't have really anybody I can talk about what happened.

 

Any thoughts?

[+ poolboy48220]

Stating the obvious, but anyone, escort or otherwise, giving you drugs without your consent or even knowledge is wrong.

[+ nycman]

Unless it is a very close friend, never drink anything

from an open container that someone else gives you.

 

Ever.

 

First lesson in Homo 101.

 

I’m sorry you had to learn the hard way.

Be thankful....it could have been MUCH worse.....

 

It also works both ways. I don’t ever serve an escort

something that I haven’t handed to them to open

and break the seal first. I keep several varieties of liquor

around in “airplane bottles” for just such an occasion.

If I’m pouring or mixing their drink....I never, ever, take

it out of their sight while I’m preparing it. That way, if

they get home later and start “feeling a little funny”...

they know it’s the Tequila and the heat....not something

that was in their drink. The paraniod mind is a powerful thing.

[+ Italiano]

I still wonder WHY he did it....

[+ nycman]

I still wonder WHY he did it....

There’s a reason they call it “dope”.

[+ glutes]

[MartyB]

Feel so bad for you. Scary "shit". Feel better. Xoxo

[LookingAround]

Unless you can prove it let it go. Personally I’m not convinced as I really don’t see a motive. Also drugs aren’t cheap. Why would he spend part of his revenue giving you something.

[MartyB]

Unless you can prove it let it go. Personally I’m not convinced as I really don’t see a motive. Also drugs aren’t cheap. Why would he spend part of his revenue giving you something.

I'm with our friend here regarding what may have transpired. Not a coincidence in my opinion. Only thing I ever take in an escorts place is drink tap or bottled water. Now I'm glad I do.

[MikeBiDude]

Unless it is a very close friend, never drink anything

from an open container that someone else gives you.

 

Ever.

 

First lesson in Homo 101.

+1000 times

 

I don’t even offer my gentleman callers anything that’s not in a sealed bottle...because they usually know Class 101!

[gallahadesquire]

I like to have a Martini,

Two at the very most--

Three, and I'm under the table,

Four, and I'm under the Host.

= Dorothy Parker

[+ Italiano]

Unless you can prove it let it go. Personally I’m not convinced as I really don’t see a motive. Also drugs aren’t cheap. Why would he spend part of his revenue giving you something.

Of course I can’t prove it so I will let it go.

I hear you, it sounds very weird. But I don’t understand your statement “I am not convinced”....

I don’t see a motive either (apart from a possible one) and it sounds quite bizarre that he did it for the reason I think he did it.

Nevertheless, the alternative is that I have (still!) by accident ALL the symptoms of Ecstasy’s side effects coincidentally at the right time when they should have happened because?....

After 20 hours I still have high heart beats, high blood pressure (and I am perfectly healthy), I feel restless, edgy, confused, total loss of appetite (me of all people!) without feeling nauseous or stomach sick and I didn’t sleep one minute since yesterday morning.

And the only thing out of ordinary I did yesterday was drinking those sips of tequila.

And believe me, it’s not my first tequila in my life.

Don’t know what to say.

[bnm73]

Of course I can’t prove it so I will let it go.

I hear you, it sounds very weird. But I don’t understand your statement “I am not convinced”....

I don’t see a motive either (apart from a possible one) and it sounds quite bizarre that he did it for the reason I think he did it.

Nevertheless, the alternative is that I have (still!) by accident ALL the symptoms of Ecstasy’s side effects coincidentally at the right time when they should have happened because?....

After 20 hours I still have high heart beats, high blood pressure (and I am perfectly healthy), I feel restless, edgy, confused, total loss of appetite (me of all people!) without feeling nauseous or stomach sick and I didn’t sleep one minute since yesterday morning.

And the only thing out of ordinary I did yesterday was drinking those sips of tequila.

And believe me, it’s not my first tequila in my life.

Don’t know what to say.

 

Well, is sounds like you MIGHT have been slipped the old Mickey Finn.

 

You COULD go to the hospital or your doctor for a blood test to try to identify what you may have been given. (If you're still having issues like that after a day, it might not be a bad idea just to rule out anything else. You don't want to end up with a heart attack or stroke.) At least some of your other symptoms -- restlessness, edginess, etc -- might be explained by the tachycardia -- fast heart beat.

 

Once/if something is identified, you could theoretically press charges, since giving giving someone drugs that they don't know about is illegal in most (if not all) jurisdictions.

 

However, you then open yourself up to solicitation charges yourself.

 

You could get in touch with the escort and say "i've been feeling weird since that tequila shot....did you put anything in it, by chance?"

 

You could leave a review on daddy's, etc., specifying what has happened to warn other people...but I would wait until I was sure what happened.

[+ José Soplanucas]

Unless you can prove it let it go. Personally I’m not convinced as I really don’t see a motive. Also drugs aren’t cheap. Why would he spend part of his revenue giving you something.

+1

[+ honcho]

Unless you can prove it let it go. Personally I’m not convinced as I really don’t see a motive. Also drugs aren’t cheap. Why would he spend part of his revenue giving you something.

 

Maybe the 'scort found Xafnndapp appealing and wanted to share a specially intense experience with him as a consequence of

their both having taken ecstacy, although X did so unwittingly. I'm not excusing or condoing the 'scorts actions in the least, but

just merely suggesting that it might not have been for robbery ...

[+ José Soplanucas]

Maybe the 'scort found Xafnndapp appealing and wanted to share a specially intense experience with him as a consequence of

their both having taken ecstacy, although X did so unwittingly. I'm not excusing or condoing the 'scorts actions in the least, but

just merely suggesting that it might not have been for robbery ...

 

We do not even know whether or not the escort intentionally drugged him. We do not even know whether or not the OP was actually doped.

[maninsoma]

If the escort slipped something into the tequila, I think it was probably something other than ecstasy. You haven't described experiencing any of the psychological effects which cause some people to want to use E, namely the euphoric, horny, want-to-be-loving-towards-everyone trip. A lot of drugs can cause the symptoms you described, but the first widely used "party" drug that occurs to me is meth.

[+ Italiano]

At last I am now fine. After all it was just a bad experience which left me a little bit scarred. First of all I blame myself for being SO naive in accepting that tequila shot.

But of course it really bothers me and enrages me that I was the victim of such a vile trick. As I already told, in my whole life I just smoked perhaps 15 joints, and I have never wanted neither I was ever interested in trying something else, as it always scared me.

Now I am totally sure he did that, when I sent him a text questioning in a pretended "nice" way if he did it, he asked me if I was still feeling the side effects and if I felt ok.....Of course in my next text I exploded my rage, and his reaction was blocking me.

What a prick.

As @OliverSaks suggested (thank you for your very supportive message!) it is very possible that he did it in order to make me more aroused and to upsell his services for more time (which he did after 40 minutes!) investing some 10/20 bucks which is what one doses of that stuff costs.

The only thing I can do is giving bad reviews everywhere.

He has great reviews on daddy, which is really what helped me to make the final choice to book him.

Edited August 11, 2018 by Italiano

[MartyB]

At last I am now fine. After all it was just a bad experience which left me a little bit scarred. First of all I blame myself for being SO naive in accepting that tequila shot.

But of course it really bothers me and enrages me that I was the victim of such a vile trick. As I already told, in my whole life I just smoked perhaps 15 joints, and I have never wanted neither I was ever interested in trying something else, as it always scared me.

Now I am totally sure he did that, when I sent him a text questioning in a pretended "nice" way if he did it, he asked me if I was still steeling the side effects.....Of course in my next text I exploded my rage, and his reaction was blocking me.

What a prick.

As @OliverSaks suggested (thank you for your very supportive message!) it is very possible that he did it in order to make me more aroused and to upsell his services for more time (which he did after 40 minutes!) investing some 10/20 bucks which is what one doses of that stuff costs.

The only thing I can do is giving bad reviews everywhere.

He has great reviews on daddy, which is really what helped me to make the final choice to book him.

Glad you told us what happened. This is the forum to provide the kind of information clients really need to know. Still very upset by what you had to experience.

[bnm73]

Now I am totally sure he did that, when I sent him a text questioning in a pretended "nice" way if he did it, he asked me if I was still steeling the side effects.....Of course in my next text I exploded my rage, and his reaction was blocking me.

 

I'd save those messages for the time being....and mention in your reviews that he admitted to drugging you via text message after the fact.

[Guest]

You were slipped a stimulant (such as methamphetamines or ecstasy), and yes, it's obviously quite illegal. I'm not a lawyer, but this would probably constitute battery. If you had wanted to prove it, you could have sought medical attention, and requested a drug screening from a urine sample. Whether you'd have prevailed in either a criminal or civil case I don't know.

[+ Italiano]

At the end it was REALLY stupid of me to accept the drink. It felt a bit odd and I wasn't even in the mood, but he insisted in a nice way and I fell for it like an IDIOT. I put this behind me.

Thanks for the support guys!

[bnm73]

At the end it was REALLY stupid of me to accept the drink. It felt a bit odd and I wasn't even in the mood, but he insisted in a nice way and I fell for it like an IDIOT. I put this behind me.

Thanks for the support guys!

 

In your defense, who expects to be drugged when they take a shot of tequila? There are things you could have done differently (in hindsight), but it's not your fault someone else drugged you.

[+ Reisr30]

An companion offered to pour me a drink from a bottle he brought and i politely declined. He was well reviewed but I don’t ever do that. Similarly I would never offer a companion a drink from an open bottle. Too much potential liability or risk either way if something bad happens...

[Moe]

This is one of the reasons why (other than being poor ) I don't hire much. I'm a spiteful prick when I've been treated wrong, mostly because I always try my best to treat everyone good. And if this happened to me, I'd be tempted to hire them again, and give them a nice drink that will knock them out and when they come to, they'd be naked, tied to a tree, and covered in honey for the bugs to feast on. I fear prison so I'd never do it, but I'd really want to.