carp86

Bump

Bump. He's currently in NYC. Any recent encounters, anyone? 

6 hours ago, Cruiser7 said:

Does Zelle offer anonymity? I know from personal experience Venmo doesn’t. I used it once with a provider and was mortified when he said “Got it. You’re [my full real name], right?” 
 

Won’t use Venmo anymore until they change that. 

No, it doesn't. It was my first time using Zelle and I was also annoyed at that.

In Venmo I only use my initials, and all transactions are set to private. 

My worst experience was being greeted upon arrival with some rant about how people don't do cash anymore (before meeting I have asked whether Zelle or Venmo could work, to which he said yes), followed by him demanding Zelle payment before anything happened.

I wished I had run away. His whole demeanor in those initial 3 minutes were enough red flags to foreshadow the waste of money this was going to be.

I should have left... but didn't. 

I regret it to this day. My worst experience to date. 

I get a lot of this "masseur" scammers on Grindr, who are just trying to phish for your CC details through "their very secure" website. 

Run to the hills. 

In my completely non-legalese understanding, technically customers are paying for the provider's time. So I guess it is fine to say whether photos are accurate, whether the time spent was generally enjoyable or not, and whether you can recommend him.  

Sounds hot as fuck! 

If you welcome passive by-standers just to observe, give me a shout 🤪

I hired him recently whilst visiting NYC. I'm fairly new to hiring, but this has been my BEST experience so far! Had a combination of massage + escorting and man, I will definitely repeat next time I'm in town! DM for details if you want.  

On 10/19/2021 at 4:02 PM, glutes said:

I have had some food where it came out of me in 20 minutes after consuming...

 

Rare, butt (sic) it happens.

On 10/19/2021 at 4:25 PM, maninsoma said:

I'm not a doctor and don't play one on TV, but my personal experience is that if I eat anything substantial it will cause the rest of my digestive tract to become active.  I've always thought about it like turning on a conveyor belt, where everything gets moved down the line at the same time. 

On 10/19/2021 at 7:07 PM, nycman said:

Nope…

Closer…..

Closer…..

The correct answer is "Gastrocloic Reflex".

Time to learn about how you poop children…..

(if you want to skip ahead, although god only knows why you would, the gastrocolic reflex comes in around 11:20)

 

It's a combination of both. The gastrocolic reflex is naturally triggered when we eat, due to gastric distention. Think of "making space" for the incoming food. 

However, if the person is sensitive to a particular "food trigger", this can cause an acceleration of peristalsis, in an attempt for the body to get rid of the insulting foodstuff. This is called "postprandial diarrhea" and is a typical manifestation of some kinds of irritable bowel syndrome, for example (although this is not enough to reach that diagnosis). 

So, in conclusion, yes - while it is natural to do #2 after a meal, it can get messier if you ate something you are sensitive to.

Lukas continues to be so fucking hot. 

It seems he has certainly aged well. 

I met him for a massage a few months ago and it went well. Nothing too outstanding, but I really liked that he was friendly and quite down to earth. All in all it was memorable.

He did get hard.

I'd book him again. 

I recently took the plunge with him. I am fairly new to hiring providers, but this was BY FAR the worst experience I have had. The sad part is that he brags so much about his experience and being so well traveled, and yet none of that translates where it should. 

I should def pay more attention to the comments here on M4M... 

His massage skills are superb! 

On 8/27/2021 at 3:10 PM, Daniel84 said:

Hello from the other side. I feel famous 🙂

Thank you baby 

Hi Daniel, have you ever done porn? I am sure I have seen your face in some clip somewhere (I have trouble remembering names, but faces I'm good with). 

Hope to hire you one day, next time I'm in NYC! 

Bump. Anyone has hired him recently? Going soon to NYC and he's on my list. 

6 hours ago, JoeMendoza said:

some sage newbie last year posted a thread about a similar topic:

 

Excellent advice, thanks!! 

Hey guys. I recently moved to the US from Europe, so still getting my head around how things work in the US. While living here, I discovered RentMasseur and MasseurFinder, and have been booking sessions with providers coming to my town (some really good, some quite disappointing...). The massage context is easy, as you arrive, you chat a little bit, you take your clothes off and lie down on the bed/massage table. If something happens, it arises naturally from the massage itself. But now I want to hire men just for the sex part, so unsure how does one proceed with that. 

How does it usually work with RentMen providers in the US? Do you agree beforehand what will happen? Do you discuss on arrival? Or you just see as things develop while on it? Since I am quite new with the the transactional nature of these kind of encounters (and also a bit shy), not sure what's the best way to make an encounter just for sex less awkward at the start. 

Also, I would appreciate some advice as to how to arrange a meeting. What do providers want to hear from clients, other than the requested date and time? Is it rude to ask for the rate in the first message (RentMen does not show that, unlike RentMasseur)? Should I mention my stats (age, height, weight, etc)? 

Any help greatly appreciated.

The profile has now been deleted. I was about to report it, since I did some reverse image search and saw that the profile photos are definitely stolen from at least two different guys.