jawjateck

Ah, good ole "credit". I had another "credit" request yesterday from someone I met only once about 2 months ago and haven't communicated since. Extending credit turns everything for the worse; even a request for it begins to sour everything. I can think of 5 guys off the top of my head who have never attempted to make good on their promises to me, which is why I told the guy "No" yesterday when he made his pitch.

I'm a buster.....AKA Gen X And the last GI generation I personally knew passed away a few months ago when one of my dad's older siblings departed our world.

I am occasionally ghosted. There are many reasons why that happens which have nothing to do with the respectful approach I use to reel them in. I brush it off and move along.

RM goes offline alot for about 5 minutes or so. I usually notice it when I log back on after a few days away and spend an hour or so searching through new ads or videos. The site usually goes dead for a few minutes during my "research".

He looks fun, eh? :D

Congrats on investing your earnings and managing debt wisely. Man oh man, that's hot!

I was there two weeks ago, imported a good guy from LA to guarantee a fun time, met a local (Chance Summerlin) who was fun, and booked a grindr guy who was good at body rubs, a nice guy, and sensually fun. He was a pleasant surprise. I don't have personal info, but he is a slim Asian who works the strip and was logged on alot; contact was easy.

I'm showered, presentable, on-time, respectful, and honor the terms of the agreement. What more could any provider possibly want from me? :D

If I am pushing the limit of my "hobby" budget, or not into the provider to justify a repeat, or just not interested in hobbying at the moment, "NO" still works just fine. I'm a simple guy with a simple lifestyle who splurges on a couple of indulgent pleasures, but if guys want perks and extravagances from me, they'll quickly learn that I will not feed their pretenses. The OP seems to be a mighty fine client and providers are fortunate when he schedules a session with them.

Some guys work harder to fake them than to provide them (e.g. 5 star experiences). A provider that I never contacted or met hit me up today and asked me to fake a 5 star review for him on RM. More details: he has over 80 "reviews" on RM, and 49 of the last 50 are 5 star. Good, good times.

Last week in Vegas

I clicked it. Nothing happened. It's just an on-screen nuisance.

35k ruined his life? 50k might have been lethal.

Excellent weekend hire? The providers who excel in this specialty are few. I urge caution, due diligence and patience in setting up these types of encounters. The risk-reward has swung far away from the client-side of the ledger.

Texting is awful. It's devolved into incoherent grindr snippets and emojis, questions go unanswered, and timely? Almost never. "Conversations" can drag out over days to work out details and set up a meeting. My inquiries that go nowhere are as high as they have ever been in 20 years of hobbying.

Sweet and sexy. I'm seeing him......again......soon. :D

About as often as I observe a total lunar eclipse.

He deserves to be called out for this crap. One of my peeves is how grindr-like much of this has become. The sporadic, "right now", unintelligible 3 misspelled word messages and the demand for pics.

:rolleyes:

Since I liked many "types" from the beginning, alot of providers are still visually appealing. My RM buddylist is bursting with studs. But looks mean less than ever before. What has been crushed? The ease of setting up win-win meetings. For me, satisfaction with the experience has collapsed from 9-ish to 3.

Yeah, that aspect of RM reviews is absurd. I have contacted a provider directly, met him, had a good time, then sent him a contact message through RM after the meet, just so I can pass the RM review filter. So stupid, but I got reviews posted that way. P.S. Nice find Keith! I just noticed his ad, and then read your positive experience. I think he's on the menu for a date.

I haven't met our Ziya yet, but he is a sexy delight to chat up, first on this forum months ago and again last night in another online venue when we found ourselves about 3 miles apart. And dammit, my trip through the area was brief and packed full, so we couldn't explore our connection further. His wit is cute, his banter is fun, and his pics delight the eyes. He is a throwback to the good ole days when the chase was a big part of the fun in this hobby. I look forward to meeting this sexy young man when I return from my travels. Ziya, I wish you well and envy the lucky Floridians who cross your path. P.S. Providers who post advance travel plans here can be rewarded with contacts. Our community is small but so is our world, as Ziya and I found out last night.

Variety has been my preference since the early days in the hobby. I haven't scheduled too many guys more than 5 times. When I first started, it often felt like the spark of the first meeting was rarely duplicated, that I was being taken for granted, or that any blah session would be ok with ole jawja, and thus began my exploration to scope out new talent.

Blackberry, especially as a cobbler....hot out of the oven with 2 scoops of vanilla ice cream on top. Yummilicious!

Don't fret your vetting. You can ask all the right questions and receive lies or "yada yada yada"-ish replies. It has become more common over the past few years.