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In another thread, I made a negative comment about RM reviews being a joke, and today confirmed it again for me. To encourage a young provider I recently met, I submitted a RM review. It was a good review of a good meeting between the two of us. It was rejected because there are no messages between my RM profile and the companion's ad. Providers who disable the messaging feature and only accept texts/calls to set up a meeting have a RM guarantee that no review, especially a negative review, will ever be posted about them.

It is possible to sift through companions and find a good match without going through multiple prior interviews, but you need to be an experienced client, flexible and go-with-the-flow to pull it off successfully and repeatedly. I thumbed through my black book and noticed over the past 7-8 years I have scheduled multi-nighters without a preliminary in-person interview approx. 20 times. Most of them were super awesome. The last 2 years, there have been some "meh" experiences and one I cut short, pro-rated his fee (mutual agreement), and put him on a plane home. My appetites and expectations are adjusting as I age, so "meh" sometimes happens. As for preliminary interviews, I have done those, then scheduled a longer meeting only to end with a "meh" too! It happens. It's all about risk and reward. The equation has to be in my favor to set one up. I'm a value guy, so I don't agree to upper-tier fees to pull off one of these vacays. I definitely will not do one if I have any hesitation about its potential success.

He's a nice guy and easy to be with.

I look forward to seeing you next week, pop open a bottle of wine, and listen intently as you recall every lusty detail.

Excellent news, roomie. I have my ticket to LA, and Epigonos and I are arriving on Friday as usual.

I found the post. It still exists, but tumblr has blocked it along with most of my other naughty content. I will not comment on this provider simply because my feedback is not relevant. I met him one time, two years ago at the very beginning of his journey. I cannot possibly comment on his abilities now, because I'm sure he has developed his portfolio since then. He is the guys in the pics.

I'm a troll lurking around RM, abusing the time and attention of its gentlemen? Hell, you mean this has all been a fantasy playing in my mind for the past 20 years? I need some meds, AND someone in PS to shake me back into reality. HELP!!!

I've been at this long enough to see a generational shift that has taken most of the fun out of this hobby. If you hire for an hour or two, you may not know what I'm talking about, but if you hire for extended dates, hoo boy! The problem extends far beyond NYC. Sad!

And Joshua is a LEGIT massage therapist who is there some nights of the week. He is very good, skilled at his craft, and will actually listen to you when you tell him about your body's needs and pains. He has an amazing voice too. I have drifted into other worlds with him massaging and serenading me. Total pro.

In years' past, weekday lunch hours were fruitful times to meet handsome in-town/visiting businessmen. They don't have time to be picky, so they zero in on a target, play, and leave. I thought it was better than the evenings when guys cruise endlessly looking for the perfect match. But I'm not sure about the current scene. I've only been about twice in the last couple years, and both of those times I was there to rent a bed and sleep after arriving on a late flight, rather than fight the fatigue and try to drive home.

When the shop is working on my car or truck, I always watch long enough to make sure they are doing what I am paying them to do. It's not because I assume they will scam me, but that they are so busy, endless streams of customers all-day, everyday, that it's easy for them to make errors, and not pay attention to what the customer has requested. Heck, I watch every oil change to make sure the mechanic has pulled the plug, dropped the filter, and drained the old oil. If I'm paying for oil, I actually expect a new filter and oil when the job is done. Be careful of those quick lube places. Some of them cut corners when the customer walks into the lounge area to wait it out.

This is a trend I've noticed.....more ads fuel my laughs than my lusts.

Looks like Bob Kraft needed some guidance, the kind of expertise and resources available in this neck of the woods.

Don't panic. Probably nothing will come of it, unless he was involved in some other violation of the law that warrants a wider investigation of his activities. But if you want additional peace of mind, go to an attorney, pay him for an hour of his time, tell him your story, then if the police contact you, refrain from making any comment to them until you consult with your attorney.

Just let your provider know the extent of your skill and prowess, and that he is in for the ride of his life. That way, he can back out if he's not up for the challenge.

RM "reviews" are a joke. RM verifications are BS too. That site is only good for eye candy, pics and vids.

As a US client (with no other international hiring context), if you are good at it, good with people, like it (cannot stress this enough!!!!!), and can develop a portfolio of repeat clients, you can make a living at it, regardless of youth or maturity, skinny or muscly, vanilla or kinky, because there's a market for every need and fetish. Good luck if you choose to give it a go!

If you are hot for him, and he is definitely a stud, fly to him and keep it to 2 hours or less.

10-15 years ago, I flew to cities across the US meeting guys for overnight or weekend appointments. Some were well-reviewed, and some were newbies. Those were great times. Every single one of them. Of course, I always had a back-up plan, call another guy on my to-do list or do some touristy stuff, if my primary target bailed. So, I never flew anywhere just for the sake of one guy. Scheduling compatible mates is so iffy these days; there's no chance I would do it now.

I plan to attend. Epigonos and I are coordinating our strategy for arriving at PS. And a fellow, kind forum-mate and I have agreed to shack up. Just 2 short months and spring break is back again. Yay!

My guess would be approx. 30-35 for Saturday night dindin, 40 for Sunday pool party (people come and go all afternoon), and 15-20 for Sunday night supper, but Oliver and Epigonos are the go-to statisticians on this question. And some of the attendees are not active on this forum, but are friends of the "family".

Considering the obvious decline in business skills among providers, short, simple expressions of "thank you" have largely disappeared. To receive one now would be a rarity.

I took advantage of December's sell-off, bought stock like crazy Christmas week. I sold most of those shares recently and pocketed the proceeds. 2019 is off to a good start, and I'm on my way to beating the S&P again. Those gains will come in handy just in time for Palm Springs weekend.

For the guys who say "make me an offer", some are clueless about market pricing but others have a number in mind yet decline to name it, hoping the client will propose a larger number.

Congrats on a safe migration! See you soon, friend!