jawjateck

Excellent weekend hire? The providers who excel in this specialty are few. I urge caution, due diligence and patience in setting up these types of encounters. The risk-reward has swung far away from the client-side of the ledger.

Texting is awful. It's devolved into incoherent grindr snippets and emojis, questions go unanswered, and timely? Almost never. "Conversations" can drag out over days to work out details and set up a meeting. My inquiries that go nowhere are as high as they have ever been in 20 years of hobbying.

Sweet and sexy. I'm seeing him......again......soon. :D

About as often as I observe a total lunar eclipse.

He deserves to be called out for this crap. One of my peeves is how grindr-like much of this has become. The sporadic, "right now", unintelligible 3 misspelled word messages and the demand for pics.

:rolleyes:

Since I liked many "types" from the beginning, alot of providers are still visually appealing. My RM buddylist is bursting with studs. But looks mean less than ever before. What has been crushed? The ease of setting up win-win meetings. For me, satisfaction with the experience has collapsed from 9-ish to 3.

Yeah, that aspect of RM reviews is absurd. I have contacted a provider directly, met him, had a good time, then sent him a contact message through RM after the meet, just so I can pass the RM review filter. So stupid, but I got reviews posted that way. P.S. Nice find Keith! I just noticed his ad, and then read your positive experience. I think he's on the menu for a date.

I haven't met our Ziya yet, but he is a sexy delight to chat up, first on this forum months ago and again last night in another online venue when we found ourselves about 3 miles apart. And dammit, my trip through the area was brief and packed full, so we couldn't explore our connection further. His wit is cute, his banter is fun, and his pics delight the eyes. He is a throwback to the good ole days when the chase was a big part of the fun in this hobby. I look forward to meeting this sexy young man when I return from my travels. Ziya, I wish you well and envy the lucky Floridians who cross your path. P.S. Providers who post advance travel plans here can be rewarded with contacts. Our community is small but so is our world, as Ziya and I found out last night.

Variety has been my preference since the early days in the hobby. I haven't scheduled too many guys more than 5 times. When I first started, it often felt like the spark of the first meeting was rarely duplicated, that I was being taken for granted, or that any blah session would be ok with ole jawja, and thus began my exploration to scope out new talent.

Blackberry, especially as a cobbler....hot out of the oven with 2 scoops of vanilla ice cream on top. Yummilicious!

Don't fret your vetting. You can ask all the right questions and receive lies or "yada yada yada"-ish replies. It has become more common over the past few years.

Whatever remains will go to charity, including one 501©(3) that I have been personally involved for over 15 years. I have never witnessed anyone benefit, grow in wisdom or generosity after receiving a cash inheritance, and I will not waste resources like that.

Can that script be found on the internet somewhere and guys just cut, paste, and forward it to us? I don't how many times I have received those exact same words.

For research purposes only, of course.

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They can't "grab" the phone when they've never put it down. HA!

I take hobby breaks, each one is getting longer, primarily because compatibility is far more elusive to establish than back in the good ole days.

I describe me and my interests, then ask for compatibility. The affirmations of being "down" with it are generally universal but meaningless. Providers sort out so many communications that it's all just a blur......."la la la la la la la la la"

Wish I could help out, but unfortunately, many of these guys have been unresponsive to my prior inquiries.

An offering outside of a scheduled hobby meeting will likely end your contact with that provider. Let him call it a "loan"; that's fine as long as you are ok gifting it to him. A loan repayment is a low probability event in our community.

Yeah, it's becoming more common at a variety of restaurants. On my recent pass through Vegas, I dined at a snotty place at the Bellagio. The service was screwy, and at one point I had 3 plates in front of me and my companion had 2. I asked the waiter, "look at this table, does this seem off to you?" He was clueless. I've had better service at a roadside Cracker Barrel.

This one is on the run.

Yay! Good for you.

Love is high-risk/high-reward. You risked it all to try to get what you want, and that's far better than growing bitter and old and filled with regrets wondering what "might have been if only....." I hope your heart heals soon.