Alexphilly

It actually kind of shocked me because he completely turned submissive so the tattoos and toughness flew out the window lol ..😂 🫨🫨🫨

Have any of you guys (providers) had a client that made you feel nervous or uncomfortable?. I have had this one client and I mean this guy was a tough guy tattooed everywhere including face (kinda Thug looking) big guy . He definitely kinda made me a bit nervous he kept telling me don’t be afraid, don’t be afraid. I went through with it turned out he turned out to be a sweet guy. So I guess I was judging a book but I was still being cautious.
 
Another guy I had was so much in denial he wanted a massage etc . But during the whole session he kept saying to his self I’m not gay I’m not gay and I was thinking is his denial going to make him flip out on me and possibly harm me so that one I politely told him I can’t follow through with the session because he was making me feel uncomfortable. I just wanted to share that with you guys ✌️

You are soo right , also I limit my availability as well I don’t take sessions late at night although I’m tempted but safety first.

Those are the best kind...  My favorite kind.
Daily dominant guys who want to be manhandled behind closed doors.

It actually kind of shocked me because he completely turned submissive so the tattoos and toughness flew out the window lol ..😂 🫨🫨🫨

It actually kind of shocked me because he completely turned submissive so the tattoos and toughness flew out the window lol ..😂 🫨🫨🫨

Agree. I still do late night sessions but only for trusted regular clients or if a client books it 24 hrs in advance. That policy acts as a natural filter both for safety and for better clients. I’m too old to deal with the flaky desperate last minute late night requests anymore. Plus I have a commute to my work location now, so that’s not happening after I go home.

You are soo right , also I limit my availability as well I don’t take sessions late at night although I’m tempted but safety first.

Sounds good I’m going to look into how to set the whole thing up and get established in Of platform   
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not me but I figured I’d spice the topic up lol.

Long and hard seems like a good screen name too 😁😁 I’m just saying.

Absolutely not true. I view client profiles all the time and don’t reach out. I’m interested in all of them. If they’re a client, I’m interested. I don’t reach out because I want to respect the client’s privacy and the fact that they may be just browsing and may not want to engage yet, if at all. Viewing but not messaging is merely an indication that the provider showed interest in potential clients and wants to respect the client’s time and energy. The client will reach out if he’s interested.
Sometimes I will send a message if I think the client is a particularly good match or we have a shared niche interest or something. By good match I don’t mean looks or demographics, just what they write in their profile. I see everyone no matter what they look like. For example I got a profile view on RentMen the other day from a client who lives in my college town. It’s small and remote and most providers would never travel there, but I do from time to time, so I told him I would be visiting later next year and to let me know if he would be interested in meeting. There was no photo, literally just the screen name and a city listed. If he was anywhere else or had generic interests, I wouldn’t have bothered messaging.
In the past, I’ve reached out to clients who viewed my profile with a brief, friendly message saying thanks for checking me out and that I’m happy to answer any questions. It takes more time to manage that process, and it can be off putting for some. Occasionally when doing this I would contact someone more than once without realizing and that gives a bad impression. On RentMasseur I have to manually search my messages every time for a specific contact before determining that I haven’t messaged before. Even then, it still won’t give me the correct info 100% of the time. When I search, the autocorrect function throws it off so I have to carefully re-correct the spelling just to search the correct user and then determine I have/have not contacted them before and then go ahead and send a message. Such an exhausting waste of time.
Honestly I do get more bookings that way, so from a short term marketing strategy, it works. Sometimes a client just needs a nudge to get the ball rolling when they never would have started rolling it themselves or perhaps would have waited weeks or months before they otherwise would reach out. However, I know by doing this I may very well be losing some business by putting off some would-be clients. I stopped doing the proactive messages a while back because I’ve developed a long term marketing strategy to attract clients in other ways that require less time and management and focuses on relationship building rather than just getting them in the door as quickly as possible. The proactive messages strategy across multiple platforms became simply unmanageable.
One client views me constantly, like every day, multiple times a day. When he did finally reach out to me with a text after months of viewing, he asked the same questions over and over. Intel from MrNumber indicated he was a problem client. He wouldn’t confirm booking details, wasn’t serious, and just wanted my attention without actually booking anything. I warned him and then eventually had to block him because he wasn’t respecting my boundaries and kept demanding my time and attention for free. He still views me on multiple platforms. I just ignore it and block his messages whenever he keeps trying to contact me through another method. So annoying. Dude, take the hint.

A couple of providers I've hired have OnlyFans accounts which I subscribed to before hiring as part of researching and deciding to go with them. For $10 or so, it's worth it before making a larger investment.
If you have the bandwidth for it, I think it could both be a way to make some money from guys who just want to rub one out and as marketing for your services.

Yup. Best not to judge a book by its cover.
All kinds of people want service, including those with menacing gang tattoos, hard faces, or they’re in denial, or never had an experience like this before. Meet them where they’re at. They’re deciding to see you, which means they want to be there. Have an open mind. Use caution and good sense. Communicate when something is unclear. “Is this ok? Are you comfortable when I do xyz? Would you rather I do abc?”
Some clients are just weird. Not dangerous, just awkward. Some people are on a neuro-atypical spectrum. Some are just nervous. All of this is fine and normal. Take it in stride. Read the client and respond appropriately.
Protect yourself when necessary.

Long and hard seems like a good screen name too 😁😁 I’m just saying.

Long and hard seems like a good screen name too 😁😁 I’m just saying.

You are right I have that feeling like why am I blocking a potential client ? . Then sometimes a little frustration gets to me and it says block lol 😂 I’m quite sure I have lost a few potentials one never knows , which made me think if they are viewing my pix (“possibly”rubbing one out why not start a onlyfans also)  it would be difficult for me to manage a bunch of platforms guys have compensated me for custom videos and pix . So then again I may consider doing a onlyfans.

There’s a similar feature on Rentmasseur, it tells me when people have viewed my profile and suggests “a premium Rentmasseur client has viewed your profile…he may be interested in you so consider contacting him etc”. I never do initiate contact because I think it’s up to them. 
Some of these premium Rentmasseur clients view my profile dozens of times. Maybe they’re rubbing one out to the pics, and that’s fine (if that’s you …I have a justforfans 😉) but I think it’s more likely they’re just thinking about it.
I reckon it takes a lot of intention to hire a sex worker because of the nature of the work and all the issues that surround it. If my clients have put a lot of thought into hiring me then that’s great. I want that. Clients who hire on a whim tend to be more flaky, treat you like you’re a commodity and don’t value the service. I don’t need that. Give me someone who’s thought long and hard about it, is invested in the decision and who has seen what I’m about and said “yes I’d like to meet him”. 

Why elimate a potentially good customer based on an assumption?
I had looked at the profile of my current regular over the course of a year so, so many times before reaching out because I had just moved across the country, completely upended my life, and had to come to an agreement with my husband about our situation. When I told him how long I had waited to get in touch during the first time we got together and he told him what a great time I was having, he laughed it off with a "Why did you wait so long?" 🤷‍♂️

Hi I haven’t been posting for awhile as for me if you are viewing me over 10 times and I reach out to you and no reply back I’m definitely blocking you because obviously that person is just rubbing one out to pictures, but that’s just me 

Hi I haven’t been posting for awhile as for me if you are viewing me over 10 times and I reach out to you and no reply back I’m definitely blocking you because obviously that person is just rubbing one out to pictures, but that’s just me 

Dealt with it before for other websites, a real pain in the ass.  There must be an easier way to pay?
Kevin Slater

I've always used bitcoin.  You can buy bitcoin on Coinbase.com pretty easily using a bank account or debit card, then you "Withdraw" the amount RM indicates from Coinbase to the address that RM provides.
Once you do it a couple of times, it's really not that hard.
I like using bitcoin for the anonymity.

If you don't want to use your credit card for privacy reasons buy a mastercard or visa gift credit card. Then you won't have anything showing up on your statement or having to enter your real info. 

Hi I kinda started a topic about this ,  usually I give one flat rate for a session usually the session would take place late at night and sometimes last a couple of days  I could go home and relax and get called back into the session again.. lolol usually I would have to be the motivator of all the session because new workers wouldn't be motivated. Majority of the workers was attracted to me and I would get blown etc etc it is fun  it was one escort there and omg he couldn't keep his mouth off of me  talk about me being good to the last drop lol but I do like to put on a show lol now as far as theft goes sometimes I would have to keep a eye on other workers so I kinda wore alot of hats being security, recruiter , escort etc by Monday morning I'm exhausted mentally and physically . But in a nutshell it can be fun but it takes alot of energy .

Hi I kinda started a topic about this ,  usually I give one flat rate for a session usually the session would take place late at night and sometimes last a couple of days  I could go home and relax and get called back into the session again.. lolol usually I would have to be the motivator of all the session because new workers wouldn't be motivated. Majority of the workers was attracted to me and I would get blown etc etc it is fun  it was one escort there and omg he couldn't keep his mouth off of me  talk about me being good to the last drop lol but I do like to put on a show lol now as far as theft goes sometimes I would have to keep a eye on other workers so I kinda wore alot of hats being security, recruiter , escort etc by Monday morning I'm exhausted mentally and physically . But in a nutshell it can be fun but it takes alot of energy .