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https://rentmen.eu/GavinCraul
 
~Boomer~

Don’t get butt hurt. It has nothing to do with you.
He just sucks at customer service. Most do. 

Echoing @DynamicUno, gents have very different approaches to OF. Some are very engaged with their subscribers/tippers; others not so much.  It's chaotic over there, especially for gents with lots of subscribers.

So I wouldn't read to much into it all on its own but, if that kind of non-responsiveness extends into other arenas (ie response to booking queries via RMen or specific tipped requests on OF), then your instinct to read it as a redflag might be proven right. 
 

I agree. I have not had good luck in SF.  Maybe it's just my luck , but three stand ups and 2 disappointing hires equal my disappointment in the city. I'm sure others have some great experiences/stories to share, but I say go south or east young man!                          

I shudder to think what would happen if we were having sex and he slipped and fell on top of me. 

Get it while you're hot. Just ask Faye Dunaway 

I had a great experience with him. He was fully vers with me. Totally worth it. 

Not only blue collar, but he seems to have on an old school bluetooth headset in his first pic.  Likely an old pic, though it says he uploaded it last month.

Though most of my clients in Provincetown are gay, most of my Hyannis clients are older, straight, married men.
They clearly have had long desires to connect with a guy, but in most cases, they also no longer experinece touch with their wives either. They just want the experience of human touch and connection with another human person - with the added bonus that I am male. I think that more than anything, they most enjoy that I am there to focus my undivided attention and energy and touch on them for an entire hour. I really think, as the song goes, "that's what it's all about."

Yeah on Twitter, when I follow one guy's account thats local and has sexual content I get suggestions for other pages (thanks to algorithms). There's also an account here in Canada that posts, tracks locals with sex content. Instagram, if you're sharp and searching in the right places there's also ways to find local guys.

Honestly, I also found this comment to be rude, as well as unnecessarily nasty.  I'm glad that @Andie40 felt comfortable sharing his experience because I found both his account and the discussion it sparked interesting.  If this comment was meant as a joke, it bombed.
PS:  I'm going to take a piss now.  Oh, maybe I didn't need to announce that.

"Escorting" is a business not a match-making service for lonely hearts. And, in making any hire, the rule of "buyer beware" is applicable. You will want to read Chapter of 11 of my memoir, I Can't Begin to Tell You: "Hardbody Hans" turns out to be "Tiny Tim", a little person with a mean streak the width of an eight lane super highway. . . 

Our experiences have not been nearly as bad as the OP described. Maybe it’s bc we’re in NYC. But most of the guys we’ve hired do look like their pics - some even better. 
 
Our primary reason for hiring is that it’s easier then wasting time on Grindr and Scruff. We’ve had a couple of duds in our time hiring, but probably 80% positive. But I read reviews. I check their social media. I come on here. 
 
I do think you have to be discriminating. What we look for more than anything is someone who seems to genuinely enjoy this work. 

Before I begin, I want to say that these are my opinions based on personal experiences. After 10 years of hiring men, I can say that I’m totally giving up on it. I’m in my 30’s, so I guess I’m a little pickier, but of the 100+ men I’ve hired over the years, I can honestly only think of 3-4 that were actually worth it. Most of the time, the guy does not look nearly as good as his pictures ( not as muscular, older than advertised, different body pics used, etc.). Most of these guys I could likely meet for free. Somewhere down the line, hiring men became an addiction because I’ve suffered from low self esteem most of my life and any sort of rejection would put me in a funk.   I’m realizing now that spending so much money just to avoid my fears is not helping me in the long run.
 
I feel so ashamed to have spent so much money over the years for companionship I basically could have received for free had I stuck to a workout routine. 
I will say that the worst escorts are usually the Eastern European/Russian ones or the South American ones. They’re usually the rudest and more likely to have misleading pictures/ show disinterest.
I don’t mean to offend anyone with my post. They’re my experiences and options.
 
 

Maybe you should consider a different city. 

Please skip it. Too many deposit horror stories around here. He may've been burned in the past and now requires deposits, but you need to be careful, too. 

No, I’ve hired 100 bucks street prostitutes and have spent 1,000 dollars plus tips in a 2 hour and change session with an escort and in both occasions the determining factor wasn’t the money… they had what I wanted and they gave me that and way more, satisfaction is what we pay for no?

For the (rare) total package that I want, yes, I would pay $400. This 6 foot 3 inch muscle god with the thick dark hair and gorgeous face, eyes, and lucious lips that kiss me great would have extra-broad shoulders, a massive and hairy chest with a treasure trail that leads to a thick 9 inch dick that fucks me until my eyes roll back in my head and, below that, hairy muscular (but not bodybuilder) legs. Not too much to ask, right? And worth every penny of that $400. Now, if only I could actually FIND him. 🙂

Remember the old days, ATMs would have preset buttons for dispensing up to 200... now it's 500. I guess they figure it's for the hookers. 
 
 

Since you’re looking into a hairy masseur, that is very specific and unlikely to be found in massage parlors (at least the ones I’ve tried), I would peruse masseur finder and rentmasseur to find the type of men you’re looking for. The ad should read something in the likes of erotic massage, that’s fully naked mutual touch (oral may or not be included) so tip generously.