TorontoTwink

Hey there,
 
This is my first post, but I'm really considering escorting to get through post-secondary school. I was wondering if the "twink" body type is preferred or wanted by clients? I know super the "Greek God" body type is SUPER popular. Can twinks even compete with these muscle-y men?
 
I'm more of a masculine twink, if that adds anything, lol.
 
Also, how is the market in Toronto, moving there in a couple of months
 
 
Regards,
 
TT

Welcome

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I'm getting a lot of time wasters, I literally had this guy say "Come to my yacht," and when I respond; they act dumb.
Lol, some prospective clients will pre-book and not even follow up. It's frustrating, but it's part of the gig.
As of right now, I'm only seeing vaccinated clients.

I'm getting a lot of time wasters, I literally had this guy say "Come to my yacht," and when I respond; they act dumb.
Lol, some prospective clients will pre-book and not even follow up. It's frustrating, but it's part of the gig.
As of right now, I'm only seeing vaccinated clients.

I fricking LOVE getting spanked. Love those red hand-prints on my booty

I would HIRE THIS GUY IN A HEARTBEAT! Although, he isn't a porn star; he is an OnlyFans creator.
Also, he's in Canada; where I am lol!
Seems super sweet as well, his name is Jakipz

I'm getting a lot of time wasters, I literally had this guy say "Come to my yacht," and when I respond; they act dumb.
Lol, some prospective clients will pre-book and not even follow up. It's frustrating, but it's part of the gig.
As of right now, I'm only seeing vaccinated clients.

I'm getting a lot of time wasters, I literally had this guy say "Come to my yacht," and when I respond; they act dumb.
Lol, some prospective clients will pre-book and not even follow up. It's frustrating, but it's part of the gig.
As of right now, I'm only seeing vaccinated clients.

I'm getting a lot of time wasters, I literally had this guy say "Come to my yacht," and when I respond; they act dumb.
Lol, some prospective clients will pre-book and not even follow up. It's frustrating, but it's part of the gig.
As of right now, I'm only seeing vaccinated clients.

I'm getting a lot of time wasters, I literally had this guy say "Come to my yacht," and when I respond; they act dumb.
Lol, some prospective clients will pre-book and not even follow up. It's frustrating, but it's part of the gig.
As of right now, I'm only seeing vaccinated clients.

I'm getting a lot of time wasters, I literally had this guy say "Come to my yacht," and when I respond; they act dumb.
Lol, some prospective clients will pre-book and not even follow up. It's frustrating, but it's part of the gig.
As of right now, I'm only seeing vaccinated clients.

I'm getting a lot of time wasters, I literally had this guy say "Come to my yacht," and when I respond; they act dumb.
Lol, some prospective clients will pre-book and not even follow up. It's frustrating, but it's part of the gig.
As of right now, I'm only seeing vaccinated clients.

Yes poppers help. I keep some just in case clients need them. I don’t use them myself though because they make me feel sick (and go soft). I find breathing deep and slow helps me take a big cock so I encourage my clients to breath like this if they struggle to take me. It also works better for some by doing it missionary style at first before moving on to other positions. 

What has been the experience of folks on this forum with Atlantis cruises?
My first and only experience from October 2009 was not great. I was not treated well on the cruise by others. It all started from the welcome reception and just got worse.  I was body shamed (5’10” 36 inch waist) (I would have been fine on a normal cruise) (it was a tough year and I just wanted to relax). People wouldn’t even sit with me for dinner or socialize.  I ended up eating by myself in the cafeteria. I also had two different cliques openly make fun of me whenever they saw me. I finally had to confront them to stop and it went up to to the Ships officers who basically told them to knock it off.  They also advised me to try and have fun on my own. Basically, what I learned was that it is only really for the lean six pack abs muscle set. All others should stay away. I will never go on another gay cruise. Ever!! 
 
What about your experiences?  

1) optimize my business model. If most clients are requesting Incall and I don’t have one, I do WHATEVER it takes to make one available.  I didn’t have my own apartment when I moved to SF and it stunted my business SIGNIFICANTLY.  I got a full-time hourly wage job just so I could try to eventually get my own apartment.  When I moved into my current studio, I actually had no idea if I was going to be able to afford the upkeep or not.  I had my day job but it was going sour with the pandemic and I could tell it would end soon.  I used the job to get approved for the apartment.  Once the job was over, I had to figure out how to make it work.  This meant being more flexible about my rates at first, and accepting short notice bookings even if it meant interrupting something else that I was doing.  This was annoying but my period of needing to do this to make it work lasted less than six months.  Within 3 months I developed regulars who came to my Incall once a week (at a lower rate than I wanted, but no big deal- my rent was getting paid).  And within another 3 months after that, negotiating on my rate was no longer necessary.  In fact I was able to raise my rate significantly.  Being able to offer Incall consistently has developed me good regulars and steady income.  Vast majority of this business is Incall, so whenever I’m advising ANY escort complaining about not enough business, this is the first topic I explore with them as well.  If most of the demand is for Incall, it’s our job as a full time escort to figure out how to be able to provide the logistics to meet that demand if we want that steady money.  We aren’t entitled to clients who want to see us in exactly the manner we would prefer- we have to adjust our business models to accommodate enough of the market demand until we find a place in the market where we are satisfied with our income- and yes this means having enough to contribute regularly to grow a 1-6 month emergency fund too, so that the natural slow periods are less frustrating.  Did I enjoy working for a company full time after 10 years of working for myself independently?  Fuck no!  But I did what I had to do to get it done and now I have my Incall and business is great.  Great doesn’t mean I see 2 clients a day at home, but that I have enough business to cover the expenses, my personal needs, and invest in my business and my retirement, after hustling harder than I wanted for a period of time to make that happen.
2) invest in myself- this can happen in the form of gym, therapy, massage, a new haircut, new sex toys, an updated photoshoot, new clothes, etc etc.  Having an emergency fund is critical to allow these investments during slow periods.  Slow times are the times when I actually have time and energy to focus on myself, and the self-improvements tend to translate into increased business when things heat up again, not to mention overall happiness.
3) get creative - find new ways to make my business more fun and make my marketing stand out more.  If I’m dealing with content restrictions on my ads, I keep experimenting with new ways to express my ideas.  Rentmen recently blocked me from using any photos of my hands as my profile pic, claiming all of them were X-rated (nevermind that a hard dick as a profile pic seems to be acceptable???).  Well as a fisting top, not being able to show my “tool” in my thumbnail image actually sucks.  It’s common practice on RM for tops to have their dick as their thumbnail for a reason.  Bottoms like to see what they’ll be sitting on.  Didn’t this feel unfair and discouraging to me?  Yes.  But I kept experimenting and eventually realized that as long as my FACE is also in the pic, they don’t consider my hands to be “X-rated”. So I found a way to express my idea anyway even with the censorship.  Beyond this, there are ALWAYS ways to get more creative with marketing.  Add bright colors, wear a super attention grabbing outfit, shoot in a scandalous public location.  You can use creativity to add new faces to your place public marketing and intrigue new types of people.  Using the same pics or same types of pics all the time leads to stagnation- your ad becomes old news to locals very quickly when you don’t change things up frequently and creatively.  Besides the marketing aspect, I’m always adding new services or even eliminating services that I don’t enjoy anymore.  I used to advertise as full service and versatile.  Now I advertise as exclusively a fisting top, although I have also added electricity, chastity, and some bondage to my repertoire.  Working my way into a niche and adding more niche interests to my tool belt has only increased my business every single time.  So when things slow down or I feel I’m in a rut, this is often where I turn my attention.

I would HIRE THIS GUY IN A HEARTBEAT! Although, he isn't a porn star; he is an OnlyFans creator.
Also, he's in Canada; where I am lol!
Seems super sweet as well, his name is Jakipz

I would HIRE THIS GUY IN A HEARTBEAT! Although, he isn't a porn star; he is an OnlyFans creator.
Also, he's in Canada; where I am lol!
Seems super sweet as well, his name is Jakipz

For traveling regulars at hotels, I pack light as there is always anything available at any time and never had an issue calling up some towels, extra mouthwash, etc. For any new clients?  Pretty much already listed here. @HoleTrainerhas his list like a precise military kit list.  I love it.  One underrated piece of kit is the bt speaker.  Really nice if a client likes music and you're giving a massage, likes a certain genre when the session is "in full effect", etc 
I also use it for age regression. I have a deal with an online "mommy" who essentially licenses out her audio clips while I am serving clients in baby space who want that soothing mommy voice while in the session.
I have also pre-ordered sex toys for clients who cannot or do not want to order themselves. I once ordered a client a fleshjack and his message of thanks was, "Don't worry! I'm not breaking up with you!"  Dead!
 
 

I always bring an extra pair of clothes ,extra underwear, a towel, toothbrush, toothpaste, deodorant, cologne, condoms, and lube. 

My essentials include lube, condoms, and baby oil (for those muscle worship lovers. 😉). Keep it pretty simple here. 

Yes! This right here!
Not everybody is free to talk at any given moment. A heads up would be awesome!

Yes, me too. I like clients to call if they have things to discuss. It’s not time wasting to call and talk about requirements, it makes the meeting better because I know exactly what he likes. As long as I get a heads up and we agree a time to call I’m fine to talk. It’s more personal than a text and starts off the connection nicely. 

There’s a few time wasters but if I sense the call is going that way then it’s easy to end it. 
 

Yes! This right here!
Not everybody is free to talk at any given moment. A heads up would be awesome!

Maybe your mom was secretly a professional fisting top as well? 😜