Will.Varner

I find kindred observations from many here and @Tygerscenthas substantial Venn diagram with my pre and even post puberty home life. We grew up skinny dipping with friends and family; that persisted even after we moved away when we were back at our parents’ farm on a weekend or other occasion. There was no a/c in the early years so sleeping on top of the sheets, without a stitch of textile on our bodies, was how summer nights were passed. As the saying goes, you don’t know what you don’t know until you do. Thus it wasn’t until I had a roommate in the university dorm that I had the slightest inkling of how differently another male, living in an intimate setting (if memory serves the dorm room was like 300 sf) , can have an expectation of otherwise unattainable privacy. I was not without compassion, he had hideous acne that covered the majority of his body, but it was difficult to adapt his covered up approach to dorm living as what should be normal for both of us. 
 
My experiences in the gym communal showers, the locker room, the sauna and steam room have all varied from one end of the spectrum to the other. So often the vibe of a particular brand or space is a decisive factor. The university space was young boys loaded with testosterone, thinking about any number of things from a girl they liked the looks of to is my penis above, below or just average as I note the physiques of such a volume of naked bodies all in one place, a totally first time experience for so many. 
 
Post school life has similar experiences when first joining a new gym and wanting to seem like a regular the vibe has to be observed or sensed. The YMCA is often a different flavor than an Equinox; Golds different than a NYSC or LA Fitness and within those franchises the flavor varies from NYC or Dallas or Boston to an Austin or Nashville. Established versus new or newish and hip.  Point being the experience one had as a reference for what is not going to get anyone excited in one locale may not translate into another locale. 
 
In the final analysis you can only be who you are even if that makes you an outlier on occasion. Often being who you are is the breath of fresh air others come to appreciate first and then emulate. 

I find kindred observations from many here and @Tygerscenthas substantial Venn diagram with my pre and even post puberty home life. We grew up skinny dipping with friends and family; that persisted even after we moved away when we were back at our parents’ farm on a weekend or other occasion. There was no a/c in the early years so sleeping on top of the sheets, without a stitch of textile on our bodies, was how summer nights were passed. As the saying goes, you don’t know what you don’t know until you do. Thus it wasn’t until I had a roommate in the university dorm that I had the slightest inkling of how differently another male, living in an intimate setting (if memory serves the dorm room was like 300 sf) , can have an expectation of otherwise unattainable privacy. I was not without compassion, he had hideous acne that covered the majority of his body, but it was difficult to adapt his covered up approach to dorm living as what should be normal for both of us. 
 
My experiences in the gym communal showers, the locker room, the sauna and steam room have all varied from one end of the spectrum to the other. So often the vibe of a particular brand or space is a decisive factor. The university space was young boys loaded with testosterone, thinking about any number of things from a girl they liked the looks of to is my penis above, below or just average as I note the physiques of such a volume of naked bodies all in one place, a totally first time experience for so many. 
 
Post school life has similar experiences when first joining a new gym and wanting to seem like a regular the vibe has to be observed or sensed. The YMCA is often a different flavor than an Equinox; Golds different than a NYSC or LA Fitness and within those franchises the flavor varies from NYC or Dallas or Boston to an Austin or Nashville. Established versus new or newish and hip.  Point being the experience one had as a reference for what is not going to get anyone excited in one locale may not translate into another locale. 
 
In the final analysis you can only be who you are even if that makes you an outlier on occasion. Often being who you are is the breath of fresh air others come to appreciate first and then emulate. 

Canyon Ranch Spa + The Spa at the Bellagio. Both have excellent facilities and interesting clientele. 

I find kindred observations from many here and @Tygerscenthas substantial Venn diagram with my pre and even post puberty home life. We grew up skinny dipping with friends and family; that persisted even after we moved away when we were back at our parents’ farm on a weekend or other occasion. There was no a/c in the early years so sleeping on top of the sheets, without a stitch of textile on our bodies, was how summer nights were passed. As the saying goes, you don’t know what you don’t know until you do. Thus it wasn’t until I had a roommate in the university dorm that I had the slightest inkling of how differently another male, living in an intimate setting (if memory serves the dorm room was like 300 sf) , can have an expectation of otherwise unattainable privacy. I was not without compassion, he had hideous acne that covered the majority of his body, but it was difficult to adapt his covered up approach to dorm living as what should be normal for both of us. 
 
My experiences in the gym communal showers, the locker room, the sauna and steam room have all varied from one end of the spectrum to the other. So often the vibe of a particular brand or space is a decisive factor. The university space was young boys loaded with testosterone, thinking about any number of things from a girl they liked the looks of to is my penis above, below or just average as I note the physiques of such a volume of naked bodies all in one place, a totally first time experience for so many. 
 
Post school life has similar experiences when first joining a new gym and wanting to seem like a regular the vibe has to be observed or sensed. The YMCA is often a different flavor than an Equinox; Golds different than a NYSC or LA Fitness and within those franchises the flavor varies from NYC or Dallas or Boston to an Austin or Nashville. Established versus new or newish and hip.  Point being the experience one had as a reference for what is not going to get anyone excited in one locale may not translate into another locale. 
 
In the final analysis you can only be who you are even if that makes you an outlier on occasion. Often being who you are is the breath of fresh air others come to appreciate first and then emulate. 

Tivoli has a great bod in this quasi massage derivation:
https://www.boyfriendtv.com/videos/294739/made-to-cum-over-himself---alexis-tivoli-and-david-paw/

The YMCAs are definitely the most likely to have them around the country. In addition to the 63rd St NYC location (already mentioned) the Y in downtown Nashville does too. 14th St used to before remodeling which resulted in stalls but rarely closed curtains. The Yale Club (at Grand Central) also has stalls but no curtains are even hung and one sees minimal towel usage there starting at the lockers.

More Britain Westbury

This twink (Matthew Keading) has unbelievably fabulous and erotic scrotum and penis that stays wonderfully erect through the massage. It makes my cock leak pre-ejaculate watching him being teased and aroused.
 
Matthew

This is 2nd favorite to be sure. Twink (Britain Westbury) penis is near perfection when the underwear gets removed. OMG
 
Twink massage

This is 2nd favorite to be sure. Twink (Britain Westbury) penis is near perfection when the underwear gets removed. OMG
 
Twink massage

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More Britain Westbury

As @Just966 has noted, drcumcontrol is incredibly talented at edging his clients to the outer limits of their sanity. Alfredosian is another complete talented evil genius.
Watching these demonstrating their talents caused me to explore different edging approaches and to that end I have happily embraced both sounding (aka cockstuffing) and electrostimulation either separately or in conjunction with quite sublime results.

Britain Westbury
https://www.imdb.com/name/nm10832021/
He has a shower scene in Missionary Boys that's fairly interesting too.

This is 2nd favorite to be sure. Twink (Britain Westbury) penis is near perfection when the underwear gets removed. OMG
 
Twink massage

This twink (Matthew Keading) has unbelievably fabulous and erotic scrotum and penis that stays wonderfully erect through the massage. It makes my cock leak pre-ejaculate watching him being teased and aroused.
 
Matthew

This is 2nd favorite to be sure. Twink (Britain Westbury) penis is near perfection when the underwear gets removed. OMG
 
Twink massage

As @Just966 has noted, drcumcontrol is incredibly talented at edging his clients to the outer limits of their sanity. Alfredosian is another complete talented evil genius.
Watching these demonstrating their talents caused me to explore different edging approaches and to that end I have happily embraced both sounding (aka cockstuffing) and electrostimulation either separately or in conjunction with quite sublime results.

As @Just966 has noted, drcumcontrol is incredibly talented at edging his clients to the outer limits of their sanity. Alfredosian is another complete talented evil genius.
Watching these demonstrating their talents caused me to explore different edging approaches and to that end I have happily embraced both sounding (aka cockstuffing) and electrostimulation either separately or in conjunction with quite sublime results.

As @Just966 has noted, drcumcontrol is incredibly talented at edging his clients to the outer limits of their sanity. Alfredosian is another complete talented evil genius.
Watching these demonstrating their talents caused me to explore different edging approaches and to that end I have happily embraced both sounding (aka cockstuffing) and electrostimulation either separately or in conjunction with quite sublime results.

I never ask. I use this site and combine that with profiles from RM and MF and can determine expectations from there.
 
Secondly, I don’t want to “request”, those elements. I want the masseur to want to do what he does as a choice, not a perfunctory obligation.
 
Using these formulas has worked very well for me.

Was pleased to see your post response since I wear either a cockring or shaftring regularly and didn't want to have to do anything different when I get a massage.

I have tried a few guys from Masseurfinder, with hope of great therapeutic massage with a chance for HE or something little sensual .
I always made appointment for 60 min massage with no other details, at first my I chose by the look of the masseur:) usually massage was not so good , poor skills but 90% of them finished with HE ( which I'm fine with ) , few wanted more , but im not interested in that ...
Then I realized only few of them on the whole website are Licensed Massage therapist,
Tried 2 of them , one was extremely annoying , talking non stop , and way older than on the pics, other one good skills with HE , but way overpriced...
I decided to look for other regular LMT in NYC,
And it was game changing move ,
At first found great guy , with great skills , I knew he was gay right away , but very professional comparing to the others.
At second appointment , he did not leave the room to let me change , and instead of sheet , he used towel , still very professional , but I catched him looking at me , and my bulge during massage , it took me another 4-5 appointments until we finally , jerked off together , but the whole ambience and story was way hotter than before
Then Covid came ...
After I tried another guy , he is straight ( probably)
But not as good in massage , and also very prudish , always very correct and careful where he touch , one time AC did not work so well ( in summer ) and asked him if he can use less draping or a towel , because I was sweating like crazy , he just said it is against the code and bla bla bla ... That was last time I saw him ( 0 chances for something more )
And now I found very attractive guy working in the big massage studio , not as a individual like others... Very good at massage , very professional
Hard to say , he for sure is str8 , but I can feel that there is something;)
I'm trying to work him out, he asked me to get fully naked , which is a +
At first he was very be careful with his touches , but at the second appointment there was way more of him , like I could feel his body on me, what made me hard instantly, at first apt he did not touch my quads when I was laying on my back , at second he did it all, including inner side , which made me hard right a way , for sure he notice it , (he uses regular thin sheet) but he did not stop...
I'm planning my 3rd appointment... I have feeling something more can happen one day
 
Sorry for grammar, english is not my first language
Let me know if you have similar situations or some recommendations in nyc