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I just saw Jose tonight and for sugaring. What an amazing manscaper— totally thorough and paid attention to details. I wasn’t sure if I was going to get more than what I came in for but after some “pushing and pulling” and checking to see who’d make the move, he did, on my way out. I will def come back for the massage as I feel we have unfinished business. I’ll also be going to him for manscaping needs going forward because it was such an amazing deal and experience. 

Maybe, but i don't think it'd go as far as suggested. I could see it maybe screening initial inquiries if a provider so chooses. But if i was a provider, i personally would still want to have viable client candidates given to me by the AI and give the final ok on which one i take and when for myself. I just would want it to weed out time wasters or incompatible clients. I wouldn't want it accepting meets and booking my calendar for me.
As someone who's tried implementing AI into my job and found a lot of it's limitations and where it falls short of the over hype/marketing. There's things it's just not ready for yet and it still needs lots of hand-holding and double checking it's work. AI/LLMs (Large Language Models) despite all the marketing, are not sentient, aren't aware of what they say to you, will spit out incorrect information confidently, and AI agents have done things like accidentally delete a users hard drive and other dumb stuff.
When it comes to reply delays. I kind of see it like when people text you and don't get a response, so then they call you thinking that will make you pick up and it's like, if I'm not available to reply to a text I'm also not available to answer a call haha. But like in the scenario a provider is busy working and can't give the final ok to a meet the AI setup and passed along. There's still going to be a delay till the provider gets back to their computer/phone or whatever to give the final ok. Both clients and providers really need to just accept that people aren't staring at their inbox or obligated to be reachable 24/7 and get over it, in my opinion 😆.
Another big issue AI use in this raises is discretion/privacy. Unless the provider is using their own self hosted implementation of an open source AI. Things like ChatGPT are logging everything you input to it and sending it home to OpenAI for further training model use (some AI platforms claim to let you opt out of this, but do they really with how this space currently has zero regulation, no one actually knows).
Things you put into ChatGPT are held in record and can be used against you in court for example. And in places where what we all engage in here isn't exactly legal, it'd be very not smart to use AIs in this way unless you setup a private one. Which the average person wouldn't know how to do and would just default to ChatGPT.
We already can't even get everyone who does this to use encrypted messaging apps like Signal as is 🤣

The key is to choose well and develop a way of asking that is simultaneously respectful and honest. Assuming often leads to disappointment, and making coded references may backfire on you, because codes can be misinterpreted. Worse still, if you ask aggressively or make demands, you will just come off as arrogant or entitled and get blocked. I try not to ask questions--even though I often end up doing so. I find it's much, much better to say what I like--again, respectfully and honestly--and see what the response is. If the response is negative--"I don't do that" or "No, I only do such-and-such"--then you have your answer. Thank him for his time and wish him the best. But if the response is positive--as it often is, if you've chosen well--then all you have to do is ask what the rate is and the when-and-where.
Remember the guy you're chatting with is a human being. It's about the chemistry between two people, and he wants your interaction with him to be a positive experience just as much as you do, maybe more.

My review is now up on RentMasseur:
 
Gabrieluk - Male Masseur, Gay massage in Manhattan, NY | RentMasseur
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Yeah… Sometimes is hard to believe. When I was there I was always scared to meet someone. I think if u are young and u like drugs and fun, really just care with only money london is the place. Now if u looking to meet nice guys for a nice time together London is not the place.  
And I asked for a few escorts and they confirmed this to me…  If u don’t do drugs there u don’t make money. 
When I was there I was basically just meeting Americans or Canadian. And they always said to me “you look clean, you look normal” bc they had bad experiences with other guys there.

I also had an amazing massage from Gabriel--mine was on Sunday. I will post a review on RentMasseur later this week. He is definitely a treasure.

https://rentmasseur.com/Gabrieluk

I had a fantastic massage from Gabriel today. He is a certified masseur with mad skills. I opted for a 90-minute massage and it was one of the best massages I've ever had. On top of that, he is incredibly handsome and a lovely young man. I left very happy. 

Any recent experiences? 

Any recent experiences with Gabriel? I have to say that his photos and reviews have me tempted.

I just met him again. Every time it gets better than the previous one. He’s truly spectacular. Good soul, great vibes, wonderful skills and truly transcendent experience. 

Listen I love this group, you guys are amazing, but please do not share my PRIVATE MESSAGES with masseurs you meet. A few months ago, I met a regular client who said to me "did you post something on this forum that was negative?" I said what are you talking about. He said he met a client who SHOWED HIM MY RESPONSE to a message about his work. I was shocked. I said " don't have clue and if it was negative then why am I here?" Please be careful with what is shared here. Private messages should remain so. No mad just concerned.
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Totally agree with @WestGuy and @Redwine56 about Blessings.
Here's another masseur with a great butt:
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+1 on Blessings. Amazing body all around. And a very sweet and caring guy.
Blessings - Male Massage & Bodywork in Manhattan, NY | RentMasseur
RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur Blessings in Manhattan, NY offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic...  

I don't see one of our favorites listed in this thread - BLESSINGS.  Every part of that masseur's beautiful body is remarkable.  I ask one of my fellow posters to include the link.  Thanks.

It would be great if the liars can be exposed on this forum. 

I would venture that MOST of these guys resent the idea of this public discussion of what should be quite private. Especially with the entitled attitude of many of the people who post here. It is often forgotten that these guys are human beings trying to earn a living and the cattiness and rude shit people say all over this site is generally not any way you’d likely ever talk about your lawyer, or your dentist, or your plumber. (Especially when it comes to the nonsense I read on here with people complaining about rates …. Again - do you haggle your other professionals?). A lot of the dudes in here really need to wake up. 
instead of making it out to be HIS problem for being “sensitive” about it, why not consider that maybe you just should’ve approached him as a human being ? 

Depends what you get. An escort in Manhattan will charge $500 an hour, and if the masseur makes you just as happy as an escort would, 100% tip is actually pitiful. 

It's not only frowned upon, it's against OF terms. If the guy has JustFor.fans (JFF), you can ask it there. If the guy doesn't have OF, you could ask "Do you do collabs with generous fans?".
 

I follow him On Instagram and he has an apartment on South Beach

I've seen discussions about men where one member claims he's a scammer, yet dozens of other members claim he is a great regular and recommend hiring.  How would that be classified?  Keeping all comments regarding experiences with one man, both positive and negative, help the readers decide whom to believe.

Some of my regular and most favorite massuers haven't updated their photographs in over a decade.  I would not consider any of them to be scammers any more than I would consider a restaurant a scammer for showing picture-perfect photographs on their menu that never look as good as the food when it arrives at my table.

An escort typically charges a relatively high fee already for an hour of his time...so I don't feel obligated to tip unless he went above and beyond in his efforts. Then it's 20% to 25% .
A masseur is charging less and sometimes adds more intimate services that aren't included in his fee...so definitely owed a tip...sometimes even a significant amount if the session goes from massage to full escort. In that case minimum $100 additional.

I have certainly run across this myself. As I stated above...I didn't hand the extra money over as JUST "a tip". I shared my opinion that he should consider charging more, becasue the quality of the service warranted a higher price.
I've even shared this same opinion after observation with restaurant owners with whom I am friendly, when they open a new location. If the price seemed off compared to the quality of food and service, I am less inclined to simply take advantage, and more inclined to help my friend understand their true value.
I hear too many stories here on CoM about people who are happily exploiting young escorts who haven't yet figured out their value. I have always made a point to educate the naive, and give pointers on how they may increase value  to their customers and simultaneously increase their income.

Attorney advises caution for travelers with phones
We are asking a lawyer how you can protect your phone and data privacy at the U.S. border.
Author: Claudine Ewing, WGRZ-TV
Published: 6:51 PM EDT April 14, 2025 Updated: 10:02 AM EDT April 15, 2025
BUFFALO, N.Y. — There have been reports of people being turned away at airports and border crossings over messages found on their phones and laptops
"Customs and Border protection can ask you to turn over your phone and they are able to look at it and go through it. If they don't like what they see on it and there's something that might be unlawful or contrary to newer regulations, they can keep your phone," said attorney Kevin Burke Jr. at Gross Shuman P.C in Buffalo.
Burke said "the Border patrol can ask to review what's on your phone or what's on your laptop, but you can control the scope of what they're looking at, so what I'm telling folks is it's probably a better idea to log out of any email or to log out of any personal accounts. And if they do ask to review your email, or they do ask to look at your laptop, you say something like yes, officer, let me get that for you."
Some of his business clients have been asked to turn over their cell phones or have their laptops reviewed.  
The political climate and crackdown on illegal immigrants is part of the reason for the increased scrutiny. 
"Strong positions one way or another on what's happening over in Gaza, as an example, strong positions one way or another on Ukraine and Russia, even strong positions on the tariff situation," Burke said. "Those are things that they are looking for and you know if there's a way, to avoid giving them excuse to turn you away." 
We also found this general statement and information on the U.S. Customs and Border Protection website. :
U.S. Customs and Border Protection (CBP) is responsible for protecting our nation’s borders and enforcing numerous laws at U.S. ports of entry. CBP’s ability to lawfully inspect electronic devices crossing the border is integral to keeping America safe in an increasingly digital world.
All travelers crossing the United States border are subject to CBP inspection. On rare occasions, CBP officers may search a traveler’s mobile phone, computer, camera, or other electronic devices during the inspection process. These searches have been used to identify and combat terrorist activity, child pornography, drug smuggling, human smuggling, bulk cash smuggling, human trafficking, export control violations, intellectual property rights violations and visa fraud, among other violations. Furthermore, border searches of electronic devices are often integral to determining an individual’s intentions upon entry to the United States and thus provide additional information relevant to admissibility of foreign nationals under U.S. immigration laws.
CBP has established strict guidelines, above and beyond prevailing legal requirements, to ensure that these searches are exercised judiciously and responsibly and are consistent with the public trust.
 
Attorney advises caution for travelers with phones
WWW.WGRZ.COM Reports arise of devices being checked at borders amid crackdown on illegal activity, especially affecting non-US-born travelers.