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Edit — lockdown until 5am Monday morning.

They started doing curfews at 5/6pm nearly 2 weeks ago. Definitely put a big damper on my trip. A good place to go otherwise.

I’ve been in Medellin Colombia for the last month. Currently there’s an 8pm curfew Monday to Thursday and restrictions on where you can go during the day. And full lockdown 8pm Thursday night to 5pm Monday morning.

Might want to see how that develops. I’m ending my trip early. Big COVID issue in Colombia.

Where the people are. However, I never see San Antonio as a hotbed, even though it is a population mecca. Also, San Diego gets a bad rap often, primarily from travelers who don't get love from the locals when they're there.

 

I'd say NYC, DC, Miami, Houston, and LA are where over 90% of worthwhile people are at or near.

Thanks for the tip on San Antonio and San Diego!

I left feedback in another thread for an escort asking about Miami. I thought it would be a profitable winter destination and it turned out to be pretty slow/bad. The average massage rate is also about $50 /hr less than in other cities. Tons of latin guys working.

Why isn’t Chicago on the list? Currently, NYC, Chicago, LA, San Fran, Boston are the top 5 largest LGBTQ cities in the US. Now, this may not correlate with propensity for hiring, highest incomes (i.e., San Fran, San Jose, Seattle, DC, San Diego), or the quantity of competing escorts for the same market. It probably involves a very complex algorithm, but if i were marketing towards the LGBTQ population, i would target myself to the larger centers.

Thanks for this info!

Chicago is simply ho-hum. Yes, it's a major population center, for sure, but when I scroll through to find someone, it's a lot of meh. The two things that are the big attraction are 1. What does his body look like, and 2. What does his cock look like? It's really hard to stand out from the pack if either your body doesn't have it going on, or if your penis isn't drool-worthy. As many others have mentioned both to me and everyone else : that's life.

Yes I've heard Chicago isn't too good. I had a client tell me a former regular of his moved there and struggled.

If you decide to make travel part of your routine, it is also a good idea to add regulars in each city. Folks you can reach out to when you are planning a trip - it really helps take the pressure (financial and emotional) off if you can line up reliable clients ahead of time. I have a regular companion that I've been the anchor client for over the past 3 years. It works well for both of us - staying with me overnight when he arrives pays for his flight and his next day's hotel stay. ?

Thanks good point. Part of the reason I'm heading back to the east coast is to maintain some of the relationships I made last year. I should've saved more phone numbers though. Nice to know what to expect when re-visiting a place. My plan is a month in DC, Philly, and then NYC area. I heard some recommendations from female escorts that Boston is a great place to go. Housing is pricey but looking into there as well.

There's a thread on this (I'm too lazy), but DC definitely. General rule of thumb is NYC/DC/LA .

and yes, count the pages on RM.

Thanks. I tried to do a search and couldn't find the thread. I was in DC for the month of September 2020. I'm thinking of going there first. Since I live in monthly rentals the northeast is appealing since some of the major cities aren't too far apart.

I did a 4 day trip to LA recently and I found it may be a difficult place to work due to the traffic and distance between appointments.

Hi. I'm wondering what people think are the best places in the US to make money? Curious to hear both the client and escort perspective.

I've been in South America for a month and coming back to my car in Miami soon. I'm thinking of best direction to drive from there. I'm leaning towards hitting the Northeast.

Which state?

I travel around. Cars in Miami then likely heading to NYC area.

My profile is currently down but im 29 6 feet at 5% currently. I'll be back in the states in 3 weeks. Current pics on the best flex - Naughtybootybuilder

I’ve had so many scammers for this it’s crazy. There’s definitely a market for this stuff but not through rentmen. Cowboys 4 angels is the site. I’m gonna post some straight porn on pornhub this year. I hope some legit couples hit me up! Lol

I seem to get this request every now and again, and most recently I decided to just emphasize clearly in my ads, that I will not be taking any requests for these type of visits. I've done LOTS of male couples and 3 ways, but only 1 where there was a woman in the room...and she wasn't his wife, but another escort.

 

It's usually always a guy contacting (never the woman) discussing he's looking to plan something for/with his wife and or girlfriend. This seems to be mere fantasy, but I did once accept a booking of this nature once, and it fell thru at the last minute. The client citing his wife became ill of sorts.

 

Just the other day I got another request similar to this: spent a few minutes chatting over phone, he's going on about it being a surprise for his wife but that he too would also be joining and playing...as in she would also be totally okay with this. Never happened, nor did I expect it to.

 

Is this a real life thing going on? I know of swingers events and obviously bi porn out there. But it seems the ones coming to Rentmen and company for it, aren't the real deal. I also don't really do bi encounters anyway, so whenever it is presented, I usually just want to say no anyway.

Since I state on my ad I’m a straight escort I get hit up often about this. Unfortunately it’s almost always people toying with me. I’m also a male stripper and do bachelorette parties. Anytime it’s a couple call they usually want the wife banged. This happens like 2 times a year. I’ve been on rentmen 1.5 years and had 1 female girl me and 1 legitimate couple.

I think a lot of guys who send you a pic of themselves without you asking probably have low self esteem and want reassurance that they look ok for you. So I could see how they flake then still thinking that they aren't good enough. Kind of sad actually.

 

Although it might not even be really their pic in the first place too and they are just big time game players.

Yeah when clients send me a pic it doesn’t give me the best impression. I interpret it as their way of flirting.

Hey guys. I have left Miami for good. It was a poor winter there and I don't plan on ever returning really. I'm in Medellin Colombia for the next 5 weeks. I'm ramping up onlyfans content and doing skype shows while I'm here. Shredded at 5-6%bf now.

Thank for all the good feedback on this thread. I'm available on skype - awindmanpt if anyone wants to connect. I will head back to East coast end of April and then go to Asia next winter (if its open).

I believe payments should always be in cash unless otherwise noted. Its a huge pet peeve of mine if someone asks to pay electronically after the appointment. I never ask prior, but feel I need to put a disclaimer in my ad to avoid more electronic payment as its becoming more prevalent. I couldn't believe it last month when a client paid me in paypal and then hes like "you're reallly first name - last name I've seen your facebook". LOL not a way to build rapport. I also had a client realize I knew his brother after paying me on paypal and he freaked out.

CASH IS KING!

There are pros and cons to using pre-existing sites for shows.

 

The biggest plus is that the billing infrastructure is there. You don't have to worry about getting customers to pay, or having PayPal freeze your account for suspicious activity, or any of that.

 

However, those sites take a significant cut of your earnings. For example, OnlyFans takes 20% of all earnings; Chaturbate takes 45%; and Flirt4Free takes anywhere from 27% to 50% based upon a sliding pay scale formula that depends upon how much revenue you generate – all of which, of course, is before taxes since all of that does get reported.

Wow was not expecting 45%. Disappointing to hear it’s that high. I’m on only fans and don’t mind the reasonable 20%.

I plan on getting on chaturbate next week. I just bought a mask that partially covers my face. Gonna give it a go and promote my onlyfans on there as well.

I think you should simply move and the market there isn’t fruitful enough. May experience a big swing in money with a location change.

Perhaps you should consider one of these Webcam sites like CHATURBATE where you can flex away, and dont have to see the people watching you and collect their tips. You could also prepare a preset menu of different types of acts or flexes for diff amounts of tip. Watching guys on there for awhile and my perception is if you give them a good show you can make alot of money without even leaving your house.

I’ve been thinking about doing chaturbate.

Does anyone here have any information on how much those guys make?

I see the female cams get a ton more viewers but a former client of mine knows some guys that do pretty well on there.

I actually have two questions. I'm getting requests for flexing videos on IG.. How much would I charge?

 

Could I use an OF page for this?

I personally charge $50/10 mins live or $60 for a 10 min video.

However there’s been some cases where a client gives me a lengthy script for a video and I regret after the fact not charging more in this case.

And yea if they’re asking for a custom video than they would likely join an only fans acct. Or if it’s a generic posing video it can be used for both.

You seem like a nice guy!

Usually escorts can decifer who’s serious from who’s wasting time. Don’t be afraid to ask questions. State your intentions and maybe if you’re getting 1 word answers it’s time to move onto someone else.

Have a client requested a fetish that you were not even aware of or was just very uncommon? How did it go?

To get pooped on/in mouth. Beat someone up.

Didn’t go for either but have been asked multiple times for both.

I get liquid viagra online. It’s great because sometimes I only take like 20mg so don’t have to take a whole 50 or 100mg tab.

I charge $50/10 mins or $75 if they want me to cum.

More specific to muscle clients from the best flex. Don’t like to do long shows personally.

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I’ve known Bootybuilder for over two years now.

We met in Las Vegas, where I live. Awesome guy. Great body, great face, and a charming dinner companion. Highly recommend.

Thanks Floyd/Tim Gunn. I think I told you but you were the first guy to hire me. So you unofficially got me involved in this line of work! Hope to see you in Miami soon!

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Agreed

Thanks! Sorry that the trip didn’t go as planned. I had the shoulder injury and wasn’t at my best. Glad we had a nice meal and conversation at the end! I did tell you I’d be coming back better than ever ?? and that’ll certainly continue!

Good for you. So long as you are clear about that which you're comfortable no one should complain. They can decide whether to see you or not. It's a simple thing called respect.

Yea thanks! I get a lot of messages each week of people that don’t read my profile. I’m very happy when I meet with clients like gym owner and Alex. I won’t meet with anyone that asks for anything extreme or if it’s not a fit sexually. I’m able to navigate this market well because I generally enjoy people especially those who have an interest in me and understand boundaries. I definitely leave a lot of money on the table but I’m happy.