KensingtonHomo

A very sexy looking guy visiting NYC but he has no RM review and I can't find him on here. Curious if anyone has met him. https://rent.men/ObjectifiJackson

$300+

As a non-provider, this makes a lot of sense to me. I'm a premium RM client and my profile has info about me and my husband. I would prefer to communicate via the platform, rather than have to text guys who won't recognize my number, etc. But the vast majority of providers tell you NOT to contact them via the website. Now, maybe they get lots of messages from randos, but perhaps RM does or could allow providers to screen only for premium clients which would at least remove some of the fakes.

We often offer providers or a glass of wine. Some say "no." and we understand why especially if it's a first time. With regulars, they know we're good guys and they'll typically take water or a glass of wine.

As a bottom, I sometimes find that providers who top have a script in mind that isn't necessarily what I'm looking for. I also find many of them present themselves as "masc" and humorless. I'm attracted to a variety of gender expression but lack of humor is a turn off. But I don't necessarily fault those providers because gay male culture mostly regards masculinity as superior to femininity. And we've seen even on here people besmirching femme or just not uber butch providers.

Probably twice a month.

I have to admit sometimes I put out a feeler to 2 or 3 guys. Usually, it will take a few hours to a day to hear back. Some never respond. I don’t feel like an initial outreach text is anything more than that. But once someone responds if he seems cool and the timing works out, I’m pretty quick to close the deal. I don’t leave guys hanging or expect them to chat for long. We have a few regulars and I usually reach out to them several days in advance.

Did he say that to you?

I haven't met ClassicColt but based on your type, I think Eric could be a great fit for you: https://rent.men/NYWolfman. He's a great guy and awesome lover.

Anyone who says their orientation is "straight" is a hard pass for me. I had one-sided sex with straight guys when I was a teenager and in college. I'm certainly not paying for it! LOL

Honestly, I usually scroll through the Platinum guys because they're expensive and head to the lower levels.

I don't want to get into a fight. But i have very pale, sensitive skin. I have slept with men who have shaved chests or arms. Not only is it uncomfortable to me (and sex is supposed to be pleasurable), but it will leave me with red "beard burn" all over my body. I agree that zooming in on a picture and making a big deal about it is unnecessary. BUT if I were to hire an escort based on their being "naturally smooth" and they show up with a five o'clock shadow all over their body, I don't think it's being fussy or entitled to say they misrepresented themselves. I would say the same of someone who have pubic hair in all the pictures and shows up with a completely bare crotch. It's funny to be even commenting on this because my husband is naturally smooth and besides him, I generally gravitate toward hairy guys.

Hey All, I'm wondering if anyone has experience with this provider: https://rent.men/DTuffEdge He's visiting NYC and I'm looking to see him tomorrow. Thanks! Christian

We haven't been yet but I've heard Brooklyn parties are super-diverse and more easy-going then Manhattan. Also, we live here so it's 10 minutes away.

Yes, totally bummed he left the business. He was my favorite.

I don't hire bottoms, so it would never be an issue. But he's definitely a very young person brimming with self-confidence. I don't find him attractive but I know a lot of men who love that twunk look. And I agree that shaved bodies are a non-starter. It's VERY uncomfortable and I really disliked bare genitals. So it's a pass, pass, pass but - again - there are people who want what he's selling.

We've been meaning to check out the Scum parties. There's one in Brooklyn this Friday.

I'm a big believer in consent and being upfront. So I will ask a new provider what an erotic massage includes, including "can I blow you?" If it's not been discussed up front, you can simply ask "may I suck you?" But doing it that way may make the provider feel pressured so I think it's best to be upfront. Also, if you really want that as part of your experience, you want a provider who includes that.

We didn't get an STI but we did have a provider who contacted us when he tested positive for gonorrhea. He called and seemed very nervous. I assured him that I was very glad he contacted us, and we made arrangements to get tested. We were negative. To me, this showed me that he was professional and care about his clients. We've wanted to hire him again but he does this part time so our schedules just haven't aligned.

Your blog is great. You're a good storyteller.

I suspect there's pent up demand at the moment due to two years of pandemic, when guys were not available or we were disinclined to hire. I generally don't go above $350 unless its for more than an hour. Most of the regular guys we see are in the $250-$300 zone.

I have no desire to have sex with a straight man. I gave some blow jobs to straight guys when I was a teenager. That was enough. Plus, I want my queer money to go to other queers.

I'm younger than my husband but he is fitter. I'm sure it's difficult for a provider or providers to ensure they are given 50/50 equal attention. And I don't expect that. It was just SO obvious in this case that we would not repeat. Funnily enough, it was my idea.

My husband and I hired them for a couple's erotic massage. They clearly found my husband more attractive than me and it was a real bummer. The massage skills were mediocre, they were both a bit heavier (probably due to COVID), but the worst part was there was times when they had three hands on my husband and one on me. I never received as much attention. Just a bad vibe for working with a couple.

Same. For an hour, I think anywhere from $250-$350 is reasonable because I'm in NYC. One of our favorite guys, who's in his 40s, charges $275 I think. And most of our times with him are better than anyone in their 20s.