BuffaloKyle

Not surprised he ghosted you. He does look like a major douchebag and tool. I hope all your experiences from here turn out much better. Utilize the forum and hire a guy that's well reviewed and validated on here.

BUMP!

Has anyone met him yet in person?

I'm a top but when I hire other tops for oral only sessions I always will state I want to provide them oral to a happy ending completion. As others mentioned some providers will only cum during a multi hour session so make sure to ask.

As far as providers staying the whole hour just a little bit of live and learn on how long for instance to spend on each thing you wanna do if you want to make sure you're not cut off early. I will keep a little bit of an eye on the clock as well during a one hour session and not get into really intense fucking or sucking until it gets down to around 15 min to go.

2 hours ago, SouthOfTheBorder said:

 I’d say best plan would be enroll ACA during open enrollment periods and talk to someone familiar w the intricacies & subsides to minimize the actual cost.

If he doesn't have a full time job and most of his income is from escorting and not getting reported to the govt he can sign up anytime and get Medicaid.

On 4/2/2024 at 8:10 PM, Trick said:

I texted him today.  The incall rate was 500.  I’ll pass.

Yeah tell him there are actual porn stars in NYC that charge less so he's not getting $500.

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4 hours ago, EZEtoGRU said:

 Here's another example of the spicy food conundrum.  I'm currently on a Delta flight back to Michigan.  Along with the main course, a small salad was also on the tray for my lunch.  They provided a tiny bottle of Spicy Tomato/Chili salad dressing to pour on top.  No non-spicy alternative was available.  I'm not picky about salad dressings.  I can eat French/Ranch/Thousand Island/Blue Cheese/Oil & Vinegar/Many others....but I don't want spicy dressing on my salad.  I did use the dressing on the salad but frankly I do not desire my salad to be spicy.  Very irritating.

You said no non-spicy alternative was available so you asked that time? I honestly would call Delta customer service. Don't be afraid to speak up.

Did you ask the server if it was supposed to be spicy @EZEtoGRU?

Reminds me of this place by me Dinosaur BBQ. All their side dishes have a little extra ingredient added in which you aren't expecting.

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Ad been around since November 2019 and zero reviews so just a fantasy to actually get with him seems like. Explains all the zero replies.

25 minutes ago, anotherone said:

You can just hook up with them off of Grindr… of hire I guess? 

You'll find a good majority of providers on Grindr sure. They want to hook up and get their sexual wants and needs satisfied as well. I'm not hot enough anyway to get with porn star level looking guys for free. 😅

I met up with Paul Codi for two hours when he was here in Buffalo at his place. He spends most of his time in Toronto with his BF Travis Connor. He is incredibly sexy and a super nice guy. I've never met Travis so I have no info on him or how they are when hired as a duo.

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3 hours ago, bcbg1205 said:

How many times a month is a regular client?

I'd say once a month is a regular client. Even once every other month would be too in my mind.

Did you end up meeting with anyone then @edinbrooklyn ?

4 minutes ago, MikeBiDude said:

When I sort through my city (a suburb of Los Angeles) I wish I could filter out providers NOT based in my search zone (i.e. “will travel to”) and only show me providers based in the area I’m searching.

I know what you mean! There is an option to see only visiting providers in a city which show guys like you said either going to be visiting or have the near travel selected to that city. There is no way though to select and see only the guys who have the city set as their home base. When I am doing a search of a big city it'd be nice to weed out all the guys who aren't there and truly see only the guys available.

2 hours ago, DrownedBoy said:

If you're only measuring by escort donations, I guess Chicago is a "second-tier" city. Which is fine because we're always been the "Second City"....

I would think it's a first tier city. By population it's the 3rd largest in the USA:

I put a lot of blame on the parents unfortunately. Letting a 19 year old go to a four day party for someone turning 22 you know there is going to be alcohol involved. And where were anyone else's parents? The party was heavily documented on social media the whole time and no one cared, very sad.

I love to be edged or to edge someone the problem that I would have doing it with a provider is as @Simon Suraci said an hour is a good edging time frame. So if I hire a provider for two hours to have one whole hour spent just edging or getting edged just seems like too long to devote to just one thing when I like to get into a lot of different things.

12 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

That assumption seems a little upside down to me.

I was just going by the breakdown of older guys that I talk to and that the majority of them are bottoms. I shouldn't have assumed from such a small sample size that most older guys are bottoms.

6 hours ago, JamesB said:

Does that make me vers Top?

I would say so. I look at guys who are versatile as they bottom or top pretty equally or enjoy both equally. But a vers/top or vers/btm  they usually prefer and enjoy one over the other but will do the other with the right guy or for pay or when the mood strikes.