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urbanfetish reacted to + DrownedBoy in Unwritten "roommate" rule?
I and my regulars use that technique too in my condo building, passing them off as Grindr hookups. Gay or straight, they just nod and leave me alone.
Some of them actually are Grindr hookups; luckily, nobody has grilled me on the differences in appearance and age between the hookups and the hires.
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urbanfetish got a reaction from Saabster in Unwritten "roommate" rule?
You should absolutely tell them. Part of the whole idea behind hiring an independent masseur, either for an in call or an out call, is the sense of privacy as opposed to going to a spa with others around. As a client, I always go to the masseur's place. I've had a few times when the masseur had company. One time, it was the sister of the masseur and another was a guy who hid in the bathroom except I needed to use the bathroom before the session. Very awkward. Another time, the masseur informed me ahead of time that his landlord was in the house (he rented a bedroom) and he said he told the landlord that I was just a Grindr hook up, not a client. He didn't want him to know what he did for work. I never saw the first two masseurs again because the surprise was just too weird, and frankly, disrespectful. I should not have been put in that position.
I can only imagine that the masseur in your situation felt similar. The surprise of finding another person there probably made him nervous. Was this a sting? Was he going to be robbed or beaten up? At least give them a heads up and let them make a decision for themself.
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urbanfetish got a reaction from + DrownedBoy in Unwritten "roommate" rule?
You should absolutely tell them. Part of the whole idea behind hiring an independent masseur, either for an in call or an out call, is the sense of privacy as opposed to going to a spa with others around. As a client, I always go to the masseur's place. I've had a few times when the masseur had company. One time, it was the sister of the masseur and another was a guy who hid in the bathroom except I needed to use the bathroom before the session. Very awkward. Another time, the masseur informed me ahead of time that his landlord was in the house (he rented a bedroom) and he said he told the landlord that I was just a Grindr hook up, not a client. He didn't want him to know what he did for work. I never saw the first two masseurs again because the surprise was just too weird, and frankly, disrespectful. I should not have been put in that position.
I can only imagine that the masseur in your situation felt similar. The surprise of finding another person there probably made him nervous. Was this a sting? Was he going to be robbed or beaten up? At least give them a heads up and let them make a decision for themself.
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urbanfetish reacted to Lewis H in Gorgeous NYC Newbie: Milo
He uses maple syrup instead of massage oil.
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urbanfetish reacted to CuriousByNature in Gorgeous NYC Newbie: Milo
He constantly apologizes to you during the massage.
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urbanfetish reacted to dreamboy13 in Spas in NYC
The flow was def weird. Maybe I’ve been spoiled by really great massages and amazing chemistry that this just didn’t do it for me. I mean, I started to think about Lucky Burger across the street mid massage and what I would order. 🤣
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urbanfetish reacted to aquariaman in New Masseurs at Shangrila Spa NYC
The new Chris at Shangrila is definitely NOT the Chris that used to work there, unfortunately.
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urbanfetish got a reaction from Spiritualadvisor in New Masseurs at Shangrila Spa NYC
You've gotten my hopes up! I just sent them an email asking if it's him. I only had one massage with him before he left and he was great. I hope it is him! haha If they reply, I'll let you know.
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urbanfetish got a reaction from pubic_assistance in 28 mans'spa now grand opening !
Interesting first official advertising lol
Welcome to [Spa Name]! We are located at [Location]. We are opening on [Opening Day]. I'm surprised you were able to add your phone number instead of leaving it as [Phone Number]. 🤣
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urbanfetish got a reaction from JUWS in 28 mans'spa now grand opening !
Interesting first official advertising lol
Welcome to [Spa Name]! We are located at [Location]. We are opening on [Opening Day]. I'm surprised you were able to add your phone number instead of leaving it as [Phone Number]. 🤣
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urbanfetish got a reaction from deepplease in 28 mans'spa now grand opening !
Interesting first official advertising lol
Welcome to [Spa Name]! We are located at [Location]. We are opening on [Opening Day]. I'm surprised you were able to add your phone number instead of leaving it as [Phone Number]. 🤣
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urbanfetish reacted to Cooper in 28 mans'spa now grand opening !
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urbanfetish reacted to gdgd85 in Spas in NYC
Troy at East Man, Tommy at G Man, Hugh or Daniel at Grandee.
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urbanfetish reacted to NYC_massage in New Masseurs at Shangrila Spa NYC
Does anyone know if the Chris that is back on the schedule at Shangrila is the Chris that used to work there? Any insights? His massages were fantastic!!
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urbanfetish reacted to JckBNimble in 411 on spa 27
If you open the link to the last newsletter, the doc has been updated with some photos of the newer guys.
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urbanfetish got a reaction from Beef-a-roni in Spas in NYC
I wasn't impressed. He jumped fairly quickly into "extras" mode and he liked to flex for his own pleasure while staring at himself in the mirror. He gave a mediocre massage.
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urbanfetish got a reaction from JUWS in Spas in NYC
I wasn't impressed. He jumped fairly quickly into "extras" mode and he liked to flex for his own pleasure while staring at himself in the mirror. He gave a mediocre massage.
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urbanfetish reacted to HKNY in 411 on spa 27
Saw Noah today at hk for an hour massage. Very handsome addition who gives a nice massage. It was on softer side which I prefer but presumably you can ask for firmer pressure. Good flow and enjoyed massage and was very happy. I would see him again
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urbanfetish got a reaction from d.anders in Time Square Men’s Spa TSMS
You are either extremely naive or delusional. 🙄
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urbanfetish reacted to + Benhby in 411 on spa 27
Thank you sir ❤️
And to clarify: the one on 28th. Street has nothing to do with us 😵💫😵💫
I don’t know anyone of their spa.
we are planning third location. But it won’t come this soon. We want to build a place that each room has individual shower Will update new here.
thank you everyone ❤️
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urbanfetish reacted to dcsmlxl in Spas in NYC
i gave troy a try at east men spa. he did a really nice job. what made the massage noteworthy is that he has very slow, calm hands. plus, i appreciate that he didn’t hit me up for tips. i was glad to give him a nice one at the end… i would repeat