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    urbanfetish reacted to rollingrock in HK. Men Spa   
    sounds amazing   I don't see John listed on the schedule or in the newsletter though?  Did he just join?
  2. Confused
    urbanfetish reacted to HungreeMunkee69 in HK. Men Spa   
    He won’t be listed on either the newsletter or on the schedule. I think he is only joining for a limited time. 
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from + Tarte Gogo in Spas in NYC   
    Based on your recent posts, I would suggest you stay away from New Yorker. Especially if you like to tip $30. lol
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from ChelseaBoy in 411 on spa 27   
    Stamp cards offer an avenue to encourage loyalty and repeat business. Most that I have encountered at spas offer a free 30 min massage, which I'm assuming is usually used by most people during a 60 or 90 min massage. The spa is still getting some money from the massage and the customer feels like they are getting something as a thanks for their continued business. I use mine to get a 90 min massage (i.e. pay for 60 min) and I tip based on the 90 min rate. Maybe I'm naive but I assume that the masseur is being paid the same from the spa for the massage and it's the spa that's taking the hit on the discount. 🤷‍♂️
    And frankly, if you don't want to use it because you perceive that your masseur is being cheated out of their pay, then don't use the card! It's pretty simple.
  5. Haha
    urbanfetish got a reaction from bcamair in Spas in NYC   
    Based on your recent posts, I would suggest you stay away from New Yorker. Especially if you like to tip $30. lol
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from Beancounter in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    Narcissistic? Well, if that isn't the pot calling the kettle black. lol 
    How would I be able to tell if someone is actually bisexual or just gay4pay if I haven't met them???
    I suppose you have trouble when someone accidentally types here/hear, their/they're/there or two/to/too? Life must be tough for you. Or is that "life must bee tough four ewe"? While weary and wary are not exactly homonyms like these examples, they are fairly close in spelling and pronunciation, and easy enough to figure out what was meant.
    So, you have a couple of options - get over it or continue to be a dick. Your choice (You're choice?) Sew sorry two confuse U!
    Buh-bye Bi!
  7. Eye Roll
    urbanfetish got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    Narcissistic? Well, if that isn't the pot calling the kettle black. lol 
    How would I be able to tell if someone is actually bisexual or just gay4pay if I haven't met them???
    I suppose you have trouble when someone accidentally types here/hear, their/they're/there or two/to/too? Life must be tough for you. Or is that "life must bee tough four ewe"? While weary and wary are not exactly homonyms like these examples, they are fairly close in spelling and pronunciation, and easy enough to figure out what was meant.
    So, you have a couple of options - get over it or continue to be a dick. Your choice (You're choice?) Sew sorry two confuse U!
    Buh-bye Bi!
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from bcamair in 411 on spa 27   
    Stamp cards offer an avenue to encourage loyalty and repeat business. Most that I have encountered at spas offer a free 30 min massage, which I'm assuming is usually used by most people during a 60 or 90 min massage. The spa is still getting some money from the massage and the customer feels like they are getting something as a thanks for their continued business. I use mine to get a 90 min massage (i.e. pay for 60 min) and I tip based on the 90 min rate. Maybe I'm naive but I assume that the masseur is being paid the same from the spa for the massage and it's the spa that's taking the hit on the discount. 🤷‍♂️
    And frankly, if you don't want to use it because you perceive that your masseur is being cheated out of their pay, then don't use the card! It's pretty simple.
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from + KensingtonHomo in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    Whether they are attracted to guys or not is not really the issue. Most providers are probably not attracted to many of their clients. However, there is still a basic interest in having sex with someone who is the same gender. Straight guys generally don't like to take a cock in the ass but a gay or bi bottom would pretty much always be able to do it regardless of attraction. I could advertise myself as a escort for women, but I would never be able to actually perform to any woman's satisfaction. 
  10. Thanks
    urbanfetish reacted to + APPLE1 in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    I automatically changed "weary" to "wary" in my mind, because "cautious" seems to fit much better than "tired" in that sentence.
    Seems worth pointing out, that if there was any question of context or intent, the last paragraph of @urbanfetish post makes it fundamentaly obvious he has no problem having sex with bi guys.
    "Outside of hiring, wouldn't think twice. If we're going to hook up and no money is involved, there's no issue."
    The only logical observation after reading the last paragraph is to assume that his experience with guys stating "bi" in a profile, when the reality was "gay for pay, " hasn't worked well for him. I think most of us would agree that the potential for perceived dishonesty in a profile makes us cautious.
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from Marc in Calif in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    Narcissistic? Well, if that isn't the pot calling the kettle black. lol 
    How would I be able to tell if someone is actually bisexual or just gay4pay if I haven't met them???
    I suppose you have trouble when someone accidentally types here/hear, their/they're/there or two/to/too? Life must be tough for you. Or is that "life must bee tough four ewe"? While weary and wary are not exactly homonyms like these examples, they are fairly close in spelling and pronunciation, and easy enough to figure out what was meant.
    So, you have a couple of options - get over it or continue to be a dick. Your choice (You're choice?) Sew sorry two confuse U!
    Buh-bye Bi!
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    urbanfetish reacted to Ingress in Tokyo, Japan massage   
    Just got back from Tokyo and I would add on to my previous list and recommend from Namwa: Kento, Gaito, and Sabito.
    Gaito is now my all time favorite so far. Best in terms of massage skill and sensuality throughout. Older brother vibes indeed!
    Kento would be my second pick for his good looks and his massage.
    Sabito has a softer massage, but very refreshing ending.
    There were also some new guys on the utagane website. Would recommend trying them out too because they host at a private apartment without other guests, so they usually are free to go the extra mile. Haven't had a bad experience here yet, but a few at namwa were total misses.
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    Mea culpa. I meant "wary," as in "feeling or showing caution."  If anything, you could have gotten that from the context clues in my post. 🙄
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from HungreeMunkee69 in 411 on spa 27   
    Yup, that's just what I thought. Thank you for confirming. 
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from Danny-Darko in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    Mea culpa. I meant "wary," as in "feeling or showing caution."  If anything, you could have gotten that from the context clues in my post. 🙄
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    urbanfetish reacted to MmM in 411 on spa 27   
    The discount is only for the business. The masseur gets the same amount. I know this to be a fact. 
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from Redwine56 in 411 on spa 27   
    Stamp cards offer an avenue to encourage loyalty and repeat business. Most that I have encountered at spas offer a free 30 min massage, which I'm assuming is usually used by most people during a 60 or 90 min massage. The spa is still getting some money from the massage and the customer feels like they are getting something as a thanks for their continued business. I use mine to get a 90 min massage (i.e. pay for 60 min) and I tip based on the 90 min rate. Maybe I'm naive but I assume that the masseur is being paid the same from the spa for the massage and it's the spa that's taking the hit on the discount. 🤷‍♂️
    And frankly, if you don't want to use it because you perceive that your masseur is being cheated out of their pay, then don't use the card! It's pretty simple.
  18. Confused
    urbanfetish got a reaction from pubic_assistance in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    I'm so sorry that you seem to have trouble with reading comprehension. Or maybe you just get so triggered around the subject of bisexuality and you just jump into attack mode? I don't know.
    This is what I said: "I'm always weary about bi guys when it comes to hiring. In my experience, it has been more "gay for pay" (bi for pay? lol) and I want someone who actually likes sex with guys."
    Nowhere in that statement mentions anything about me being "tired of bisexuals" or that bisexuals are really gay4pay nor did I say that bisexuals "don't actually like sex with guys." I literally said the opposite - instead of getting bisexuals who do like sex with guys, most of the providers I have hired who claim to be bisexual are in fact gay4pay and don't like sex with guys; they are just doing the bare minimum (if even) to earn some money. 
    Reading (comprehension) is fundamental! 
  19. Haha
    urbanfetish got a reaction from HungreeMunkee69 in Spas in NYC   
    Based on your recent posts, I would suggest you stay away from New Yorker. Especially if you like to tip $30. lol
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from jaypnyc in Spas in NYC   
    Based on your recent posts, I would suggest you stay away from New Yorker. Especially if you like to tip $30. lol
  21. Confused
    urbanfetish got a reaction from JohnJackNYC in Spas in NYC   
    You're going to a place like TSMS just for a "very good massage"? Do you go to McDonald's and expect fine dining too? 
    Most "men's spas" are good for one thing, and a legit massage is not it. These guys are providing a "special service" and going in expecting something else just disappoints both you and the masseur. lol 
  22. Haha
    urbanfetish got a reaction from JckBNimble in Spas in NYC   
    Based on your recent posts, I would suggest you stay away from New Yorker. Especially if you like to tip $30. lol
  23. Haha
    urbanfetish got a reaction from Marc in Calif in ===411 Chuck on Manhattan=====   
    Wow, so many newbies coming out of nowhere to sing Chuck's praises! It's a miracle!!! 🙄
  24. Haha
    urbanfetish reacted to Njguy2 in 411 on spa 27   
    Their name is written on the picture 
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    urbanfetish got a reaction from Mydavid in Can't trust a bisexual?   
    Whether they are attracted to guys or not is not really the issue. Most providers are probably not attracted to many of their clients. However, there is still a basic interest in having sex with someone who is the same gender. Straight guys generally don't like to take a cock in the ass but a gay or bi bottom would pretty much always be able to do it regardless of attraction. I could advertise myself as a escort for women, but I would never be able to actually perform to any woman's satisfaction. 
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