Thomas_Belgium

On 11/17/2022 at 4:44 AM, nycboi said:

Can we call it short-term vaccine? 

Technically it isn't a vaccine I think but in my opinion it's OK to call it a "short-term vaccine".

Hi,

Viagra isn't safe to take every day. If you can I would first try it on your own so you can find out how long it takes to work for you, have fun.

18 hours ago, arnemgreeves said:

https://cdn.statcdn.com/Infographic/images/normal/16090.jpeg

Just an overview of what the laws are in the EU.

Britain incidentally would be in the abolitionism category. 

Thanks for the map but it's already outdated.

19 hours ago, Wolfer said:

Most brands make my hole burn. I've since switched to pure Aloe Vera gel and am really pleased. Glides well, lasts a bit longer than water-based. But not as long as silicone based. 

There's lubes with Aloe Vera like MrB Sensitive ( https://www.misterb.com/nl/mister-b-lube-sensitive-30-ml-911161 )

22 hours ago, DynamicUno said:

I don't think it's condom safe.  I'd prefer something formulated for the job, but the ingredients don't look like they'd be an irritant.

Albolene is safe to use with non latex condoms (Trojan Non-Latex BareSkin, Durex Nude No Latex, Manix Skyn).

Hi NYCboi,

There's some dildos that have a more realistic feeling, although they are, in most cases, expensive. Nevertheless, I recommend always to use condoms with dildos & with a real penis also use condoms. If you practice, I would use a realistic size dildo. In my opinion it's better to throw all plugs & unrealistic large dildos. As a top (I was versaltile until some years ago) I beg you to don't ruin your butt with large toys. 

A good penis is hard, not soft. A good erection has to be as hard as a dildo. If you put your realistic dildo in warm water (not too hot) you should have to get the same feeling. The difference between a dildo an a real penis is the guy, the way you feel his body & only when you're on PrEP or in a safe relationship, feel is cum inside you. All the good stuff in the sperm get in your blood stream & some guys say they can feel that.

Would you be comfortable other guys would come into your house for a paydate?

21 hours ago, pubic_assistance said:

Google search brought up this.

https://www.hardcell.org.uk/bunker/colours-and-kink/

I dabbled in BDSM scene when I was younger ( both str8 and gay ) I remember there WAS something to it ( beyond the whole gay hanky in the pocket thing ).

This article seems accurate to the best of my memory about this stuff. ( Although I admit I am a decade behind ...so things may have changed ).

There's a lot more colors than described in that article. The article doesn't mention green for paydates.

Hi again Chuck,

Yellow is indeed for watersports, golden showers, pis. Only if you wore pink you had to be worried to be in a gang bang. If you want to be fisted, wear red. 

Hi Chuck,

Yes, it is. With the blue cap you'll send the message you want to be (anal) fucked.

Never tried it myself but I read very good things about the FC2 internal condom. It's designed for women but guys can use it too.

On 8/20/2016 at 8:15 AM, joethomas said:

Don't know why guys in green are a real turn on - maybe it's an army thing??

Yes, after decades of underwear fetish I'm sure it's an army thing. It can also be a paydate thing

https://www.andrewchristian.com/blog/are-jockstraps-the-new-hanky-code/

or it can be both.

On 9/17/2022 at 4:05 AM, Lookandbook said:

I will also be traveling to Paris later this year, following thread for recommendations. 
 

If anyone is familiar with Villa Giani of London, is there a Paris equivalent?

As far as I know brothels are illegal in France so there isn't a Paris equivalent compared to Giani London. Although, in my opinion, it's just a short hop from Paris to London.

On 9/18/2022 at 11:57 PM, Colton said:

I wouldn’t read too much into this fact.  First off, these are a bunch of related websites, so only probably 2-3 unique companies.  Second, these companies earn a lot from around the world, and the Netherlands is a great place to set up to avoid tax.  Foreign earnings are usually tax free in the Netherlands.  While you may think of Ikea as Swedish and Fiat as Italian, both are now Dutch registered companies.  
 

 

Colton,

You're right, six of the sites I visit regularly (ActiveDuty.com, BearBack.com, FalconStudios.com, JohnnyRapid.com, NextDoorStudios.com, RagingStallion.com) are registered by:

Digigamma bv, Mariettahof 25, 2033 WS Haarlem, The Netherlands.

On 9/16/2022 at 8:03 PM, Colton said:

Wow that’s super progressive.  I wonder if policies like this attract sex workers to set up home base in Belgium.  

Half of the gay (porn) sites I regularly visit are registered in the Netherlands:

ActiveDuty.com

BearBack.com

F2f.net

FalconStudios.com

Hunqz.com

JohnnyRapid.com

NextDoorStudios.com

RagingStallion.com

Staxus.com

This is because the law in the Netherlands protects sex workers, including porn performers. So, yes, I'm sure the new laws will attract more (legal) sex work businesses.

On 9/16/2022 at 11:14 AM, arnemgreeves said:

they should make actual brothels legal with security, or even co-working spaces where independent people could work with paid security they all chip into. i doubt this would happen soon - it's not a good look on the electorate and there are arguably more pressing issues to attend to. 

Yes, since Sep. 1st (this year) brothels are fully legal in Belgium.

18 hours ago, arnemgreeves said:

I'm not an escort but it's legal in most of Europe. So this means less screening for police, and more open advertising. Probably less problematic somewhat, but there are still shitty and dangerous punters about.

Exactly. Also in Belgium they can get health & social insurance including retirement benefits, get an accountant, lawyer, whatever they need as any other company.

In my opinion, moving to another city won't solve the problem. The "instasatisfaddicts" will find you, no matter what city you live in & try to lure you into their "ratrace pandemic".

« After an outbreak earlier this year in Missouri, the ratrace pandemic spreads worldwide.

Symptoms of „the infected” are:

Addicted to instant satisfaction;

Walk over d€@d b*d!€$ to get instant satisfaction;

Protect yourself and get a PayPerCall/text phone number today. »

Hypothetically: your wannabe instant addicted client is very nearby, you reach him with your pants on your ankles within two minutes, I guarantee you the answer would be: “you came too fast, you probably didn't shower (or whatever) I think I'll cancel”.

In my opinion, this "instant addicting" thing or whatever it is seems to become the new pandemic.

In my opinion, it's time to get that phone number where you have to pay for if you text or call it.

Did you give them money?

Hi Mike,

Hunqz is the number one gay escort site in Europe, full of awesome guys. Have fun.

1 hour ago, Pittlookalike said:

Wow. I’m new to this. Thx.  I’m meeting someone for five days of sex.  Is douching five consecutive days too much?

Yes, in my opinion, it is. The absolute maximum is one time in a week, I think. Please consider FC2.