Imathrill

I like passion when I’m engaging in activity and I’m curious if escorts ever kiss their clients?

This has happened to me a handful of times...met at a bar, spontaneous moment with a date, etc. I just excuse myself and make sure nothing’s coming out. Didn’t kill the mood for us. I have been very lucky in these scenarios...except for one time. We had agreed to just do oral, we were in the middle of the act, and he started to beg to let him top. I told him that I did not know that situation down there and he didn’t care, he wrapped it up and after about 5 minutes in he stopped and said “Oh...you were right, we should stop.” I don’t count that one because he had full knowledge of the situation beforehand.

I hope that almost a year later you found the right method for you, but here’s mine, just in case. I remember when I first started bottoming I didn’t even douche! Just made sure I didn’t have to go and a quick shower, never had an accident (oh to be young and healthy!) In my late 20s my eating habits worsened and I had my gallbladder removed, my bowel movements became completely inconsistent. I started douching and still after a lengthy session with a well endowed partner I had my first accident. It scarred me. I would douche for almost an hour sometimes. I finally got sick of that, especially when the act lasted 2 minutes. I finally have a fool proof system down. I, too, am on Pure pills, that, and a lot of water everyday, keep me pretty consistent. If I’m going to be with a big partner or I know they have amazing stamina, two hours before a session I pop two Imodiums and douche about an hour before. If not, then I just douche an hour before. I just use warm water and about 4-8oz (more than that will cause it to sit further up the rectum as mentioned a lot here) about 3-4 times. Then, I take a nice long shower, move around a lot, and at the end stick a soapy finger up there and squat to get any excess water out, rinse n’ repeat, and make sure it’s clear water! Never had an accident since. Fuck, the things we do for a couple of minutes of pleasure!

I hope that almost a year later you found the right method for you, but here’s mine, just in case. I remember when I first started bottoming I didn’t even douche! Just made sure I didn’t have to go and a quick shower, never had an accident (oh to be young and healthy!) In my late 20s my eating habits worsened and I had my gallbladder removed, my bowel movements became completely inconsistent. I started douching and still after a lengthy session with a well endowed partner I had my first accident. It scarred me. I would douche for almost an hour sometimes. I finally got sick of that, especially when the act lasted 2 minutes. I finally have a fool proof system down. I, too, am on Pure pills, that, and a lot of water everyday, keep me pretty consistent. If I’m going to be with a big partner or I know they have amazing stamina, two hours before a session I pop two Imodiums and douche about an hour before. If not, then I just douche an hour before. I just use warm water and about 4-8oz (more than that will cause it to sit further up the rectum as mentioned a lot here) about 3-4 times. Then, I take a nice long shower, move around a lot, and at the end stick a soapy finger up there and squat to get any excess water out, rinse n’ repeat, and make sure it’s clear water! Never had an accident since. Fuck, the things we do for a couple of minutes of pleasure!

This has happened to me with two masseurs now. My first time was actually my first erotic massage ever. After reading some things on this forum I knew that I could be straight forward from the get go. I let him know that I really wanted anal stimulation, possibly prostate stimulation. He responded that anal stimulation would not be a problem, however, he did not do any type of penetration. The massage started out great and soon he was giving me the stimulation he had promised. I soon felt his member near my hands and as soon as I reached for it, it was growing in my hand. The pressure on my rosebud grew and I vocalized my pleasure. All of a sudden his finger was inside me and his member had made its way to my head and I took him in my mouth. After a few moments of that I felt him grab my hips and shift my legs off the table. I honestly was in shock as I was not expecting this at all. Before I understood what was happening, he was inside of me, massaging my prostate with his member. His bed was near the table, he sat on the edge and pulled my hips toward him until I was riding him. He came shortly after and then laid me back on the table face up. He got onto the table, wrapped my legs around him and started massaging my prostate with his fingers. He was staring at me so intently through this and finally leaned over and kiss me. We started making out until I was finishing all over myself. It was definitely a great first experience into erotic massages. One that others have failed to reach, until I found my regular masseur. I’ll have to save that story for my next break ?

Avoid at all costs. Just went through the motions. Concentrated on my shoulders for forever, when I never asked for attention there. Half-assed the whole thing. Left me so oily, I felt like a piece of bacon. Completely reliant on his looks, has no skills. Immediately regretted reaching out. 

Does anyone have any recommendations of great masseurs in the Long Beach area?

EL - hands down, best in long beach and best just about anywhere. 
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6049/
 

Two I’ve tried and would/will repeat:
El:
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/6049/

Michael:
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/41199/

https://rentmasseur.com/Gabriel
probably one of the best therapeutic massages i’ve ever received from rentmasseur. highly recommend. he does not do anything else but hey, ymmv. 
https://rentmasseur.com/RyanWest
fairly good massage but not amazing. does provide HE and puts himself over your face but stay soft. but has a really nice body. 
https://rentmasseur.com/Healmindandbody
so so massage with mutual touch with HE. he probably does more if he’s feeling a vibe with you, so ymmv. very handsome for an older guy. 
 

Why do most guys on here give little to no details on the “good parts” or cut the story off when it’s about to get good with some cheesy line. It’s infuriating! I just read through this long ass post just so that I can use my imagination?! Why even bother posting?!

Why do most guys on here give little to no details on the “good parts” or cut the story off when it’s about to get good with some cheesy line. It’s infuriating! I just read through this long ass post just so that I can use my imagination?! Why even bother posting?!

He’s just my type looking to see if anyone has some experience with him.
 
https://rent.men/JacobTop

Has anyone had an erotic massage with TouchByAl in Orange County, CA? https://rentmasseur.com/touchbyal
I have booked an appointment later this week and would appreciate any insight. Any other suggestions?

When an escort has videos on their rent.men profile, what does it mean when they read “RentMen User Video”? Does this mean a client has submitted a video with this escort?

I’m very curious to hear from the the escorts on here...

I’m curious to hear from the escorts how you stay erect with a client you are not attracted to? It’s it Viagra/Cialis? Or just amazing control? I’m a new client and I’m very curious how that works. I could not keep going if I wasn’t attracted to the other guy.

Here’s a prior thread:
https://www.companyofmen.org/threads/slim-pickings-in-salt-lake-city.142723/#post-1852340
I’ve only met Curt advertised on MF and I recommend him. You’ll definitely get your money’s worth.
https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/13609/
I would definitely check out http://renuspaday.com/
Chatting with Kevin on a future meet up and he’s been very pleasant over text and he looks smoking hot. Good luck.

I hope that almost a year later you found the right method for you, but here’s mine, just in case. I remember when I first started bottoming I didn’t even douche! Just made sure I didn’t have to go and a quick shower, never had an accident (oh to be young and healthy!) In my late 20s my eating habits worsened and I had my gallbladder removed, my bowel movements became completely inconsistent. I started douching and still after a lengthy session with a well endowed partner I had my first accident. It scarred me. I would douche for almost an hour sometimes. I finally got sick of that, especially when the act lasted 2 minutes. I finally have a fool proof system down. I, too, am on Pure pills, that, and a lot of water everyday, keep me pretty consistent. If I’m going to be with a big partner or I know they have amazing stamina, two hours before a session I pop two Imodiums and douche about an hour before. If not, then I just douche an hour before. I just use warm water and about 4-8oz (more than that will cause it to sit further up the rectum as mentioned a lot here) about 3-4 times. Then, I take a nice long shower, move around a lot, and at the end stick a soapy finger up there and squat to get any excess water out, rinse n’ repeat, and make sure it’s clear water! Never had an accident since. Fuck, the things we do for a couple of minutes of pleasure!

This has happened to me a handful of times...met at a bar, spontaneous moment with a date, etc. I just excuse myself and make sure nothing’s coming out. Didn’t kill the mood for us. I have been very lucky in these scenarios...except for one time. We had agreed to just do oral, we were in the middle of the act, and he started to beg to let him top. I told him that I did not know that situation down there and he didn’t care, he wrapped it up and after about 5 minutes in he stopped and said “Oh...you were right, we should stop.” I don’t count that one because he had full knowledge of the situation beforehand.

The bottom line was that he did not perform the service that was agreed upon and that’s why I addressed the $$$ and posted a review. You even said yourself in an earlier response that a review was the correct route! Please don’t ever try to “encourage” anyone ever again. It came off completely judgmental. I did want honest feedback. And I got it..negative and positive. But you were the only one that made assumptions about my psyche. I sought out an escort to fulfill a specific sexual fantasy. When it went sour, what I felt was completely unexpected, but I did not seek out an escort for affirmation. Nor, did I come here for affirmation. My original post was very simple...should he get paid? I wanted to know if I was way off asking for some back. I don’t wish him any ill will. I want to believe that he truly did have some physical discomfort, as it started out so well. Yes, I felt embarrassment, but it was my first time! I didn’t accuse him of not being attracted to me, like a provider has now mentioned. I only addressed the service that was not met and that’s all. According to most of the responses here, he acted professionally and I appreciate that. But don’t come at me for having an involuntary natural reaction to something that was out of my control. I did my best to act professional with him.

Was I supposed to stick around for another awkward 30 minutes after I had already tried to assist him to get it back? He did say I didn’t have to leave while I was already dressing but before that he did not offer the get me off in a different way after we could not get his erection back.
Furthermore, I didn’t project anything onto him. I didn’t hold him responsible for what I was feeling. When I reached out to him I was clear that my disappointment was solely on the fact that he was not able to provide the service we had agreed upon and nothing else. I only shared about my embarrassment on this thread to be honest and not for you to try and evaluate me. Let’s leave that to a professional.

Some meet through other avenues like seekingarrangements.com (there is a multi-page thread about it), Instagram (and other similar social media sites), references from other escorts, and sometimes the escort did advertise at one point and either retired from escorting full-time or only needs to advertise sporadically or at all.
 
I'm sure there is a multitude of ways I'm leaving out.
 
In my case, I met a guy through pornhub (although he did advertise at one point). Although we haven't done anything physically, I have met in person and carry on a friendship with a few webcam performers. A few guys I met, off of RB, RM, and other escort sites, who no longer advertise (because they retired and generally stopped escorting) but I still see sexually or purely platonically.

I like passion when I’m engaging in activity and I’m curious if escorts ever kiss their clients?

7 years?! I think you just have sex with him for free and find a new masseur for erotic massages.