Masseur Is Now Your Escort?

[Imathrill]

Has this happened to anyone else? My regular masseur and I have gotten more and more sexual with each session, to the point where I’m only on the table for 5-10 min and the rest of the session is spent in bed. He says he only does it because he enjoys me. Our sessions are so passionate sometimes I forget I’m paying him! I’m going to go broke soon! Lol. Anyone have similar experiences?

[MRJJ]

Anyone have similar experiences?

No, but I would like to!

Edited October 8, 2020 by MRJJ

[river]

Its happened to me and I'm not 100% thrilled about it because his massages were amazingly erotic and that is, for the most part, all i want.

Now it is never just a massage. The bottom line is that i now go a lot less. I know....a lot of people reading this are saying what's wrong with me. But my "thing" is erotic massages.

[Imathrill]

Its happened to me and I'm not 100% thrilled about it because his massages were amazingly erotic and that is, for the most part, all i want.

Now it is never just a massage. The bottom line is that i now go a lot less. I know....a lot of people reading this are saying what's wrong with me. But my "thing" is erotic massages.

Can’t you just communicate to him that you’re not looking for more?

[MmM]

There's a Masseur in NYC like that. Don't get me wrong. I enjoy him a lot. But there's only about 10 min of 'massage' involved.

[DaveH]

care to share a link? or PM ?

[jeezifonly]

Tell him you are going to be spending some of your recreational budget on the massage services that you need, and that you’re not going to be able to see him as often.

[Onamission]

I have had similar experiences, but I keep the massage as part of the routine by my choice. I thoroughly enjoy the massage and it gets me ready for what is to follow ?

[river]

Can’t you just communicate to him that you’re not looking for more?

I think he would be insulted and I cannot risk that in terms of his feelings. He insists that i don't pay but of course I do. He asks me to stay longer to snuggle with him afterwards.

He genuinely feels a connection with me. Btw, this is going on for at least 7 years and I am attracted to him as well. It has really become complicated. But, as i mentioned, I go a lot less often because all i really want is an erotic massage.

[Guest Jason317]

I’ve been seeing my regular masseur. We hit it off after our first few sessions.

[+ sniper]

I think he would be insulted and I cannot risk that in terms of his feelings. He insists that i don't pay but of course I do. He asks me to stay longer to snuggle with him afterwards.

He genuinely feels a connection with me. Btw, this is going on for at least 7 years and I am attracted to him as well. It has really become complicated. But, as i mentioned, I go a lot less often because all i really want is an erotic massage.

If you still actually enjoy the "extra part" could you split the difference go for a two hour session pay for one?

[marylander1940]

Has this happened to anyone else? My regular masseur and I have gotten more and more sexual with each session, to the point where I’m only on the table for 5-10 min and the rest of the session is spent in bed. He says he only does it because he enjoys me. Our sessions are so passionate sometimes I forget I’m paying him! I’m going to go broke soon! Lol. Anyone have similar experiences?

 

HE aren't borderline escorting, they're escorting...

[Bluefin]

You’re paying for a service. If he truly has feelings for you he can have sex with you for free no?

[+ WestGuy]

There's a Masseur in NYC like that. Don't get me wrong. I enjoy him a lot. But there's only about 10 min of 'massage' involved.

Same. I see a guy in NYC that quickly progressed from massage to his bed. Now when I see him we skip the massage.

[Imathrill]

I think he would be insulted and I cannot risk that in terms of his feelings. He insists that i don't pay but of course I do. He asks me to stay longer to snuggle with him afterwards.

He genuinely feels a connection with me. Btw, this is going on for at least 7 years and I am attracted to him as well. It has really become complicated. But, as i mentioned, I go a lot less often because all i really want is an erotic massage.

7 years?! I think you just have sex with him for free and find a new masseur for erotic massages.

[SeekingYoungTops]

I can think of at least 7 different men whom I’ve hired as masseurs but who ended up performing acts usually associated with escorts (and I’m not counting those who go just 1 step beyond HE). One of them (still active but not all that young) simply assumed at the end of my very first massage with him that I wanted a particular additional act, which he performed on that occasion and each of the 5 or so later times I hired him. We never discussed it — he just assumed (correctly) that I’d enjoy it if he went another step. Two others discussed with me what each of us would be willing to do and then did it once without upcharging me. Oddly, I’ve seen each of them again since then (one of them many times), and the same act has not happened again. A 4th made it clear in our first conversation, before we ever met, that his massage would include more than massage. He was true to his word, but we were not all that compatible and I have not seen him again. The other 3 all made clear, one way or another, that they had different rates for massage and for escorting. I found it worthwhile to pay their escort rate, sometimes once and sometimes more. One of them is someone I was starting to see regularly before the pandemic hit, but we have not been in touch since then.

[Terpmaniac]

Has this happened to anyone else? My regular masseur and I have gotten more and more sexual with each session, to the point where I’m only on the table for 5-10 min and the rest of the session is spent in bed. He says he only does it because he enjoys me. Our sessions are so passionate sometimes I forget I’m paying him! I’m going to go broke soon! Lol. Anyone have similar experiences?

Oh yeah baby! Its happened. More then a few times. I blame the "cakes." Terp