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RuffLeatherPig

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  1. Not seeing anyone now for meet ups. Sticking to my household and friends in the pod. While we are staying safe by testing, I am not putting anyone in my circle at risk by taking gigs.

     

    Right now I think we all need to stay safe as numbers are going up. It may take some sacrifice but we will get there. I don’t mean to bring people down but I am already looking a head to Fire Island 2021. Let’s work hard now so we can party later!!!

  2. I feel it is really a mental game. For me I look at, why am I hear? It is to provide a service and do my job. There is a desire to be good at and really perform. There is financial motivation as well but you are really entering as a service provider.

    As long as I am not being pressured/forced into something I am dud not agree to or in an unsafe situation I am glad to play the role of the Happy Hooker

  3. I have a moustache(mustache) and I Iove it. However, I would say that everything is a possibility for an experience.

     

    Dont skirt around the issue, be direct. “I like men clean shaven, would you be willing to arrive clean shaven?” Is an appropriate question. Just be willing to compensate the person if they are removing a significant amount of facial hair, big mustache or long beard.

  4. No need to be embarrassed. I think you should be in full communication with this person. You should clearly lay out what you expect, what you want, and ask what can be delivered on. For an over night I would expect hang out time and at least 6 hours of being present and attentive.

     

    Twelve hours together minimum with actual sleep involved after your request have been met

  5. Wow, you are particularly liberal with your definition of pig. I agree with your first two activities. But, with PrEP on the scene, I’m not so sure about bareback,

    Ahh...are you saying that BB is a given, or “normal”/not piggy?

  6. I saw Eartha Kitt perform in Provincetown in the 1980’s. She was great and a big hit with the summer crowd of vacationers. Of course she sang her hit tune, I Need a Man, which spoke to most of us watching, except maybe the lesbians:)

    Perhaps that man is you....

    2006 & 2008 at the Cafe Carlyle

  7. I had an escort physically count each dollar that I gave him before the session that I left on his dresser when I walked in. It was a stack of 10’s and 20’s held together with a binder clip. I thought it was really tacky on his part, especially since I had trusted him enough to leave the money before service.

     

    Needless to say I did not have a rematch with him nor did I leave any kind of review. If I have nothing nice to say then I just don’t bother

     

    Pay up front, always. Tip at the end and only if warranted. This is a transaction. It is not tacky to count the money, it is just a verification. There are two parts of the transaction and that’s all it is. I am sure that you are trustworthy and a trusting individual, but there is nothing tacky about counting out the money, especially if the price has been set before hand. I think we all need to get over our hang-ups about how we deal around money.

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