Anthony

The lineup looks very pleasing. Newsletter was released so late it messes up my plans if I decide to go.
There's guys who are trying to make a living doing this vs. the other guys who are doing it for fun as a side hustle. I definitely picked up on the ones who look miserable doing this type of work. It brings down everyone else's mood as well when the dancers are not having fun, money and tip completely aside.   
 
If anyone goes to the one tonight (Friday), please let me know how it goes. 

I am insane for him! The provider is meeting with other folks though. How would I know if there's a technical issue going on where he can't receive my emails and text messages? I wasn't going to ask him in the letter to hire him but just introduce myself and leave my contact info for further follow up 

There's a provider I'm interested in that doesn't respond to any emails or text messages or phone calls. I have the providers address and the only other way of communication is snail mail. Is it invasive to mail a letter to a provider? Should I mail the letter via USPS or drop it off at their mailbox myself? I'm highly considering it since I'm really interested in the guy and can't get in touch with him any of way. 

I was thinking that the provider would see me as outgoing that I found their address and might be impressed by it thus, leading me to a worship session.  

I was thinking that the provider would see me as outgoing that I found their address and might be impressed by it thus, leading me to a worship session.  

There's a provider I'm interested in that doesn't respond to any emails or text messages or phone calls. I have the providers address and the only other way of communication is snail mail. Is it invasive to mail a letter to a provider? Should I mail the letter via USPS or drop it off at their mailbox myself? I'm highly considering it since I'm really interested in the guy and can't get in touch with him any of way. 

I was thinking that the provider would see me as outgoing that I found their address and might be impressed by it thus, leading me to a worship session.  

I am insane for him! The provider is meeting with other folks though. How would I know if there's a technical issue going on where he can't receive my emails and text messages? I wasn't going to ask him in the letter to hire him but just introduce myself and leave my contact info for further follow up 

There's a provider I'm interested in that doesn't respond to any emails or text messages or phone calls. I have the providers address and the only other way of communication is snail mail. Is it invasive to mail a letter to a provider? Should I mail the letter via USPS or drop it off at their mailbox myself? I'm highly considering it since I'm really interested in the guy and can't get in touch with him any of way. 

There's a provider I'm interested in that doesn't respond to any emails or text messages or phone calls. I have the providers address and the only other way of communication is snail mail. Is it invasive to mail a letter to a provider? Should I mail the letter via USPS or drop it off at their mailbox myself? I'm highly considering it since I'm really interested in the guy and can't get in touch with him any of way. 

I was thinking that the provider would see me as outgoing that I found their address and might be impressed by it thus, leading me to a worship session.  

I was thinking that the provider would see me as outgoing that I found their address and might be impressed by it thus, leading me to a worship session.  

There's a provider I'm interested in that doesn't respond to any emails or text messages or phone calls. I have the providers address and the only other way of communication is snail mail. Is it invasive to mail a letter to a provider? Should I mail the letter via USPS or drop it off at their mailbox myself? I'm highly considering it since I'm really interested in the guy and can't get in touch with him any of way. 

Long Island is dead. I've learned that the hard way. Good luck to you. 

I am insane for him! The provider is meeting with other folks though. How would I know if there's a technical issue going on where he can't receive my emails and text messages? I wasn't going to ask him in the letter to hire him but just introduce myself and leave my contact info for further follow up 

I was thinking that the provider would see me as outgoing that I found their address and might be impressed by it thus, leading me to a worship session.  

I was thinking that the provider would see me as outgoing that I found their address and might be impressed by it thus, leading me to a worship session.  

Just my thoughts: that can be misconstrued as some (maybe mild, but still) form of stalking. I'd take something like that as you not getting the message of being ignored. I perfectly understand the concept of "highly considering it", but there should be a line between that and pursuing him after not showing any sign of interest. My rationale is that when anyone, not just a provider, does not answer my first two inquiries, the person is already aware and there's no need for me to insist. If I don't hear from that person, I just move on. There's no need for me to continue pursuing that person. I have been "followed up" in that manner, and that has caused me annoyance and anger, which has resulted in me replying in a less-than-respectful manner, ending in an usavory interaction. That is what I have done, and I know of others who have responed to that type of pursue in the same manner. That means that it's possible that not only you will not get what you want, but worse, you will be treated like garbage.
In other words, give the provider some time, if you don't hear from him, get the hint and move on. There are plenty of other providers in this world, and I'm sure that what he provides cannot be so unique that you only have to have him.

I was thinking that the provider would see me as outgoing that I found their address and might be impressed by it thus, leading me to a worship session.  

I am not and will not critise your 'hiring' practice (as I am doing it myself) but i will call out your 'stalking' tendency. Its not the same, and if you cannot see it. I give up. No matter what other say, you will obv find reasons to justify your action.

It's okay to be hurt and disappointment that this provider hasn't responded to you. It's okay to have thoughts about continuing to contact him. You can, however, control your behavior. Sometimes we get so wrapped up in meeting our wants and needs that we don't consider other people's perspectives. I'm glad you came here instead of sending the letter. If you stop contacting him and looking at his profile, these difficult thoughts and feelings will likely decrease over time. Unfortunately, due to the lack of providers in your area, you might have to travel to hire. I recognize that you're drawn to this guy, but remember, it's a fantasy. Allow yourself to move on.

We all have people who we desire and some who we have a chance to meet.  But this kind of obsession is unhealthy when that object of desire makes it clear they are not interested and you can't let go of the fact your opportunity has passed. Mourn the loss and move on with your life before the disappointment consumes more of your time than it's worth. 

There's a provider I'm interested in that doesn't respond to any emails or text messages or phone calls. I have the providers address and the only other way of communication is snail mail. Is it invasive to mail a letter to a provider? Should I mail the letter via USPS or drop it off at their mailbox myself? I'm highly considering it since I'm really interested in the guy and can't get in touch with him any of way. 

I need a provider and I am a bit addicted to the pornos he was in but I don't think this is the place to tell someone they need therapy when we are all trying to hire a provider for a deed that could be illegal itself depending on the laws in your area. 

He is actually the only provider in my area which is why I want to communicate with him so badly especially since I know he isn't hundreds of miles away. 
Just so know address is not private information and is accessible online. Heck even celebrities and pop stars addresses are online. I'm not trying to blow the providers ID but they were once a pornstar. There's literally no other providers in the area and I've been looking for a really long time so when I found the address and noticed they are conveniently  located not to far from me, I got really excited until they didn't respond to any of my messages/calls. 
Gosh, that's true. I am very obsessed with him! What can I do?