Anthony

I'm curious to know if these experiences have a common website where the massage providers are advertising.

I’m very interested in knowing who these providers are. At least the last provider- who presumably doesn’t have your personal info.
If these allegations are real, then I highly support naming and shaming the provider(s).
 
Sometimes, this website is good for reputational burnings-at-the-stake , when they are warranted, that is.

How nasty. These folks should be named and steered clear from.

My two worst experiences ever were in 2024.
1) provider A - very sexy guy - just like photos - huge cock - very muscly - however crummy apartment and couldn’t speak any English. Became very aggressive with me, trying to communicate something I couldn’t understand. He started to fuck me hard and I asked him to stop as I wasn’t enjoying it. He became angrier and demanded I relax or something like that. At this point I felt very intimidated. He resumed fucking me and he came quickly (I didn’t). Suddenly after this he became very friendly and asked me to leave a review. I said I would later - I just wanted to leave - but he took my phone and asked me to log in. Again I felt intimated and agreed, thinking I would write something quickly. But he ripped my phone from me, left his own review and blocked me.  I could see the review later when not logged in (otherwise I can’t as I was blocked). Of course he gave himself 5 stars. I felt very shaken.  Not to be OTT but it really gave me a taste of why victims don’t report things.  I just wanted it to be over (note I can’t find his profile any more)
2) provider 2 - hot photos, lots of friendly communication. Arrived outside fleabag hotel  for first meet - he didn’t answer his phone for an entire hour as I waited out the front. I gave up. Later I received a string of super apologetic messages - again friendly - said he fell asleep. Okay shit happens and I forgave him. Arrived for second meeting - exact same thing again.  At this point let’s just say it - I’m an idiot. But driven by my dick, I arrived for a third meeting. This time I met him. Very, very sketchy - a pale shadow of his photos. I guess he was on ice or something. But I’m kinda stuck again so I stay.  He asks me for the money and tells me to shower. While I’m in the horrible shower he disappears - as in completely gone - takes his stuff with him.  It dawned on me later that a) it wasn’t his hotel room or b) he checked out while I was in the shower.
I felt so incredibly stupid. I quickly booked another provider and met him. I was shaking and nearly cried in the guys arms.
These were awful experiences. Other than that I’d say it’s a mix of mediocre with the occasional awesome experience!

As a provider going to another provider, for a erotic massage. I didn't tell him what I do for living. Only for him to message me after the massage saying that I was out to steal his clients. And then proceeded to report my profiles to scottsdale cybercrimes unit. So that was unhinged, I was like well you jest penetrated me on the table and now you want to report me because I do what you do. 
From a provider to a client the worst experience in 2024 was that a man came to me to get 2 pool ball 🎱  that where stuck in him for 3 day out of his is rectum. I'm massaged one out from his abdomen.  The whent in and grabbed the other only for him to deficate 3 day worth of wast all over my table.  he dint tip 😏. And he left the balls with me.   

You cannot blindly compare other clubs. Location can determine the price and if they have hot guys! Johnson's always has quality guys so they get to set the new standard for their club 

Didn't meet with any provider one on one... it's hard out here. One provider ghosted me three times after promising he would "make it up to me" which was a huge waste of time since I set aside a decent amount of time to get ready and look all nice for him. Another provider was way to shady and felt like it was a scam so I never followed up. On the other end, I went to two bodybuilding competitions and it was a whole lot of fun! No touching though... at least while anyone's looking 😏. Extremely dry where I live. Was thinking about making arrangements with a hot doctor/nurse for some type of physical contact. Things are getting dire as time moves on which is depressing.
I did visit a few gay bars and told some of the men I would give them a nice tip if they would do such and such. I was told I shouldn't be hiring or paying anyone for such and told me I'm too cute to be doing that when I can pick up guys without that.     
Last year, I had a terrible experience when I let my hormones control me and hooked up with a guy that was very disgusting. After I saw his place, I realized how gross he was. He even told me he was puking a couple a days before and I was tonging him down for a good 20-30 minutes with another client while we shared deep throating his cock. I ran to get tested and prayed I didn't catch anything. Fastest lesson I ever learned not to jump for the good looking ones without knowing a bit more about them.  

Didn't meet with any provider one on one... it's hard out here. One provider ghosted me three times after promising he would "make it up to me" which was a huge waste of time since I set aside a decent amount of time to get ready and look all nice for him. Another provider was way to shady and felt like it was a scam so I never followed up. On the other end, I went to two bodybuilding competitions and it was a whole lot of fun! No touching though... at least while anyone's looking 😏. Extremely dry where I live. Was thinking about making arrangements with a hot doctor/nurse for some type of physical contact. Things are getting dire as time moves on which is depressing.
I did visit a few gay bars and told some of the men I would give them a nice tip if they would do such and such. I was told I shouldn't be hiring or paying anyone for such and told me I'm too cute to be doing that when I can pick up guys without that.     
Last year, I had a terrible experience when I let my hormones control me and hooked up with a guy that was very disgusting. After I saw his place, I realized how gross he was. He even told me he was puking a couple a days before and I was tonging him down for a good 20-30 minutes with another client while we shared deep throating his cock. I ran to get tested and prayed I didn't catch anything. Fastest lesson I ever learned not to jump for the good looking ones without knowing a bit more about them.  

Didn't meet with any provider one on one... it's hard out here. One provider ghosted me three times after promising he would "make it up to me" which was a huge waste of time since I set aside a decent amount of time to get ready and look all nice for him. Another provider was way to shady and felt like it was a scam so I never followed up. On the other end, I went to two bodybuilding competitions and it was a whole lot of fun! No touching though... at least while anyone's looking 😏. Extremely dry where I live. Was thinking about making arrangements with a hot doctor/nurse for some type of physical contact. Things are getting dire as time moves on which is depressing.
I did visit a few gay bars and told some of the men I would give them a nice tip if they would do such and such. I was told I shouldn't be hiring or paying anyone for such and told me I'm too cute to be doing that when I can pick up guys without that.     
Last year, I had a terrible experience when I let my hormones control me and hooked up with a guy that was very disgusting. After I saw his place, I realized how gross he was. He even told me he was puking a couple a days before and I was tonging him down for a good 20-30 minutes with another client while we shared deep throating his cock. I ran to get tested and prayed I didn't catch anything. Fastest lesson I ever learned not to jump for the good looking ones without knowing a bit more about them.  

Didn't meet with any provider one on one... it's hard out here. One provider ghosted me three times after promising he would "make it up to me" which was a huge waste of time since I set aside a decent amount of time to get ready and look all nice for him. Another provider was way to shady and felt like it was a scam so I never followed up. On the other end, I went to two bodybuilding competitions and it was a whole lot of fun! No touching though... at least while anyone's looking 😏. Extremely dry where I live. Was thinking about making arrangements with a hot doctor/nurse for some type of physical contact. Things are getting dire as time moves on which is depressing.
I did visit a few gay bars and told some of the men I would give them a nice tip if they would do such and such. I was told I shouldn't be hiring or paying anyone for such and told me I'm too cute to be doing that when I can pick up guys without that.     
Last year, I had a terrible experience when I let my hormones control me and hooked up with a guy that was very disgusting. After I saw his place, I realized how gross he was. He even told me he was puking a couple a days before and I was tonging him down for a good 20-30 minutes with another client while we shared deep throating his cock. I ran to get tested and prayed I didn't catch anything. Fastest lesson I ever learned not to jump for the good looking ones without knowing a bit more about them.  

They are the last to know they're chubby! Maybe he thinks he's average

My worst was this year, a masseur whose pictures were years younger and many pounds lighter, but he gave a decent massage... so it wasn't the end of the world.
But when I found someone on this board saying something similar (he had a different rentmen name, hence I missed the information in my original research), I merely agreed... and then the real fun began. Every day, craazzy e-mails from him and other "fans" of his (who only comment about him on the board, interestingly), ranging from pleading with me to take it down, to calling me all kinds of awful names, to trying to elicit sympathy, and then threatening me.... And one time, I was on the site, which he evidently could see, so he started messaging me one note after another so that I could see the nasty title of each as the site notified me of these e-mails arrivals in real time.
Thankfully, I think the good people who run this site may have caught on to him because it appears a lot of his stuff was taken down....
Just glad this was confined to online! Had I not missed his escort name being different, I would've known to avoid him altogether from the start.
Moral of story: Definitely pays to do thorough research.

Have you heard of TJ Cummings 

Just got back from tonight’s event. I left an hour early. It was a lot less busy than usual, and I’d say about 1 in 5 were reasonably attractive. At the peak, there were maybe 50 guys there. When I’ve been there before, it was around 100. I ran into a guy I’ve seen working out at my gym, and he was not very friendly. I hooked up with a stocky white guy with a hairy chest, and a good sized tool, and then a buff Asian guy who was really hot. I like all different types.
But the crowd was definitely on the mature side and a lot of them were terribly overweight. One was particularly persistent, and didn’t give up trying to get my attention by grabbing my arm. 
I’m not in any rush to go back, I didn’t really spend any considerable amount of time with anyone, I felt like I could get just as much action in the steam room or sauna at the gym. 

You make a buddy, you blow him or viceversa. 
 
 

Please LostUpstate, 
I've failed in my previous attempts to undrstnd what actually goes on in BB meetings. 
Could u please elaborate here or in a PM.
Thx (-:

230 lbs. on 5'`10' is a helluva lot of muscle.

Always find it satisfying when the provider feeds his load to me.  Swap kissing is a pleasant option,.but it doesn't happen much.

This thread is making me crazy!  (in a good way).    Who are the providers that you have been with that gets into this?   The only ones for me were Kristian Elix and Kiddo.   

What a waste…I enjoy a snowballing a load whether it’s mine, the provider’s or both!!! 😛💦💦💦

I don’t like my cum, but the provider’s cum stays in my mouth for as long as I could play with it. I even run to the mirror to see myself swishing it around.

A recent client shot in my mouth while I was sucking him. Earlier in the session we had been kissing. After he’d shot I asked him if he wanted to kiss me with his cum still in my mouth and on my lips. He declined.
It’s my experience that cum swapping/ cum kissing is quite niche. Most clients aren’t really into it. Pity because I like it. I find it extremely hot. 

Anyone have any suggestions for hot young studs who would be into eating huge loads or selling their sperm? Im sure this is a random ask but I figured I'd ask anyway

I planned to arrange a meeting with him earlier this week and he agreed to it. He even told me he added me to his calendar. It's now an hour past the time we were supposed to meet and he hasn't been responding to any messages. This guy is extremely flakey and is more likely a farce. I cleared my schedule for this too.  Another disappointment.

Trust me, the provider will spot the envelope; I wouldn’t worry. But if it gives you peace of mind, especially with first-time providers, you can set it on a table, stand, or wherever you prefer. Look at him, smile, and step away. He’ll know! The best providers will keep their eyes on you the entire time. They’ll know it’s there and will take it at the end. After that, it’s your time to enjoy.