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I'm guessing that's not Fudgie the Whale between his legs...

His profile is expired and hasn't logged in in 4 years. I doubt he'll be coming from Rio any time soon.

I've been contacted a few times by someone asking about someone I've reviewed. I'll usually answer if I have time. I'll generally avoid giving detailed descriptions on a session, but will discuss things like kissing, etc

I'm assuming you're looking more for of an escort session than a massage provider. RentMen conveniently has a "Into" option where providers can indicate that role play is an option, and it's easy to search on that so you can identify some guys to contact first. As far as requesting it, I agree with @Jamie21 that it is probably best to keep the scene relatively simple. You can message them and say simply that "I am interested in a roleplaying scene that starts with a massage and transitions to an X type scene, can you do that?" They may agree readily, or suggest a discussion in advance, depending on what you're asking for. Also, if your roleplay scene involves gear, props, or anything that may require advance preparation, you definitely want let them know, so they can tell you if it's possible or not.

I would guess he charges by the session instead of the length of the session, but you'll have to ask him about his rates to confirm.

Another thread stated that this could be corrected by logging out of your RM session and then clearing your browser cache. It worked for me and I could read messages again after logging back in.

I think location is also a bigger factor when trying to arrange early meetups, if you're wanting them to come to you. If you're not close to their location, they may not be as interested in travelling cross-town fighting commuter traffic or busy transit times. I've had good success in Toronto staying near the village, however, since it's easy to get to by TTC.

I see providers on RM setting their "available now" flag early in the morning, often at 6am or so. You can search around that time for your city and setting the available now search option to see who has activated it. This isn't 100%, since guys use that flag inconsistently, but it's often a reasonable indication who is open to an early session at that time. I've used that approach when travelling a few times to get a last minute session before check-out. Nothing better than getting a quick morning shower and having a hot guy coming to your door ready to get off. I've often checked the day before to see who was marked available and asked if they were open to meeting the next morning at that time.

Blocking a service such as Tor is much different than blocking an individual user by IP. Most Tor exit nodes are well known and have to be static by design. Tor is often used by malicious network scanners hunting for vulnerable systems and certain other attacks, so it makes some sense to block the Tor service. If you block an individual user by IP address, they just need to reset their router. They'll usually get a new IP address from their ISP. Mobile devices also change IP addresses frequently as users hop wifi and mobile networks. Trying to prevent access by a single user by IP is playing whack-a-mole. Again, more reliable techniques are browser/device fingerprinting, which is less trivial to circumvent.

IP address blocking is next to useless since almost all consumer internet connections use dynamic IP which changes periodically, and mobile devices switch networks frequently as users move about. Very few consumer accounts get static IP, usually paying extra for it, and usually because they're hosting their own website. The only reason to IP block is if a device is part of a DDOS attack, or originating in a restricted region such as Iran. User blocking is normally done by other means such as browser/device fingerprinting, as well as other signals.

Perhaps you should read the thread, it's pretty clear from what been posted already.

I always tip my driver, and if it's a business expense I always use the app to tip so it shows on the receipt.

I don't believe RM provides the option for providers in the US to set rates. I don't think they have the option even if they use a VPN. Older ads that were set up before rates and reviews were blocked in the US may still have rates set which is visible when the ad is viewed from outside of the US.

A partner once told me "that'll do pig" after a particularly intense session of kinky play. Gave me shivers.

It's rare for a RM provider to post a video where they say anything, it's usually just stand and model clips with no talking or various action scenes. I appreciate a short clip where they say hello and let you hear their voice and I wish more did that.

One thing that sets some guys apart for me are those who can pull off having long hair. That's mostly younger guys, just the way it goes, but occasionally a more mature guy can make it work. In a world where short styles dominate, seeing a guy with a luxurious mane that can drape down when he's lying over you just does something a little extra for me.

He's been on my radar for a while, never saw that he could self-suck though. He looks like he can give a good stretching.

Once again, a chain is decimated by private equity. The usual MO is to saddle the company with the debt from their acquisition, high management fees, and strip the company of assets like real estate to pay the equity firm. The company is left vulnerable to higher interest rates, increasing rents, and unfavorable contracts imposed by the owners. They'll use the bankruptcy to offload the chain to another buyer and stiff the lenders holding the debts

Providers move around frequently however. A guy who was in NYC may move to LA, so the thread headline becomes misleading. There has also been an effort to combine threads to provide for more continuity instead of having new, unconnected threads, started at disparate times by different users. The old standard isn't as helpful with those considerations, and the mods probably can't adjust the headline every time a provider changes cities.

I had a "gift card" scammer once with a similar ruse, needed a Xbox card for his kid. I googled a gift card image with the scratch off code showing and sent it too him, telling him I just bought the card. He spent a few hours saying he couldn't make the card work, and me just telling him to keep trying and that I could see the balance in my app. I blocked him after I tired of messing with him.

He says he has "unique characteristics". Is he an X-man?

I've come to a point over the past several years where I don't have a circle of gay friends who are local to me. This is because several things have happened including: Moving cities a couple times, ending up in a midwestern city that lacks a strong gay center The gay friends I had from where I lived before have also dispersed as work and life events have scattered them about I've settled in a suburban part of town that is not close to many gay social amenities, and I do not particularly want to drive 20 miles to a sketchy part of town to go to a bar Engaging with social groups (gay or otherwise) outside of work or my neighborhood have become more difficult over the past couple of decades due to changes in work culture and more personal demands on time To be fair, it's not just gay friends, but building a new social circle in general has become more difficult in the past several years. I'm now working in a position where I'm completely remote and do not have to go into an office at all. I'm also away from home frequently, so structured after-work activities can be a little challenging. Also, if you live in suburban America, a lot of the social avenues are oriented around kids activities or religious institutions, and other community outlets tend to be less consistent. I have considered moving to another city that has more social avenues, but I'm waiting for some other issues to settle down before I consider another move. I do have a circle of gay friends who've scattered to the four winds who I still keep in contact with, but it is not the same as having people close to you in your community.

Also, as a matter of constructive criticism of your Hunqz profile, I'd suggest not using the emojis as cover in your photos. You can opt for better cropping and blur effects that are more subtle and professional looking but still protect your privacy.

Setting your profile up without face pictures is certainly a choice, and you should consider carefully how much exposure you're comfortable with. Your personal security and safety are valid considerations as you establish your business plan. There are a lot of clients that will not even consider a provider without face pictures. You can mitigate that with a profile that is more detailed in other ways, but it's still going to limit you to clients who are OK without seeing a face pic. One compromise is to have any face pics in your private album so you have more control who can see them. Good luck and don't let random clients pressure you into more exposure than you're comfortable with.

Since one of the scammers already got you pulled in to the crypto scam enough to put money into it, your A4A account is probably on a list of marks. They are trying to find an angle, and it's sounds like they've figured out a handsome guy who cooks is one that works on you, They're like sharks when there's blood in the water, they keep going in for another bite.