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    humboldt got a reaction from + harey in People want to see me flex   
    Hi Rudynate!
     
    I can try to answer this from the perspective of somebody who buys flexing vids from guys who I've found on IG or who advertise on TheBestFlex. These days, partly because of the OF phenomenon, guys charge a wide variety of rates for flexing vids. I mean, they are literally all over the place. But based upon my own experience and from what I've read in message forums that cater to that scene, here is a range of rates that most customers would consider reasonable for 10-minute shows or custom videos. (Rates per minute are often discounted for shows or videos that are longer than 10 minutes; also, live shows tend to be priced at the lower end of the below ranges, while custom videos tend to be priced at the higher end of those ranges.)
     
    Basic Flexing: $3 – $5 per minute
    This would be just basic flexing. Nothing really spicy. Nothing that probably couldn’t be posted on IG or YouTube. Clothing would likely consist of shorts.
     
    Sexual Flexing: $5 – $7 per minute
    This would be flexing that also involves catering to more specific sexual interests of the person buying the video. For example, it might include wearing special clothes that are a bit more revealing, having an erection under those clothes while flexing, talking in a cocky or dirty or dominant way, or doing things that go beyond flexing (such as role play, dancing, etc.).
     
    Erotic Flexing: $7 – $10 per minute
    This would be flexing that could involve the above and, additionally, would involve nudity and, often times, orgasm.
     
    Again, rates are all over the place these days. (One fitness “influencer” recently quoted me $50 for a 30-second video and $100 for a one-minute video. Needless to say, he didn’t get my business.) But what I’ve written above would be considered reasonable to the vast majority of potential customers out there.
     
    I hope this helps!
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    humboldt got a reaction from marylander1940 in People want to see me flex   
    There are pros and cons to using pre-existing sites for shows.
     
    The biggest plus is that the billing infrastructure is there. You don't have to worry about getting customers to pay, or having PayPal freeze your account for suspicious activity, or any of that.
     
    However, those sites take a significant cut of your earnings. For example, OnlyFans takes 20% of all earnings; Chaturbate takes 45%; and Flirt4Free takes anywhere from 27% to 50% based upon a sliding pay scale formula that depends upon how much revenue you generate – all of which, of course, is before taxes since all of that does get reported.
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    humboldt got a reaction from Bootybuilder in People want to see me flex   
    There are pros and cons to using pre-existing sites for shows.
     
    The biggest plus is that the billing infrastructure is there. You don't have to worry about getting customers to pay, or having PayPal freeze your account for suspicious activity, or any of that.
     
    However, those sites take a significant cut of your earnings. For example, OnlyFans takes 20% of all earnings; Chaturbate takes 45%; and Flirt4Free takes anywhere from 27% to 50% based upon a sliding pay scale formula that depends upon how much revenue you generate – all of which, of course, is before taxes since all of that does get reported.
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    humboldt got a reaction from CheckCar in People want to see me flex   
    Hi Rudynate!
     
    I can try to answer this from the perspective of somebody who buys flexing vids from guys who I've found on IG or who advertise on TheBestFlex. These days, partly because of the OF phenomenon, guys charge a wide variety of rates for flexing vids. I mean, they are literally all over the place. But based upon my own experience and from what I've read in message forums that cater to that scene, here is a range of rates that most customers would consider reasonable for 10-minute shows or custom videos. (Rates per minute are often discounted for shows or videos that are longer than 10 minutes; also, live shows tend to be priced at the lower end of the below ranges, while custom videos tend to be priced at the higher end of those ranges.)
     
    Basic Flexing: $3 – $5 per minute
    This would be just basic flexing. Nothing really spicy. Nothing that probably couldn’t be posted on IG or YouTube. Clothing would likely consist of shorts.
     
    Sexual Flexing: $5 – $7 per minute
    This would be flexing that also involves catering to more specific sexual interests of the person buying the video. For example, it might include wearing special clothes that are a bit more revealing, having an erection under those clothes while flexing, talking in a cocky or dirty or dominant way, or doing things that go beyond flexing (such as role play, dancing, etc.).
     
    Erotic Flexing: $7 – $10 per minute
    This would be flexing that could involve the above and, additionally, would involve nudity and, often times, orgasm.
     
    Again, rates are all over the place these days. (One fitness “influencer” recently quoted me $50 for a 30-second video and $100 for a one-minute video. Needless to say, he didn’t get my business.) But what I’ve written above would be considered reasonable to the vast majority of potential customers out there.
     
    I hope this helps!
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    humboldt got a reaction from NikoLeto in People want to see me flex   
    Hi Rudynate!
     
    I can try to answer this from the perspective of somebody who buys flexing vids from guys who I've found on IG or who advertise on TheBestFlex. These days, partly because of the OF phenomenon, guys charge a wide variety of rates for flexing vids. I mean, they are literally all over the place. But based upon my own experience and from what I've read in message forums that cater to that scene, here is a range of rates that most customers would consider reasonable for 10-minute shows or custom videos. (Rates per minute are often discounted for shows or videos that are longer than 10 minutes; also, live shows tend to be priced at the lower end of the below ranges, while custom videos tend to be priced at the higher end of those ranges.)
     
    Basic Flexing: $3 – $5 per minute
    This would be just basic flexing. Nothing really spicy. Nothing that probably couldn’t be posted on IG or YouTube. Clothing would likely consist of shorts.
     
    Sexual Flexing: $5 – $7 per minute
    This would be flexing that also involves catering to more specific sexual interests of the person buying the video. For example, it might include wearing special clothes that are a bit more revealing, having an erection under those clothes while flexing, talking in a cocky or dirty or dominant way, or doing things that go beyond flexing (such as role play, dancing, etc.).
     
    Erotic Flexing: $7 – $10 per minute
    This would be flexing that could involve the above and, additionally, would involve nudity and, often times, orgasm.
     
    Again, rates are all over the place these days. (One fitness “influencer” recently quoted me $50 for a 30-second video and $100 for a one-minute video. Needless to say, he didn’t get my business.) But what I’ve written above would be considered reasonable to the vast majority of potential customers out there.
     
    I hope this helps!
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    humboldt got a reaction from + robear in People want to see me flex   
    Hi Rudynate!
     
    I can try to answer this from the perspective of somebody who buys flexing vids from guys who I've found on IG or who advertise on TheBestFlex. These days, partly because of the OF phenomenon, guys charge a wide variety of rates for flexing vids. I mean, they are literally all over the place. But based upon my own experience and from what I've read in message forums that cater to that scene, here is a range of rates that most customers would consider reasonable for 10-minute shows or custom videos. (Rates per minute are often discounted for shows or videos that are longer than 10 minutes; also, live shows tend to be priced at the lower end of the below ranges, while custom videos tend to be priced at the higher end of those ranges.)
     
    Basic Flexing: $3 – $5 per minute
    This would be just basic flexing. Nothing really spicy. Nothing that probably couldn’t be posted on IG or YouTube. Clothing would likely consist of shorts.
     
    Sexual Flexing: $5 – $7 per minute
    This would be flexing that also involves catering to more specific sexual interests of the person buying the video. For example, it might include wearing special clothes that are a bit more revealing, having an erection under those clothes while flexing, talking in a cocky or dirty or dominant way, or doing things that go beyond flexing (such as role play, dancing, etc.).
     
    Erotic Flexing: $7 – $10 per minute
    This would be flexing that could involve the above and, additionally, would involve nudity and, often times, orgasm.
     
    Again, rates are all over the place these days. (One fitness “influencer” recently quoted me $50 for a 30-second video and $100 for a one-minute video. Needless to say, he didn’t get my business.) But what I’ve written above would be considered reasonable to the vast majority of potential customers out there.
     
    I hope this helps!
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    humboldt got a reaction from + MysticMenace in People want to see me flex   
    Hi Rudynate!
     
    I can try to answer this from the perspective of somebody who buys flexing vids from guys who I've found on IG or who advertise on TheBestFlex. These days, partly because of the OF phenomenon, guys charge a wide variety of rates for flexing vids. I mean, they are literally all over the place. But based upon my own experience and from what I've read in message forums that cater to that scene, here is a range of rates that most customers would consider reasonable for 10-minute shows or custom videos. (Rates per minute are often discounted for shows or videos that are longer than 10 minutes; also, live shows tend to be priced at the lower end of the below ranges, while custom videos tend to be priced at the higher end of those ranges.)
     
    Basic Flexing: $3 – $5 per minute
    This would be just basic flexing. Nothing really spicy. Nothing that probably couldn’t be posted on IG or YouTube. Clothing would likely consist of shorts.
     
    Sexual Flexing: $5 – $7 per minute
    This would be flexing that also involves catering to more specific sexual interests of the person buying the video. For example, it might include wearing special clothes that are a bit more revealing, having an erection under those clothes while flexing, talking in a cocky or dirty or dominant way, or doing things that go beyond flexing (such as role play, dancing, etc.).
     
    Erotic Flexing: $7 – $10 per minute
    This would be flexing that could involve the above and, additionally, would involve nudity and, often times, orgasm.
     
    Again, rates are all over the place these days. (One fitness “influencer” recently quoted me $50 for a 30-second video and $100 for a one-minute video. Needless to say, he didn’t get my business.) But what I’ve written above would be considered reasonable to the vast majority of potential customers out there.
     
    I hope this helps!
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    humboldt reacted to Bootybuilder in People want to see me flex   
    I personally charge $50/10 mins live or $60 for a 10 min video.
     
    However there’s been some cases where a client gives me a lengthy script for a video and I regret after the fact not charging more in this case.
     
    And yea if they’re asking for a custom video than they would likely join an only fans acct. Or if it’s a generic posing video it can be used for both.
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    humboldt got a reaction from Tarheelboy214 in People want to see me flex   
    Hi Rudynate!
     
    I can try to answer this from the perspective of somebody who buys flexing vids from guys who I've found on IG or who advertise on TheBestFlex. These days, partly because of the OF phenomenon, guys charge a wide variety of rates for flexing vids. I mean, they are literally all over the place. But based upon my own experience and from what I've read in message forums that cater to that scene, here is a range of rates that most customers would consider reasonable for 10-minute shows or custom videos. (Rates per minute are often discounted for shows or videos that are longer than 10 minutes; also, live shows tend to be priced at the lower end of the below ranges, while custom videos tend to be priced at the higher end of those ranges.)
     
    Basic Flexing: $3 – $5 per minute
    This would be just basic flexing. Nothing really spicy. Nothing that probably couldn’t be posted on IG or YouTube. Clothing would likely consist of shorts.
     
    Sexual Flexing: $5 – $7 per minute
    This would be flexing that also involves catering to more specific sexual interests of the person buying the video. For example, it might include wearing special clothes that are a bit more revealing, having an erection under those clothes while flexing, talking in a cocky or dirty or dominant way, or doing things that go beyond flexing (such as role play, dancing, etc.).
     
    Erotic Flexing: $7 – $10 per minute
    This would be flexing that could involve the above and, additionally, would involve nudity and, often times, orgasm.
     
    Again, rates are all over the place these days. (One fitness “influencer” recently quoted me $50 for a 30-second video and $100 for a one-minute video. Needless to say, he didn’t get my business.) But what I’ve written above would be considered reasonable to the vast majority of potential customers out there.
     
    I hope this helps!
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    humboldt got a reaction from + keroscenefire in People want to see me flex   
    Hi Rudynate!
     
    I can try to answer this from the perspective of somebody who buys flexing vids from guys who I've found on IG or who advertise on TheBestFlex. These days, partly because of the OF phenomenon, guys charge a wide variety of rates for flexing vids. I mean, they are literally all over the place. But based upon my own experience and from what I've read in message forums that cater to that scene, here is a range of rates that most customers would consider reasonable for 10-minute shows or custom videos. (Rates per minute are often discounted for shows or videos that are longer than 10 minutes; also, live shows tend to be priced at the lower end of the below ranges, while custom videos tend to be priced at the higher end of those ranges.)
     
    Basic Flexing: $3 – $5 per minute
    This would be just basic flexing. Nothing really spicy. Nothing that probably couldn’t be posted on IG or YouTube. Clothing would likely consist of shorts.
     
    Sexual Flexing: $5 – $7 per minute
    This would be flexing that also involves catering to more specific sexual interests of the person buying the video. For example, it might include wearing special clothes that are a bit more revealing, having an erection under those clothes while flexing, talking in a cocky or dirty or dominant way, or doing things that go beyond flexing (such as role play, dancing, etc.).
     
    Erotic Flexing: $7 – $10 per minute
    This would be flexing that could involve the above and, additionally, would involve nudity and, often times, orgasm.
     
    Again, rates are all over the place these days. (One fitness “influencer” recently quoted me $50 for a 30-second video and $100 for a one-minute video. Needless to say, he didn’t get my business.) But what I’ve written above would be considered reasonable to the vast majority of potential customers out there.
     
    I hope this helps!
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    humboldt got a reaction from Rudynate in People want to see me flex   
    Hi Rudynate!
     
    I can try to answer this from the perspective of somebody who buys flexing vids from guys who I've found on IG or who advertise on TheBestFlex. These days, partly because of the OF phenomenon, guys charge a wide variety of rates for flexing vids. I mean, they are literally all over the place. But based upon my own experience and from what I've read in message forums that cater to that scene, here is a range of rates that most customers would consider reasonable for 10-minute shows or custom videos. (Rates per minute are often discounted for shows or videos that are longer than 10 minutes; also, live shows tend to be priced at the lower end of the below ranges, while custom videos tend to be priced at the higher end of those ranges.)
     
    Basic Flexing: $3 – $5 per minute
    This would be just basic flexing. Nothing really spicy. Nothing that probably couldn’t be posted on IG or YouTube. Clothing would likely consist of shorts.
     
    Sexual Flexing: $5 – $7 per minute
    This would be flexing that also involves catering to more specific sexual interests of the person buying the video. For example, it might include wearing special clothes that are a bit more revealing, having an erection under those clothes while flexing, talking in a cocky or dirty or dominant way, or doing things that go beyond flexing (such as role play, dancing, etc.).
     
    Erotic Flexing: $7 – $10 per minute
    This would be flexing that could involve the above and, additionally, would involve nudity and, often times, orgasm.
     
    Again, rates are all over the place these days. (One fitness “influencer” recently quoted me $50 for a 30-second video and $100 for a one-minute video. Needless to say, he didn’t get my business.) But what I’ve written above would be considered reasonable to the vast majority of potential customers out there.
     
    I hope this helps!
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    humboldt got a reaction from marylander1940 in Possible stalker -- Request for advice?   
    Several years ago, and much to my surprise, I ran into a similar situation with a guy I hired down in New Orleans. Only in my situation, the clingy stuff occurred after the meet-up.
     
    The sex was okay. He was quite affectionate, more than I would have expected. And his rates were extremely low.
     
    When I returned home (several hundred miles away), he continued to text me. And text me. And text me. I kept the conversation alive because, if I'm being honest with myself, I was kinda flattered by the attention.
     
    But at some point he started talking about coming to visit me, which wasn't in my plans. And then he started floating the idea of moving to my state. Over time I realized that he was probably in the business to find somebody who would take care of him. Luckily somebody else turned up and played that role for him, and we lost contact. But there were moments in all of that when I felt far more vulnerable than I would have liked.
     
    I don't know if you should just ignore your person or block him. But I can offer this advice: Don't ever meet up with him. That would likely only exacerbate what you're already experiencing now. Sorry you're having to deal with this!
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    humboldt got a reaction from + Charlie in Possible stalker -- Request for advice?   
    Several years ago, and much to my surprise, I ran into a similar situation with a guy I hired down in New Orleans. Only in my situation, the clingy stuff occurred after the meet-up.
     
    The sex was okay. He was quite affectionate, more than I would have expected. And his rates were extremely low.
     
    When I returned home (several hundred miles away), he continued to text me. And text me. And text me. I kept the conversation alive because, if I'm being honest with myself, I was kinda flattered by the attention.
     
    But at some point he started talking about coming to visit me, which wasn't in my plans. And then he started floating the idea of moving to my state. Over time I realized that he was probably in the business to find somebody who would take care of him. Luckily somebody else turned up and played that role for him, and we lost contact. But there were moments in all of that when I felt far more vulnerable than I would have liked.
     
    I don't know if you should just ignore your person or block him. But I can offer this advice: Don't ever meet up with him. That would likely only exacerbate what you're already experiencing now. Sorry you're having to deal with this!
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    humboldt got a reaction from Rocky93 in The best flex   
    I primarily use that site for camshows and videos. But even with that in mind, I always approach it with extreme caution. There are tons of scammers in the muscle cam industry, including among those who do meet-ups.
     
    Almost all of the guys who advertise on there are straight, which is fine by me when it comes to cam shows. But they tend not to be professional escorts. If they are actually willing to do meet-ups, as [uSER=12309]@TheOtherGuy[/uSER] mentioned above, they have TONS of boundaries. I think a lot of them expect that the meet-up will basically involve you worshiping their muscles with very strict expectations about what you can and cannot touch. They like the idea that somebody might get turned on by them, but they're not much into what could be the consequences of that. So their limitations on what you can and cannot touch applies to your own body, as well. In many instances, their prices will be as high or higher than what you might find from actual escorts (at least in the United States).
     
    If you're looking for just cam-shows from the models, be aware that the guy who owns and runs the site (Dan) is notorious for deleting negative reviews at his discretion -- a point that arises rather frequently on another forum (YoungMuscleStuds), much to Dan's ire, who is always quick to jump into the conversation about why he is justified cleaning up the reviews.
     
    My strong advice: If you want reliable reviews and discussions about guys, stick to this forum and to Daddy's reviews.
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    humboldt got a reaction from liubit in Possible stalker -- Request for advice?   
    Several years ago, and much to my surprise, I ran into a similar situation with a guy I hired down in New Orleans. Only in my situation, the clingy stuff occurred after the meet-up.
     
    The sex was okay. He was quite affectionate, more than I would have expected. And his rates were extremely low.
     
    When I returned home (several hundred miles away), he continued to text me. And text me. And text me. I kept the conversation alive because, if I'm being honest with myself, I was kinda flattered by the attention.
     
    But at some point he started talking about coming to visit me, which wasn't in my plans. And then he started floating the idea of moving to my state. Over time I realized that he was probably in the business to find somebody who would take care of him. Luckily somebody else turned up and played that role for him, and we lost contact. But there were moments in all of that when I felt far more vulnerable than I would have liked.
     
    I don't know if you should just ignore your person or block him. But I can offer this advice: Don't ever meet up with him. That would likely only exacerbate what you're already experiencing now. Sorry you're having to deal with this!
  16. Like
    humboldt got a reaction from + José Soplanucas in Possible stalker -- Request for advice?   
    Several years ago, and much to my surprise, I ran into a similar situation with a guy I hired down in New Orleans. Only in my situation, the clingy stuff occurred after the meet-up.
     
    The sex was okay. He was quite affectionate, more than I would have expected. And his rates were extremely low.
     
    When I returned home (several hundred miles away), he continued to text me. And text me. And text me. I kept the conversation alive because, if I'm being honest with myself, I was kinda flattered by the attention.
     
    But at some point he started talking about coming to visit me, which wasn't in my plans. And then he started floating the idea of moving to my state. Over time I realized that he was probably in the business to find somebody who would take care of him. Luckily somebody else turned up and played that role for him, and we lost contact. But there were moments in all of that when I felt far more vulnerable than I would have liked.
     
    I don't know if you should just ignore your person or block him. But I can offer this advice: Don't ever meet up with him. That would likely only exacerbate what you're already experiencing now. Sorry you're having to deal with this!
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    humboldt got a reaction from NJmusclelover in The best flex   
    I primarily use that site for camshows and videos. But even with that in mind, I always approach it with extreme caution. There are tons of scammers in the muscle cam industry, including among those who do meet-ups.
     
    Almost all of the guys who advertise on there are straight, which is fine by me when it comes to cam shows. But they tend not to be professional escorts. If they are actually willing to do meet-ups, as [uSER=12309]@TheOtherGuy[/uSER] mentioned above, they have TONS of boundaries. I think a lot of them expect that the meet-up will basically involve you worshiping their muscles with very strict expectations about what you can and cannot touch. They like the idea that somebody might get turned on by them, but they're not much into what could be the consequences of that. So their limitations on what you can and cannot touch applies to your own body, as well. In many instances, their prices will be as high or higher than what you might find from actual escorts (at least in the United States).
     
    If you're looking for just cam-shows from the models, be aware that the guy who owns and runs the site (Dan) is notorious for deleting negative reviews at his discretion -- a point that arises rather frequently on another forum (YoungMuscleStuds), much to Dan's ire, who is always quick to jump into the conversation about why he is justified cleaning up the reviews.
     
    My strong advice: If you want reliable reviews and discussions about guys, stick to this forum and to Daddy's reviews.
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    humboldt reacted to rvwnsd in Todd_LA in Los Angeles   
    You guys are worse than the bird who used to sit on the window AC unit and tease my cat!
     
    And that's why I love you.
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    humboldt reacted to + Gar1eth in Jesse Jaymes   
    So he's a bisexual that doesn't top or bottom for men? That doesn't sound very bisexual to me. That sounds a lot like a guy who's straight.
     
    Gman
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    humboldt reacted to jojo in Studs gone out of style.   
    If anyone should know...!
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    humboldt reacted to N13 in Studs gone out of style.   
    non-sequitur
     
    We are talking about preferences
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    humboldt reacted to dutchal in 411 on Private_Dancer   
    Flake. Had an appointment with him on Friday at 5:30. When I'm on the way, almost there, he texts me: "See you at 5:45 I'm in the gym now." I was annoyed, but the thought of him fresh from the gym was enticing. At 5:40, I'm across the street. No sign of him. At 5:50 I text: "Are you back?" A few minutes later he texts" On my way Are you there". I text "yes". A few minutes later he texts that it will be "10 min", which would make him over a half hour late. At some point, unprofessional discourtesy overcomes my lust. I cancelled.
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    humboldt reacted to N13 in Studs gone out of style.   
    It's true. I have a preference for smooth, model faced guys with swimmer's bodies. This does not make me a racist. It makes me someone who is attracted to smooth, model faced guys with swimmer's bodies. If I am going to pay for a fantasy that is what I am going to look for. A long time ago I started a thread about the seeming lack of that type that used to abound. I hired some of the stars of this board and found the vast majority of them to be nice, down-to-earth guys that took pride in what they were doing. I even still see a few that are still in the business. What the op was saying and what I am agreeing to is that these guys are now in very short supply. The reviews here normally feature the opposite types. Diversity is fine.....but very much of a turn off way too much of the time.
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    humboldt got a reaction from + harey in 411 on Muscle Adonis   
    Absolutely beautiful Freudian slip....
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    humboldt got a reaction from Traveler North in 411 on Krasner   
    Has anybody had any experience with Krasner, who is now listed in Dallas, though I don't know if he's based there. I'd be interested in hiring him, but I fear this pics may qualify him for the too-good-to-be-true category. Thanks!
     
    https://rentmen.com/krasner
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