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3 hours ago, xyz48B said:

I didn’t realize you were a provider, @marylander1940!

My theory is that Marylander is a client, but secretly a daddy escort for young boys 🙈

3 hours ago, Luv2play said:

Just enough.

Same here, everything in moderation, even more now with the pandemic situation.

On 10/1/2021 at 5:42 PM, Danny-Darko said:

nipples are OK if not overdone

I very much disagree. Those tend to STINK because guys won't remove them to clean properly fearing that they would lose it or that the hole would close. Nothing better than a young man with his natural body, untouched.

17 hours ago, E.T.Bass said:

I wish there was a way to filter out certain providers on rentmasseur.com, ones I know I will never hire again, and so on.

I don't think there is any way to make them disappear from your screen. Even if you block them you will see them if they appear on the home page of your city, or if they are available. It's probably also not very useful as there are so called "providers" who are serial name changers, so if there was a way to make them disappear from your screen with their old name, they would soon reappear with their new name.

Being a bottom and having a cock like that should be considered illegal.

Picture #4 belongs to a Syrian guy living in Berlin at the moment. The 5-star reviews from several long-standing RM clients could indicate that he's a look-a-like. Hopefully the dick is real, but the leg tattoo in picture #3, does not appear in the other dick pics. Finally, the cum-shot video (#2) shows a completely different person (a Caucasian twink). If we thrown PNP into the mix, at this point I'm not sure what to think.

On 9/25/2021 at 6:25 AM, MscleLovr said:

I must have a big cock

Is it true though? Inquiring minds want to know ...

A very similar image has been used by AllAmericanGuys.com

Recently created profile and no reviews make me think of TGTBT

10 hours ago, jetlow said:

I texted a provider I had a bad experience with suggestions for improvement and - no response.

Some don't give a f*ck about feedback.

On 9/23/2021 at 12:31 AM, Jarrod_Uncut said:

if you’re going to engage in “extra” curricular activities: be sure to keep it manageable or abstain, because you don’t want an innocent provider being charged or suspected of contributing to any accidental wrong-doing.

We clients sometimes lose perspective when in the company of a young handsome man. Youthfulness is sometimes contagious. I also think that, though nice, we shouldn't expect providers to take care of us if we overindulge. Everything in moderation.

10 hours ago, HoseMaster said:

I asked what more did he want

It was your own mistake. When you asked this, he immediately knew he could rip you off very hard. Boyfriend my ass. From the moment he started changing the initial agreement it was already a huge red flag and you just had to stick to your $800 and say that you'd discuss what would be a fair difference to pay later, or on the next session, then leave.

LESSON LEARNED AND NEVER AGAIN.

On 9/15/2021 at 11:06 AM, Danny-Darko said:

He's Russian and has a series of very bad reviews mixed in with the good on RM so buyer beware! 

He was under another nickname that I don't remember right now, but the general consensus about the mixed reviews was that he could request payment on arrival and if the client was not to his liking (probably good looking and fit) he would show very poor customer service and people skills.

17 hours ago, nycman said:

How the fuck do you remember a thread from over 20 years ago?

I would attribute it more to a good use of the search feature on this forum, rather than good memory.

Who falls for scammers these days anyways? Do not send anything @Ghadd. Just the fact that he created his RM profile 2 days ago is enough red flag to not trust.

17 hours ago, Unicorn said:

Also, if whomever I'm with is at least 55 by the time I pass away, he'll continue to collect 70% of my pension until he dies. 

What a catch.

13 hours ago, nycman said:

read their reviews and look for guys that sound like people you’d like to meet.

This advice is gold. Just relying on looks and number of 5-star reviews can be highly deceptive. I like to look at reviews to read between the lines the style of the providers and if it will be compatible with me. It rarely fails.

On 9/19/2021 at 2:15 PM, sniper said:

What if you "ordered in" for strippers rather than going to a club?

I strongly believe he can handle that himself. Also I don't want to feel like a pimp being there watching the private show happening. I can be close by, available by phone call if he needs me to, but not right there watching everything.

This is annoying. Some of us should probably suggest RM to have a new rule of 1 name change per month. If this guy is doing something wrong and that's the cause of the constant name change, it should be stopped. Maybe report him?

1 hour ago, Francis said:

Omg saaaame. Like it doesnt make me look at my phone faster if im not attached to it

I must now confess I've sent the "??" after a message has not been answered, but after 15 min 😓

14 hours ago, jeezifonly said:

If you are talking about a group, think of encouraging him to use a wheelchair for the long parts and a cane or walker (carried by another of the group) for the shorter parts more manageable for him. Call ahead for specific info on an exhibit or show -lots more places have ADA accommodations in place. If you take him to see strippers, make sure he can reach his own singles and fives without needing help 

I think he doesn't want to know anything about wheelchairs. I'm pretty sure that he prefers to use the cane, even if he has to walk very slowly, to feel less disabled. I'm not sure how I feel about going to see strippers with him. He might go crazy. His hip might be bad but his libido goes through the roof. We are friends but he already hit on me, ON ME?! In front of muscled strippers, I think he will put on another show, parallel to the main one, just like @BSR's grandma did with Monica Seles, but with the strippers. 🙄

8 hours ago, rvwnsd said:

My dad had several mobility issues. My brother would take him shopping and to the doctor and it was my job to do fun stuff when I'd visit. We went to a few movies, had a picnic (he was able to walk with canes on the grass, not sure whether this is possible for your friend), rented wheelchairs at museums, borrowed a wheelchair and took a tour of public art in downtown Chicago, went sightseeing in the car, and (as you have done for your friend) out to dinner. We explored going to a Cubs game, but he was concerned if he had to use the restroom that he might not make it in time. Unfortunately, fun stuff only happened when I would visit Chicago from San Diego, which was not an everyday occurrence. Still, he got to do something other than go to the local supermarket.

PS: It is very nice of you to think about ways to include your friend in activities. I hope you can get the other friends (and most importantly, him) to do some fun things.

Hey thank you so much for your recommendations. Yes, he uses a cane to walk. When he walks he does it very slowly. We've already done the picnic thing, but museums and going to the movies sound like a great idea. Feel free to post again if you remember other options. Much appreciated. 🙏

33 minutes ago, jeezopete said:

What a strange place to put it.... 😯

(Sorry!)

Just like a side order with the main meal. Nothing strange with that. 😆

We are a group of friends where 1 of us has limited mobility, hip surgery gone wrong, and lately I've felt like we are falling short in planning group activities beyond dining out, or just visiting him at his place, that would make him feel integrated because he cannot walk normally (he uses a cane to walk, and has to do it very slowly) or perform activities where he would need to use his legs constantly. He's indeed living a very lonely life, even more throughout this pandemic.

I know that this could be a hard question to answer but in case there is someone else in the forum with experience on this, your feedback will be greatly appreciated.