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You should probably look up the meaning of taboo, since none of those is a taboo. Maybe not to you and me, but they are definitely taboo in some cultures! And given they are no longer taboo in ours, just goes to show how malleable (and worthless) the vague free floating excuse of "social and psychological reasoning" is.

Wise are those who learn that the bottom line doesn't always have to be their top priority. -- William Arthur Ward

I am only fixated on the idea that "social and psychological reasoning" coming from "way back in the history of communities" is a horribly reactionary and irrational way to evaluate, justify. and/or condemn human behavior.

Gee. Just like women working outside the home.

No. I'm putting forth the proposition that no one can say that he never did. (Well maybe except for he, himself.)

It's always much harder to offer evidence something didn't ever happen than to offer evidence that it did.

And yes, it's the same "social and psychological reasoning" that explains why homosexuality, women working outside the home, abortion, and freeing the slaves are taboo.

That is true for you and the twins who read your post. But alas, for the twins who have not read your post there will be yeas of PTSD, hysterical weeping, and disfiguring embarrassment, particularly after they watch the Ryan Murphy dramatization of their life stories.

I've always considered "twunk" to be a developmental stage, as opposed to a size. Similar to how horses are named at each stage of development there are ones that are above or below average in size. Age Range Term Foal (birth to 1 year) Foal Yearling (1 to 2 years) Yearling Two-year-old Two-year-old Three-year-old Three-year-old Mature (4-5 years and older) Horse The exciting part about the "Gay Development Cycle" (TM) or GDC is that after Twink it branches out in multiple different branches: Bear, Drag Queen, Otter, Zaddy, Power Bottom, Chaser, Circuit Queen, Average Unattractive Person, etc.

I wasn't so much commenting on how it happens, rather that Guest has a lot shorter proven track record/verifiability than many of CoM's long term members who stand by their monikers do.

He definitely seems to be a favorite of the Anonymous Nameless Guests.

Mothers of CoM! Heed the warning before it's too late! Watch for the tell-tale sign of corruption! The moment your son leaves the house, Does he rebuckle his knickerbockers below the knee? Is there a nicotine stain on his index finger? A dime novel hidden in the corn crib? Is he starting to memorize jokes from Capt. Billy's Whiz Bang? Are certain words creeping into his conversation? Words like 'swell?" And 'so's your old man?" Well, if so my friends, Ya got trouble, With a capital "T" Trouble! Trouble! Trouble! Ya Got Trouble Lyrics - Music Man Soundtrack Lyrics WWW.LYRICSONDEMAND.COM Ya Got Trouble Lyrics by Music Man on yagottroublelyrics Soundtrack

sounds like a real assshat That is unless you'll pay $3,000 and really enjoy hearing people talk about you -- then he's not so bad. That's the first time I've ever seen the word asshat spelled with three s's. I think it's kinda' cool that way actually. 😉

For any reason in particular or are you just a generally distrusting sort?

Thanks! Please let us know when you find any "undervalue opportunities"! 😉

Time for Viagra.

Yes, framing is indeed the issue! And you have framed it such that the client's sense of entitlement is invisible to you. Restaurants, physicians, stores, attorneys, and all sorts of professionals regularly refuse clients/customers entirely or just certain specific requests all the time. "No shirts or sneakers = no service" Boy! That one causes teenagers' sense of entitlement to skyrocket, and feel that no "proper" sensible store in a beach town would do that when so many are just in bathing suits. Please find any of the human rights organizations who deal specifically with the social and economic ecology of sex workers (Listed above) who frame the power dichotomy as "the client is always right," "whatever happens, don't hurt the client's feelings." and the provider should just do what the client says. You won't find it, they neither carve out a category of "proper" sex workers and simply are not concerned with the hurt feelings of clients over the rights of providers.

Hmmmm...That particular carve out just doesn't appear in any of the statements from Wikipedia, National Harm Reduction Coalition, American Civil Liberties Union, Amnesty International USA, The Sex Workers Project, Human Rights Campaign, and the National Network Of Sex Workers on what a "proper" sex worker is. In fact with all their statements on risk reduction, empowerment, self-determination, codification of tights, and unionization, it seems that all these organizations favor the idea that "proper" sex workers have more power and control in the choices they make concerning what they will and will not do and with who they do them. I am sorry that all of our feelings get hurt when we get rejected. But rather than blaming the other person, could we possibly flip the explanation to recognize ta least some culpability ourseves? Maybe we are not always "proper" mature adults, that we are not as resilient as we might be as a "proper" adult, that we need to accept that we can't control so many, many things in our everyday lives but our lack of control is not simply because someone else is doing something wrong. Sex worker - Wikipedia https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sex_worker Sex Work Resources | National Harm Reduction Coalition https://harmreduction.org/issues/sex-work/ Sex Work is Real Work, and it's Time to Treat it That Way | American Civil Liberties Union https://www.aclu.org/news/lgbtq-rights/sex-work-is-real-work-and-its-time-to-treat-it-that-way Sex workers' rights | Amnesty International USA https://www.amnestyusa.org/issues/gender-sexuality/sex-work-rights/ Sex Work FAQ's - Sex Workers Project https://swp.urbanjustice.org/sex-work-faqs/ HRC | Beyond the Stereotypes: A Deep Dive Into Sex Work https://www.hrc.org/resources/beyond-the-stereotypes-a-deep-dive-into-sex-work Sex Work Overview - National Harm Reduction Coalition https://harmreduction.org/issues/sex-work/overview/ National Network Of Sex Workers http://nnswindia.org/

But it is indeed fascinating to hear at what people living in glass houses choose to cast their stones when the other choices floating around in the foreground include the "unappealingness" of capitalism, homosexuality, unequal power dynamics, sex trafficking, false disclosure of health status, poverty, high cost of higher education, lack of basic income programs, body dysmorphic disorder, abuse of plastic surgery, steroid abuse, drug abuse...

Microthrusting.

Nah. Grease, stretch, push, squeeze, shimmy, twist, re-grease, and repeat.

A white dawg -- but racially charged nonetheless. The Deputy Dawg Show (Western Animation) - TV Tropes https://tvtropes.org/pmwiki/pmwiki.php/WesternAnimation/TheDeputyDawgShow The Deputy Dawg Show (1959 -1964) - YouTube https://www.youtube.com/playlist?list=PL902XwQykER50wu15G-34RZ0b_M2QdRcJ

It's so surprising that so many escorts simply don't know what they weigh. Hahahahahaha. 😉 Maybe they just learned on Grindr that in 2025, weight shaving is mandatory even if you don't have to do it?

I totally agree with that, and what I am about to write does not mean to contradict, but offer an additional option. I've also had tremendous luck with retaining either one guy or two guys who I know well independently -- and then also retaining another that none of us know but who we've all agreed that we like his profile. (If there are two guys I know, I make sure they have never played with each other either.) This removes all sorts of "per-rehearsed" moves, and a lot of exploring and surprises ensue. I've never had a problem -- but have always assumed if the total unknown is a total dud, there still going to be a great time between me and the guy[s] I already know. (Several times, I've actually had less fun hiring people who are actual couples IRL....and seem to be in a sexual rut and say things like "we don't do that.")

Over time, with the right providers, I've had the roles of “client” and a “casual social contact” blended/commingled/hybridized (as opposed to "muddled") with generally good results, and no "strangeness." or ill effects.