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Exactly.

I'm looking for a FinSub provider myself: a guy where I pay his fee and then he proceeds to give me back hundreds more, access to his bank account and safe deposit boxes, and shower me with had cold cash. That's my kind of kink. I haven't found one yet though. 😞

Thanks for asking for our thoughts, and listening! Your profile says to ask about your orientation, so I'm asking. Thanks.

Yes, I also saw that movie about a guy traveling back in time to 1980 and having two glorious nights at a bar with boys in Amsterdam. It was like Outlander but not so hetero-forward (YAY!). There are no kilts in Amsterdam though (BOO!). Can't wait for Season 2.

He probably doesn't care. You do you.

There is a HUGE difference between discussing actual flaws and performance/personality issues that come from actually meeting -- and comments that are simply based on personally not liking a provider's looks or aesthetic qualities. If you don't like the way someone looks (and particularly before you make a comment that as phrased implies your aesthetic judgement is the only possible correct aesthetic judgement) realize someone else might actually like that quality.

Kinda. Explain "Bears" (plural), "Daddy" (singular), "Twinks" (plural). 🥸

I agree that what you said may be true for some providers. One reason they may not have used "bisexual" is for a similar reason -- because there are people like me who never hire bisexuals. (I have found they generally are either straights who say that for Rmen marketing purposes, or are much more tentative in their limited passion, or are much more circumscribed in what they will do, or have never done "that" before, or are less spontaneous, or...)

Henry Hen, Taylertayy....and now the only post by Lokiloki (the Jokester) on CoM mentions Chris Evans's twin. Hmmmm....

Except the sausage.

I do get wanting a FinSub provider though. I am definitely looking for a guy where I pay his fee and then he proceeds to give me back hundreds more, access to his bank account and safe deposit boxes, and shower me with had cold cash. That's my kind of kink. I haven't found one yet though. 😞

I feel Google's response would be rather....dull. But ChatGPT or one of its AI siblings could provide some entertaining responses.

You should probably look up the meaning of taboo, since none of those is a taboo. Maybe not to you and me, but they are definitely taboo in some cultures! And given they are no longer taboo in ours, just goes to show how malleable (and worthless) the vague free floating excuse of "social and psychological reasoning" is.

Wise are those who learn that the bottom line doesn't always have to be their top priority. -- William Arthur Ward

I am only fixated on the idea that "social and psychological reasoning" coming from "way back in the history of communities" is a horribly reactionary and irrational way to evaluate, justify. and/or condemn human behavior.