Jamie21

This. Everyone’s ideas are different. I’ve had “sensual” massages that some would consider erotic and vice versa. Depends on how both you and the masseur define it.
 
Regardless if sensual or erotic are offered I explain to the masseur what I’m looking for and he agrees or not - then those two definitions don’t really matter.

I agree. The concept of a 4 handed massage is more erotic and enticing than the reality. As a masseur I prefer to give massage single handed because of the focus on specific areas and I can make the experience memorable.
 
Unless the other masseurs works at the same pace as me and in the same style (which is unlikely) then it’s very difficult to give a coherent massage. Therefore I think the massage experience for the receiver is better if it’s done by just one masseur.
 
However guys (and females also) are still attracted by the idea of a 4 hands. I think because it’s more a fantasy realisation thing. They expect it to be twice as good as 2 hands but the reality is it’s almost twice as expensive and no better massage than 2 hands.
 
If you like a bit of massage but are looking for a threesome or to fulfil a fantasy then fine, go for a 4 hands with masseurs who do sex. You’ll have 2 cocks to play with. But if you want a quality sensual massage then choose 2 hands (with a good masseur).

I’m a masseur. I advertise sensual massage. I’m naked during the massage (I might start in a jock), client is naked, nowhere is off limits (depending on what the client wants), he can interact with me, it can include anything from hand job happy ending through to full penetration.
 
I think the line between sensual massage and erotic massage is blurred. If I’m doubt ask your masseur. If they’re in a country where sex work is legal they’ll be open about what’s available.

Yes, by police officers, clergy and a member of the House of Lords. Everyone needs a release.

A mate of mine adopts the airline style menu pricing model. You pay for a basic service and everything above that is extra. He’s a masseur so you pay for a naked massage with hand job. It’s extra to touch him, extra for a bj, extra for rimming etc. I expect that if you’re really horny the bill can quickly mount.
It all seems impractical to me, and unsexy. I briefly thought about trying it....I’m hung so I’d change a flat rate for penetration 5 inches deep, then extra for every additional inch. You want 8? That’ll be another £120. I suggested this to him (jokingly of course) but he actually thought it was a good idea although he was concerned that his earning potential was limited because he’s ‘only’ 7 inches. I don’t think he’s very successful....
 
The only thing I charge extra for is if my client wants me to bottom. It’s because of the extra preparation time needed. Other than that if I’m booked for a duo the price is the same as single rate.
 
With massage some clients want 4 hands. In those situations the price is usually a bit less per hour than my single (2 hands) rate but of course the client has to pay both of the masseurs so it’s more expensive for the client. It’s usually as much work for me though because you’re still massaging for an hour or whatever and still fucking them or the other masseur or both depending on what the client wants.

Ah yes I got you. I’ve a few stories yes, about different clients and some of the sex parties I’ve been to. I write about some of them on my blog on my website sensualtouchco.com. Most of my work is as a masseur and I make porn so there’s a few stories about doing that on the blog.

Yes, by police officers, clergy and a member of the House of Lords. Everyone needs a release.

Ah yes I got you. I’ve a few stories yes, about different clients and some of the sex parties I’ve been to. I write about some of them on my blog on my website sensualtouchco.com. Most of my work is as a masseur and I make porn so there’s a few stories about doing that on the blog.

Ha ha a good boy never tells who. The Lord was a sweet lovely guy. Mostly with clients you don’t know their real name, job or background and to be fair I don’t want to know these things anyway, although when chatting to them during the session some of these details are shared because it’s nice to connect mentally as well as physically. Discretion is absolutely paramount however so I’d never give any clues or names.

Ha ha a good boy never tells who. The Lord was a sweet lovely guy. Mostly with clients you don’t know their real name, job or background and to be fair I don’t want to know these things anyway, although when chatting to them during the session some of these details are shared because it’s nice to connect mentally as well as physically. Discretion is absolutely paramount however so I’d never give any clues or names.

Ha ha a good boy never tells who. The Lord was a sweet lovely guy. Mostly with clients you don’t know their real name, job or background and to be fair I don’t want to know these things anyway, although when chatting to them during the session some of these details are shared because it’s nice to connect mentally as well as physically. Discretion is absolutely paramount however so I’d never give any clues or names.

Ha ha a good boy never tells who. The Lord was a sweet lovely guy. Mostly with clients you don’t know their real name, job or background and to be fair I don’t want to know these things anyway, although when chatting to them during the session some of these details are shared because it’s nice to connect mentally as well as physically. Discretion is absolutely paramount however so I’d never give any clues or names.

I’d advise against it. Honestly, penis size has nothing to do with whether you’re hot / sexy in bed. Ok so a big one might get you some initial interest but if you haven’t got ‘it’ then the sex will be uninspiring despite your big cock. Much more important is your attitude and mind. Those things are sexy. I’ve been with hung guys who have no idea about good sex. Their cock looked nice but the sex was dull.
 
The sexiest guys are those who are happy and content with their body, they are confident and open, they own what they look like.
 
Unless you’re planning to be in porn or an escort (where the initial attraction is based on looks) then your cock size is irrelevant.

I’d advise against it. Honestly, penis size has nothing to do with whether you’re hot / sexy in bed. Ok so a big one might get you some initial interest but if you haven’t got ‘it’ then the sex will be uninspiring despite your big cock. Much more important is your attitude and mind. Those things are sexy. I’ve been with hung guys who have no idea about good sex. Their cock looked nice but the sex was dull.
 
The sexiest guys are those who are happy and content with their body, they are confident and open, they own what they look like.
 
Unless you’re planning to be in porn or an escort (where the initial attraction is based on looks) then your cock size is irrelevant.

Yes, by police officers, clergy and a member of the House of Lords. Everyone needs a release.

A mate of mine adopts the airline style menu pricing model. You pay for a basic service and everything above that is extra. He’s a masseur so you pay for a naked massage with hand job. It’s extra to touch him, extra for a bj, extra for rimming etc. I expect that if you’re really horny the bill can quickly mount.
It all seems impractical to me, and unsexy. I briefly thought about trying it....I’m hung so I’d change a flat rate for penetration 5 inches deep, then extra for every additional inch. You want 8? That’ll be another £120. I suggested this to him (jokingly of course) but he actually thought it was a good idea although he was concerned that his earning potential was limited because he’s ‘only’ 7 inches. I don’t think he’s very successful....
 
The only thing I charge extra for is if my client wants me to bottom. It’s because of the extra preparation time needed. Other than that if I’m booked for a duo the price is the same as single rate.
 
With massage some clients want 4 hands. In those situations the price is usually a bit less per hour than my single (2 hands) rate but of course the client has to pay both of the masseurs so it’s more expensive for the client. It’s usually as much work for me though because you’re still massaging for an hour or whatever and still fucking them or the other masseur or both depending on what the client wants.

I went with a client once. He was too anxious to go on his own so he hired me to go with him. It’s a good bar, lots of space, everyone is naked on naked nights but we went on a clothed night (my client’s anxiety meant he didn’t want to go naked). There were some guys stripped down to pants or less but most stayed clothed or just topless. I got naked because I prefer it that way but my client just took his top off. He only wanted to watch so I got off with a few guys there while he watched me then we went to his hotel about 5 minutes walk away on Tottenham Court Road so he could relax and release.
I’d recommend going on a naked night or pants night because the atmosphere is more anything goes. There’s a dance floor (no one dances), a DJ and seating area showing porn. There’s also an alley with gloryhole cubicles. Some vaulted cabins with saloon style doors for more private encounters and a darker area with flat seating where most of the action takes place. It can get very busy there with naked bodies pressed up against you and hard cocks probing your hole. If you want to get fucked just bend over a barrel and someone will have a go, usually bb. It’s a good place, I’d recommend it.

I never ask for pics from clients and prefer not to receive them although sometimes they’ll send a dick pic or body pic when booking. Often it comes from guys who are anxious about their cock size or their body, as in “am I hot enough to book?”.
 
I’m professional, all I need to know is that they’re over age 21 and they’ve no health conditions that are contraindications for massage. I treat everyone the same regardless of their body shape or physical attributes. For me sometimes the main challenge in performing isn’t what they look like it’s how my client behaves. Behave like a dick and you’re not going to get much dick if you know what I mean. Behave with respect and we’re definitely going to have a good time.
 
I do think that if you’re in the business of escorting or erotic massage then you’re expected to be able to see all clients and give them all a great service. When you start vetting clients for attractiveness then you’re not really escorting you’re just getting paid to satisfy your own sexual appetite. It’s different and the client will be able to tell if he’s a 10 or a 7 when you draw the line at 5 if you know what I mean.

It’s awful that you were with a guy who wasn’t into you. A professional escort shouldn’t give you that impression (even if he isn’t into you). Maybe he was having a bad day, it can happen because everyone has bad days at work sometimes. If I’m not feeling it with a client I’ll do my best to avoid giving them any impression I’m not into them. It hardly ever happens because there’s always something attractive you can find in someone and for me the fact that the client has chosen me is a turn on in itself and I use that to build the attraction.

This is words of a true professional. I also wish I knew of your existence last year as I had often traveled to London before our world got turned upside down by this virus. ?for the future.
 

Missed you on your visit to LA, but I'll be keeping an eye out for future visits whether it's your here or me out in your town.

Yes I have, at least they said they were straight. I’m not sure a 100% straight guy would be curious enough to try though so I expect they were at least slightly bisexual or just in denial of their sexuality. Everyone is on a spectrum.
 
I see a lot of guys who want to explore their sexuality because visiting a sensual masseur is a safe way of testing things out. They can reassure themselves that they’re “just going for a massage” and that nothing sexual will happen if they don’t want it to. The least they’ll get is a nice massage. If they want to try out touching me that’s fine...they can do as much or as little as they like and I tell them this at the start.
 
Often they’ll say the areas they don’t want me to go at the start and that’s usually around their bum. Most don’t want anything internal (no fingers or cock in there) but are ok with external touch around their hole. I’d say they get blown away by rimming (usually no one has done that to them before). They also like being sucked because let’s face it, straight guys haven’t usually experienced professional sucking from a gay guy so it’s a whole next level of sucking they get, plus new cock massage techniques.
 
They are interested in touching me and playing with my cock but mostly I’d say they just enjoy me awakening their bodies. They’re usually not ready to suck me or kiss or anything “gay” like that in the first few massages. I think this is especially the case with guys who are from strict religious backgrounds or where there’s strong shame associated with being gay. It’s evident they want to explore but the religious programming has been so strong it prevents them from acting on those urges. It takes time for them to recover their humanity.
 
These ‘exploring’ clients usually book a few times and progress to wanting more each time. I’ve found that they experience a sort of sexual awakening and are eager to try out new things. Many are in marriages or relationships with women where there’s no sex of its boring so the visits to me allow them to release tension and be more relaxed. They can go at their own pace in a safe and reassuring environment. I think if you’re not sure about your sexuality it’s tough to explore this through meeting guys vis hookup apps because usually the other guy isn’t much focused on giving you a good time, he’s just looking for his own satisfaction whereas with a masseur they’re 100% focused on you.

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I totally agree. If you promote yourself as doing massage (sensual/erotic) then it’s important the massage is a good one. So many masseurs spend 5 minutes doing a poor job of massaging their client’s back and then immediately try to stick a finger in his bum hole. That’s not massage! I give a proper good sensual massage and very slowly introduce erotic elements.

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I totally agree. If you promote yourself as doing massage (sensual/erotic) then it’s important the massage is a good one. So many masseurs spend 5 minutes doing a poor job of massaging their client’s back and then immediately try to stick a finger in his bum hole. That’s not massage! I give a proper good sensual massage and very slowly introduce erotic elements.

My last overseas trip was to London over President's Day Weekend in February 2020. Too bad I did not know about you. I will definitely look for you on my next trip back to the UK - whenever that may be. I just had my second dose of the Moderna vaccine on Friday, so as soon as the UK opens up, I'll be ready to book another trip to London

I’m a masseur. I’ve no problem with my client asking about sex. That’s part of my service so why shouldn’t they ask? They can ask anything they like, if it’s something I won’t or can’t do then I’ll simply tell them that. There’s no point in them booking only to find out their massage isn’t going to be what they want moments before they get on the table. That’s just going to make the experience disappointing and I want to make it memorable for them.
 
If my client asks for a half hour session or books a late night session with an hour’s notice that’s a tell tale sign they don’t want a massage they just want to get off. I don’t accept those kind of bookings. It’s minimum one hour, and you have to be sober / not under influence. Those requirements rule out the guys just looking for a quickie. No problem with that but it’s not my service.
 
If a masseur or escort has lots of rules and requirements, including needing pictures etc the it almost always means they are not in the job to satisfy their clients, they’re in it with the sole purpose of making money out of their sex life. Have that in mind when you attend your session.