Jamie21

Yes delayed response works well with those 11 pm messages asking if I’m available now. I just ignore it until I’m ready to reply and I say I was asleep or otherwise engaged. Those aren’t the clients I want. The 99% certain to not happen requests are almost always those where the client asks for some extravagant fantasy to be fulfilled involving group sex and and having every orifice penetrated all night. It all sounds great when they discuss it and book it but come the day of the appointment and they always have some issue that means they have to cancel. The more explicit and detailed the request the greater the likelihood it will be cancelled or he won’t show. If the conversation goes down the road of “describe what you’ll do to me” then I cut it off and say “book and you’ll find out” and I tell them I require a deposit for those type of requests…(which usually ends the conversation). Clients who want to book when they’re horny should have a wank and then if they still want to book they’ll know it’s for better reasons than just needing to get off right now…

Yes, me too. I like clients to call if they have things to discuss. It’s not time wasting to call and talk about requirements, it makes the meeting better because I know exactly what he likes. As long as I get a heads up and we agree a time to call I’m fine to talk. It’s more personal than a text and starts off the connection nicely. There’s a few time wasters but if I sense the call is going that way then it’s easy to end it.

I get a few clients who prefer to provide their own massage oil. That’s fine, I’ll use any reasonable massage oil except baby oil. They also prefer to use their own condoms (if I’m bottom) which is fine but I bring my own for me to use (if we’re doing safe) because I like the right size. Even if my client says he will provide everything I still take my own stuff because I’ve had in the past clients who use bad lube or have only one condom or just baby oil. I guess I just like to have no surprises and I prefer to be in control.

I walk in to high end hotels with my massage table! I have my backpack on my back (containing oils, lube, condoms various sizes, massage tools like feathers etc, a change of underwear, viagra, wipes, mouthwash, toothpaste and toothbrush, nail clippers - an essential for a masseur!). I’ve never been questioned. I always walk in with confidence as if I own the place. If it’s a hotel I’ve not visited previously I might have done a reconnaissance visit beforehand if convenient. It’s useful to check out things like locations of lifts, reception, the doorman etc. If the client wants a massage on the bed then it’s easier as I don’t have to drag the table around. But a table massage is much better than the bed. Often though they just want a more sensual massage with more focus on sex than massage do the bed is fine for that. I always dress smart; trousers, jacket etc. I still take my kit in the backpack though because it’s easier to carry. It’s dark and discreet.

Maybe you’re being irritated unnecessarily? I used to get annoyed by lack of response from clients…such as the text “hi are you available at xxx”. I respond with “yes” or “no but I’m next free at xxx” and then there’s absolute silence. No response atall from them. I’m used to it now. Some clients are closeted so they minimise contact, some just rude, some are simply getting off on the thought of a meeting with never any intention to book. I think it’s their loss and their problem. My only cost is a few seconds to text them. I now realise that some clients treat sex workers as not being worthy of respect and of course those clients are not the ones I want anyway. I don’t block because they’ll never book anyway.

If that’s what you want, ask him. If you go along hoping for it to happen you might be lucky but why not he sure and ask? I appreciate my clients being very clear about what they want. Sometimes they’ll give cues because perhaps they’re shy about asking or are unsure what they want. I think I’m experienced enough now to pick up on those cues and lead them where I think they want to go. What I’m saying is your provider will appreciate you asking direct or implying what you like because his desire is to please you and if he can do that he’ll be happy and so will you.

I put my rate up, very slightly, when I got an increase in the rent for the massage studio I use. I absorbed some of the increase but had to pass on some of the increased costs. I’ve not noticed any impact on demand. My regular clients haven’t commented on the change in price nor asked why. I think if I increased by 10% or more then maybe they’d question it but I think the only answer I could give is a general increase in costs. I’m not going to publish my Profit and Loss account! Some clients think there’s no actual costs to providing massage / escort services and all the revenue is profit. In reality there’s costs to rent accommodation, advertise, phone line, health checks, laundry, oils, personal care costs…it all adds up and these things rise in price like everything else. The extent to which you can pass on these costs in your pricing depends on demand and supply.

I don’t provide it because it usually means an overnight and I’m not into that (I like to sleep at night!). If a client wants to hire me to sleep with them overnight (I’ll fuck in the morning, that’s ok…) and put up with my snoring and random kicking then fine I’ll do it but if they expect me to fuck them through the night and then make them breakfast in the morning then I’m not interested. My longest booking is 3 hours for massage and fun. And that includes boyfriend experience because during their session I’m 100% focused and attentive to their needs. Kind of ironic because no boyfriend has ever been focused on me 100% for 3 minutes let alone 3 hours .

I use DayUse, it’s very good. If I have a client who wants to meet in a hotel or if I’m doing a filming session for my fans site I’ll use it to find a convenient hotel.

Please book via my website 🙂

I have a justforfans page. When I couldn’t do much massage work during lockdown the justforfans was helpful. It does take effort and focus to produce decent content and to promote it. I use proper lighting, 4 or 5 cameras, and a professional editor. I also post a full length (20 to 25 minutes) film every 2 weeks. I make a reasonable return but it’s not as good as doing client meets. I think it’s just another way of promoting my work and making some money from performing. If you like watching massage porn then I hope you’ll like my work. It’s accessible via Twitter @massageforhim

I had a client who wanted to be tickled. For the whole session. I just tickled him all over. It was ok at first, I thought he’d tire of it and want sex but no…he asked for more tickling each time I tried to get more erotic or do some traditional massage. “Tickle me more” he’d ask. I’d tied him to the table just by his wrists and ankles so he couldn’t resist, which was his request. If I’m doing a firm massage or I’m fucking for ages I’ve usually got the stamina but tickling a guy is something else! I got really tired in my hands and forearms. The tickling became less and less vigorous. I was kind of hoping he’d cum from the tickling, which would have been intriguing to see. However, although he got hard (and I kept stroking his cock every so often) it was basically the only part of his body that wasn’t ticklish and he didn’t seem to want touched. Our time ended and he’d not cum (nor had I but that’s not unusual) so I asked him if he was happy and he said it was fantastic. My hands were so tired I could barely undo the knots to release his binding. It’s definitely a request I wish I’d declined because it’s not really my thing. Either that or I’ll double my rate.

I use Wordpress. It’s easy to set up and manage. I also blog so Wordpress is good for that.

I get some from clients googling for sensual/erotic massage and finding my website; sensualtouchco.com. I get around 20k visitors a year to it and it’s growing. I’ve got videos on there, frequently asked questions, my location etc so that they can see what’s on offer and I don’t have to answer too many questions. I think it gives clients confidence I’m professional about things and it’s a great way to promote yourself. I’d definitely recommend setting up a website if you are currently just relying on advertising platforms.

Exactly this. “Discover your inner sexiness” Although I’d say it’s not inner because it is on display in how you behave and interact. A good provider will notice these things like that guy noticed you taking a shower. Someone who only looks superficially won’t notice. It’s the reason if clients ask to send me their picture I decline. It’s not necessary to see a picture. A picture isn’t the person, it’s just what they look like not who they are.

Who knows? I’ve tried to understand the patterns of business but it always defeats me. Sometimes it seems to be the phase of the moon that decides whether or not I’m busy… The only pattern I can see is that the start of the month is slightly busier, because I think people have been paid (monthly pay cheques in UK). That’s all, otherwise it’s random.

I look to my clients for 3 things. Be clean and fresh (that’s the top requirement and an absolute red line), be punctual (I have a schedule, if you’re unavoidably delayed please communicate, we can always reschedule), be respectful and polite (I’m a human being not a piece of meat). That’s all. If they’re those things then I’m able to give my best for them. They’ll get my total attention and focus because there’s no issues with cleanliness, rushing or dealing with attitude to distract me. Their body size, shape or colour isn’t any issue atall. A good provider knows that sexiness goes way beyond physical appearance. There’s something sexy and attractive about everyone and a great provider will know how to find it in their client and bring it out. The fact that you’ve come for a session in the first place makes you attractive in my opinion. It means you chose me to share it with…and that’s definitely a positive for me! It starts things off well and I’m eager to show you that you made the right choice. Long post, sorry but I think this is important because lots of my clients say they worried about being sexy enough to have a massage and fun. It’s a shame because everyone can be sexy and they shouldn’t worry about their body shape. Just be clean punctual and nice.

I wouldn’t welcome being approached in public. Just a nod and eye contact is ok but if a client started a discussion with me I’d feel quite awkward and monosyllabic. I’d be anxious about where the conversation was going. Fortunately it’s never happened. I’m not embarrassed by what I do, I discuss my work with friends who are understanding but unfortunately not everyone is open minded and tolerant so I’m careful about who knows what I do. I think it’s important to keep client confidentiality so I’d never even acknowledge a client if I saw them in a non work context. I’ve even seen clients at sex parties I’ve attended and not given any indication to anyone that they were a client so I’d expect the same courtesy back. Discretion is the most important quality of a good escort and one that escorts appreciate from clients too.

I did see a table partially collapse at a massage training session I was at one time. An interesting event…12 naked guys on massage tables with 24 semi naked women learning how to give a sensual massage to a guy. I was one of the 12 demo models. The females would rotate around every so often so that they got to practice on different guys. At the start of the evening the guy doing the training was demonstrating a move which meant he had to lean on the table. As he leant over it one of the table legs collapsed, rendering it unusable. I was asked to give up my table so the now table-less volunteer could use mine. As I was a pro masseur and knew the guy running the event I stopped being a practice model (unfortunately) and helped him to train the women in how to massage their man. They did well, 10 of the 11 guys reached climax. We discovered later that the collapsed table had a screw missing. Generally I think most tables are sturdy. It’s just that if the person on the table is big then it’s difficult for the masseur to mount the table. Sometimes if my client wants to be fucked it’s better if they bend over the table and I can fuck them from behind rather than having to mount the table myself. It’s quite a good position.

I often get asked to do surprise visits to client’s partners. It’s always a “no”. The person I’m seeing must always know the nature of the booking. Surprises just don’t work unfortunately.

Yes check with the provider. When I do massage there’s a size limit for the table, but that means the bed can be used instead. Yay! If you check you’ll find out beforehand whether the provider cares or not about your body size. It’s better than turning up and finding out they’re sizeist.

Good idea. My justforfans is top quality!!

I use feathers, a back scratcher thing (like those head massage tools), a prostate massager if the client wants it (although I think fingers are better for prostate massage), sometimes dildos. It really depends what my client wants. Nothing beats a skilled pair of hands and a hard cock though.

And that’s an issue too! I’m almost always top and it seems almost all of my clients are bottom which isn’t surprising given I’m hung. However occasionally a client will want to top me, which is fine (I’m versatile) but I wish they’d say in advance so I can prepare. I just assume they’re bottom so I never prepare myself (not thoroughly anyway). Nothing’s happening that way if I’m not prepared.

It’s the low cost airline pricing model. You want a designated seat? That’s extra. You want hold baggage? That’s extra. You want a crappy sandwich? That’s extra.... Those airlines are cheap for a reason. Fly with a decent airline if you want full service. Same applies with providers.