Jamie21

As an escort you don’t decide whether or not you see “high class clients”, the clients decide that. You can set yourself up as expensive or top end but if no clients take up the offer you’re not an escort atall, let alone a high class one. All you can do is price your service what you think it’s worth and then see if the market likes you. If it does, then it has decided you’re worth it. If it doesn’t then you have to decide to lower your price or get out of the business. I set my price when I started 4 years ago and I’m getting the volume of clients I want so it’s good for me. My clients vary from extremely wealthy to students on low income. They all pay the same rate, they all get my full attention and focus. You can decide to be professional and reliable of course but you can’t decide to be “high end”; that is decided for you.

If I do an outcall I’m not strict on time. Say they book an hour, I start the time from the time the massage starts. It usually takes me 15 minutes to get the table set up and get undressed, then some chat etc. I’ll find a clock in the room or I set the time by my music which I play on a Bluetooth speaker from my phone. If we’re in a hotel there’s usually a clock beside the bed. After the massage I’ll chat and spend some time cuddling or whatever he likes if we’ve moved from the massage table to the bed for example. I include sex as part of the massage so it starts on the table but guys find it more comfortable if we use different positions to move to the bed or shower sometimes. By the time things have cooled down it’s usually another 15 minutes then I start to pack up the table etc. So for an hours booked massage my whole time there is more like 2 hours. Sometimes after we’ve finished and cuddled etc for a while guys get horny again and want some more sex. I always ask if they’d like to extend the time and this is an introduction to discussing extra payment. It’s not good form to discuss details like that at that point so I just say I’m very pleased they want some more and I’m happy to an extra half hour as I’m sure they’ll be generous. Most guys get the hint and pay a big tip. Overall if it’s an outcall therefore I always leave at least 2 hours free after the booking time has ended before I book anything else in. For in calls I use a shared studio so I have to be much stricter on timings and can only go 5 minutes or so over unfortunately. My clients know this however when they book.

I answer the door in shorts and t shirt because there could be someone else at the door or I meet someone on the stairs. Then, once inside my studio I remove my top. I give my client the choice of me starting naked or removing my shorts (or whatever I’m wearing...some guys ask me to wear a jock or backless pants or cycling shorts) during the massage. I always end up naked by the end of the massage so that they can touch me or suck me (or more) if they want to. A lot of my clients like to feel my cock through the shorts and enjoy not knowing when or if they’ll come off. I’m extremely hung so it sometimes sticks out of the side or bottom of the shorts and they like to feel it as I massage them. There are a lot of dynamics going on with massage that can be used to heighten the sexual tension for the client. Being part undressed is just one of them.

Mine does ok. It’s very content hungry, you have to keep putting on regular new content, of good quality (not shot on an I phone with bad lighting and wobbly camera work) and engage your audience. I do massage porn so it has a theme. I think it’s best to have a clear theme and style and to tweak it over time. I agree with what the previous poster says about investing time. Stand out from the crowd and you’ll do ok. Oh and promote it....like this https://justfor.fans/MassageForHim ?

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If I count the guys who paid me then it’s four figures. I don’t keep a full record of the non work sex.

Choose your business model and be consistent with it. Set the rate, never discount, never negotiate. Decide whether to charge a flat rate all inclusive or operate a low cost airline style service that means extras are charged for. But be consistent and provide value. There’s lots of amateurs in this business thinking they can make easy money. They don’t last long. Don’t be one of them.

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My clients range from 20 to I guess 70’s possibly older. I don’t ask age unless they look under 18. I love them all. I’ve seen hundreds of guys and bad clients are rare and there’s no correlation with age in my experience. Older guys tend to be more confident in asking for what they want. Younger guys are more reticent and want to be guided.

I’m regularly asked by guys to be a surprise gift for their wife or husband. It’s usually a situation where the partner hiring me wants to surprise their partner with a massage and fuck. I’m totally fine to see couples for this but only if it’s clear to both partners what is planned. I’m never going to agree to a surprise booking and in these situations I always ask to speak to both partners to make sure they’re both in agreement.

Yes sex is natural. Guys hire escorts for many things but also for sex. The client chooses the escort, but the escort doesn’t choose the client. You may hope and think as a client that the escort is not acting and being themselves but it will not always be the case. The escort may not be attracted, but they have been hired, and so cannot say to their client “sorry I don’t feel attracted or I’m not horny”. So do you think they are being themselves if they show a performance of attraction to their client? This is after all their job, they have to perform whether they feel sexy or not. Of course if the client is attractive to the escort it is easy, but if not, then you act. The client knows no difference if you are a good escort.

I’ve a guy like that. He started as a client and booked me about 7 or 8 sessions over a year and then he invited me out for a meal (not a paid session, just as a friend) because we got on well and had similar interests. The meal went well (no sex afterwards...we went home separately!) and things developed into cinema visits etc. Now I’d seen him separately anyway at other times when we happened to meet at sex parties or the gym so I already knew him (and had fucked him at sex parties) so it was more complicated than just a client becoming a friend. But it works fine, he’s a friend and we meet for fun and do stuff together (holiday, meals etc) but no more paid client meetings which is fine by me. So it can work but not as a boyfriend type thing though.

Yes it seems like that, he still viewed you as a client would, except he was getting it free. Nothing wrong with you expecting he’d see it differently but I’d guess you’re up against it given the way it started. With porn stars dating each other, or escorts dating each other at least you’re both coming from the same perspective. I could date an escort because I’d understand what he thinks given we both do the same job. Work sex is totally different from relationship sex and we’d both understand that.

For me it’s the normal fee. I’ve done shows for clients with other escorts and it usually ends up with the client wanting to join even if that wasn’t planned for at the start. I don’t discount it because it’s time, if I wasn’t at that session I could have been seeing a client at my normal rate so why provide a discount?

I’ve seen clients out with their wives (or girlfriends I guess but they definitely looked like wives if you know what I mean). On a few occasions they’ve seen me and it’s very clear they don’t want to say hello. I’d never initiate the conversation, I’d probably use the name they booked with me which is most likely not their real name.. One time I was on a train back from meeting a client and a regular client got on with his wife and two kids. He didn’t see me at first because they sat opposite me. I was wearing tight shorts and hadn’t put any underwear on (long story, the client I’d just seen wanted to keep them so...). Anyway, they all sit down, he looks up and sees me smiling. Instant look of terror on his face but he quickly realised I’m not going to say anything and we settle down to making inadvertent eye contact as we try to ignore each other. His wife seems to be on her phone so hasn’t paid any attention to me atall. Most awkward journey I’ve had because I’m thinking of all the times I’ve cum in his arse (which is extremely pert and tight) and I’m getting hard and it’s starting to show in my shorts. I try to cover with my hands but that sort of makes it worse. My rucksack is in the rack overhead so I can’t even get up to reach it. He keeps on glancing at my shorts which only makes me get harder. His wife and kids are oblivious. We’re two stops from my station and there’s no way I can stand now as I’m almost fully hard in the shorts. I’m hung and it’s almost popping out. The vibration of the train makes it worse. Anyway we’re nearly at my station and now I’m solid and I can’t get up. I realise I’ve a gay magazine I could use to sort of cover it up but the mag is one of those free gay weeklies that has semi naked guys on the front but I think the back is ok so I pull it out from beside me and hold it over the offending area as I stand up on reaching my station. Unfortunately the back of the mag is just as naughty as the front (it has a naked guy advertising Squirt hookup app) and I sort of wave the mag covering my tent in my shorts in his wife’s face as I reach up for my rucksack. Of course it’s open and as I drag it down a plastic bottle of lube falls out and rolls along the floor under my client’s feet. Now I have to bend down in front of him to pick it up. I stuff the lube in the bag and make for the door trying to keep the Squirt advert in front of my shorts...the irony of it not lost. On the platform I can see my client talking to his wife through the window as the train departs. I so wish I knew what he said....never saw him again unfortunately. He had a very fuckable arse.

Easy to say it but I wouldn’t date a guy I’d first met as a client. When that attraction happens it might not be possible to resist of course, I understand that, but I’m sure I wouldn’t initiate any ‘non professional’ contact after they’d booked me. I occasionally get clients who become infatuated with me and it’s difficult to let them down that a relationship isn’t going to happen whilst at the same time trying to keep them as a regular client. But I’d not initiate any sort of boyfriend relationship because they’ve not met the real me (and I’ve probably not met the real them either). That’s why I keep it separate. When guys meet me professionally they’re not seeing the normal me. I’m performing / acting and it’s not necessarily how I’d be outside of the meeting. For most of my clients I’m attracted to them so the performance is easy and because I like sex and meeting people I can give them a great time. However it’s the nature of the work that some clients I meet are great to know and be with but I don’t feel sexually attracted to them. However I act as if I am and I make sure the sex is hot and they get what they’re looking for. I have no problem performing that way (or I wouldn’t escort) but it can be misleading for them if we seem to hit it off in every way when in reality I’ve performed a role in the sex. It’s work...it’s what they pay for, it’s why they booked me so it’s so difficult to tell them later on if a relationship has developed that the sex we had wasn’t real. That’s the problem with developing boyfriend relationships with clients, the professional nature of the initial meeting(s) has to be erased and it’s impossible to do that. Keep it separate!

I think it safest to keep things separate if possible. One of my clients has become a friend and I’ve been away on holiday with him as friends (I paid my accommodation but he paid flights and most of the holiday spending though) and it’s great. We get on well as friends and I’ve almost forgotten I first met him as a client (he hired me for about 8 sessions before it became a friends situation). A couple of clients have wanted it to develop further but I’m definitely not looking for a relationship. If I felt differently about them it could be difficult I guess....

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I advertise as offering sensual massage, so as a minimum that’s a happy ending. However frequently it will go further to include full penetration if my client is wanting that and if I’m up for it, so it’s mutual. No extra charge. I find it works fine, they get a great massage and at least a handjob but if they want more it’s possible. I don’t put any limits on interaction with me during the massage. If it’s clear when booking that they want a more escort type service (including me bottoming) then that’s a different rate and there’s no massage, just escort service.

No he wasn’t even very good! He wouldn’t have known that though, I make him feel that he was good. That’s the job ?

Never ask ages, except if I think they’re under 18. I guess youngest is 20, oldest in their 70’s. Everyone is different and I’d not generalise. The older guys tend to want more intimacy and closeness. The younger are looking for experience. I like them all. The variety of guys I see surprises me because before I started doing this I’d assumed that there were only a few types of guy who’d book me but it’s definitely opened my eyes to the fact that everyone needs to book a professional sometimes.

Yes, my massage studio has a shower. All the luxuries! Shower, heated electric table, fluffy towels, warm oil....water based lube lol

I rim. My clients appreciate it. They got to shower first though.

It’s their problem not mine. When they realise I don’t care what they think they become even more judgmental.