CuriousByNature

As long as you're not suggesting there have been examples of hypocrisy on these boards. 😂

I read the review the other day and did not realize it was you. Your account of the scenario clearly indicates you requested deep pressure, yet he claims lack of communication. AND thinks there will be a next time.... lol. He at least could have offered a repeat visit at no charge.

With all due respect, the OP wasn't looking for advice on how to spend his money. It's awesome you have been able to shed the excess weight, and that's a big achievement you should rightly be proud of, but the OP's immediate concern is about how he might be received at his current weight.

Also Jessica Lang, Ursula Andress, Olivia Hussey and Tippi Hedren.

This is quite a thread I'm wary to add to the comments/advice in a substantive way, given my complete lack of experience in the ways of love/lust... lol. But for what it's worth: I highly doubt he is a provider. I just have a feeling that is part of the fantasy he creates for himself and part of an elaborate role play. It also provides him with an easy way out of relationships that aren't going where he would like them to go. You seem like a great guy, and have physical attractiveness to boot. There is no reason why a 32-year old would not pursue you, and I think his interest may be genuine. The sexual tension that developed over time took an investment from both of you, and if he was really into a business arrangement I doubt he would have waffled over the financial aspect of it. I think that was a ruse to make the whole situation seem more exciting/dangerous, and added to the fantasy he was creating for himself. He may seem to be the most confident and charismatic guy around, but in reality he may not see himself that way. He may consider this whole game to be his only sure way of building a deeper connection with someone he is really interested in. But as we all know, I am no authority on any of this, but I am trying to put myself in HD's shoes and looking at it from that perspective. You're a mature, fit, intelligent, financially secure, and interesting man. I am a 32 year old gym rat that exudes sexiness, and have been a succesful salesman of high-end vehicles which may require me to build the fantasy to accomplish my goals. I extend that to my personal life because I am not confident I can achieve success there unless I incorporate similar measures. Resolving our sexual tension has thrown me, and I hadn't anticipated what comes next. So I waffle and fumble some more and that comes across as a mindfu*k. In some ways you intimidate me, but I can't let you see that. Is this helpful at all? It's just something to consider. But please be careful in any case.

If he is an alien, just be mindful of the probe. Well, be midful of that whether he is an alien or not.

Are you able/willing to elaborate on what made it great? Please feel free to PM me if you prefer

Chilvery?

And what does it have to do with Panama? Because it came out of a canal? Because it's humid? Because you're supposed to be wearing a straw hat and be thinking of Manuel Noriega?

Is no longer possible to search in specific forums anymore, or am I missing something obvious?

I don't even know what a circuit party is... a gathering of electrical engineers?

Or perhaps @Cliff is all the viagra they need 😉

This was the first time I ever heard the name Sanker, so my own ignorance evidently led me to missread the tone of the various replies. Not the first time, and likely not the last...!

I definitely recommend the Art Institute and the Field Museum. I wasn't as impressed by the Shedd Aquarium, but that's because I've been to SeaWorld in San Diego and the Vancouver Aquarium when I lived in BC.

I saw the name and immediately pictured the neighbour from The Jeffersons... lol.

Sure, but is there anything wrong with asking the OP instead? Have we all become so antisocial that we have to use google first, before asking one another questions? I sure hope not!

The way I read it, he was just asking Charlie a question. I did not see anything sarcastic in that. But your response rang a bit snarky, to me at least.

Why the sarcasm? Surely in a country of 300 million people there can be more than one party promoter named Sanker. Particularly since there is a 30-year span between the original Palm Springs parties and covid, right?

I'm really happy for all the Americans who can now go maskless without as much concern. We're still not there yet up here in the barrens of Canada. But I got my first Moderna jab this morning, so I'm partway there... though shot #2 may not happen for another 3 months or so. But there seems to be light at the end of this long, dark tunnel.

He is on this site, but I don't recall his handle here. I have never met him but he always seemed pleasant in communications. I think he also has a BF that is a provider too.

You have absolutely nothing to apologise for. ? When I can't access the site I tend to assume I've somehow managed to break the Internet. ?

I'm just amazed that anyone is flexible enough to compare the two.

To me, dropping one letter from a word that is already short ust eems tupid.

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Yes - good recall!