CuriousByNature

I've thought the same. But rather than focusing on leaving a legacy for when we are gone, maybe we should simply concentrate on how we impact others today. Actions that exhibit and promote kindness, empathy, grace and mercy can have life-altering effects for those we encounter on a day-to-day basis, and can have ripple effects that continue to have impacts long after we are gone. Maybe that is the legacy we should value. It may not be as tangible or quantifiable as writing a novel or creating a piece of art - but it is something of great value nonetheless, and within anyone's abilities to achieve.

Your words sound to me like a conspiracy theory, not unlike the allegegations of voter fraud. Many people die OF covid, and many others die WITH covid. But this distinction does not alter the facts. Without covid 400,000 people in the USA would likely still be alive and many thousands more would not be suffering permanent damage. For many with underlying health issues, covid has tipped the balance - even if covid is not what they died 'from' it has certainly hastened their demise by destabilizing their health further.

I've only ever gone to Vegas alone and I've never had any issues in the many times I've been there. I'm not one to be out really late, but it always seemed pretty safe to me because there's lots of people out and about - though maybe that is different right now due to covid. Some areas further north are a bit sketchier in my experience, but the main part of the strip has always been fine for me.

Without lyrics - Hawaii 5-0 With lyrics - The Jeffersons

I imagine you could simply say that your experience with XXXX was not positive, and then anyone who might ask for more details could message you privately?

You took the high road and showed him more respect than he had shown others - something to be proud of ?

Whose tongue and whose cheek?

I tend to run cold, like most creatures with very slow metabolisms - like tortoises. And by 'run', I do not mean exercise - perish the thought. ?

Didn't really have any bullies... they were around, and I was the nerdy, geeky, socially inept kid - but for some reason I was never targeted. ?‍♂️ Those who were bullies in my schools seemed to be very misunderstood individuals - often pretty bright, but often clearly broken in some way. This is not to excuse them in any way whatsoever - and I often stood up to them when I saw them bully others - but my experience has been that bullies aren't usually born that way.

OMG... just when I thought you were such a nice guy for admiring my PM's butt, you go and insult those of who are follicly challenged! I'm as bald as a pool ball... LOL ? (laughter mixed with real tears) hahaha.

I'm glad that you are still well, and hopefully you were never asymptomatic and inadvertently passing covid to others. Part of the reason why infection rates are so high is because some people do not take social distancing very seriously, and I can't imagine a way for massage to be done in a socially distant manner. Nor would it be comfortable with masks and PPE. I don't think the OP was trying to scare people, but just remind people of the very real risks involved. It's great that many masseurs follow proper protocols, but nobody is perfect and mistakes can happen. Stay well.

Be well and stay strong. Things will get better... we are closer to that day than we were yesterday. It's worrying when people seem to drop off the radar, but hopefully each is healthy and doing alright.

I've found that sometimes 'random' events aren't random at all, and that 'coincidences' can have a deeper root than simply chance.

Entertains... absolutely! ? Impresses... completely! ? Making me envious of your talent at painting a picture with words... definitely! ? Making me realize how many things I have missed out on during the first half of my life... sadly, that too. ? Not trying to sound melancholy - it's just my reality. And hopefully nobody else's. ?

I imagine some parts have grass, others concrete or asphalt, and lots of sand at the beaches... sorry, I couldn't help myself. I'll try harder to resist next time ?

British Museum, Victoria and Albert, British Library Special Collections, and Natural History Museum all in London. Hermitage in St. Petersburg. Field Museum in Chicago. All of the Smithsonian Museums in Washington DC. So many good ones out there...

I guess that must have been hot.

Would you mind explaining why? Happy to receive a PM if you prefer and are willing

Yes, that's who I was thinking of. I hope his mom is doing better. If I recall correctly, he was her care giver. ?

Hmmm... thinking back more than a year now, wasn't there someone with ginger hair and very similar build who was escorting and massaging to help support his very ill mother? I recall people posting that he was a very friendly guy, but there is not enough face showing in this add to know if he is the one. Does anyone else remember him, or have I finally gone over the edge?

My list is probably different than most, as I dont know what a gay town should include, but my ideal town would be a place that has: Excellent architecture spanning many styles and eras, As many cuisines as possible represented within walking/bus distance from home, A weekly market for fresh produce, fish and meat, and a variety of international food stores and cook shops, Antique stores and auction houses, Vibrant churches that welcome everyone, and lovingly support those less fortunate in society both locally and abroad, A collection of interesting gymns and spas that are priced according to income level, A breeding program and centre for endangered animals, Proximity to both ocean and forest, Quality health care and staggered levels of seniors care depending on level of care needed, Efficient and clean public transportation, Free but time-limited public parking, Annual community fairs and festivals, Good and reliable wifi, Movie theaters with reclining seats, including a theater for Silent Film with a Wurlitzer organ to accompany. Four climate seasons, none of which are exteme. Lots of public plantings and gardens, Big box stores outside of town but within commuter distance, A cemetary that allows standing headstones, An international airport within a one hour commute, Public vegetable gardens and acces to heirloom seeds, Ample coffee shops that sell delicious tortes like Cafe Demel in Vienna, Quality all-you-can eat sushi and dim sum, Roads, paths and buildings that accomodate those with special needs, A facility where elderly parents and their aging disabled children can live together and not have to be separated at the ends of their lives, A place where the town motto is to love your neightbour as yourself, and wanting the very best for your neighbour at all times. We could call it 'Agapeville'.

Very impressive profile picture.

I'm concerned about losing weight and the effect on skin sag. I am trying to lose slowly and steadily to allow my aged skin to contract slowly, but I expect i will have a lot that wont snap back to shape. I have no problem taking the risk for surgery but also dont want to be taken for a ride. Im expecting it will only be needed in my abdomen, because my face, arms and legs dont tend to be where my fat settles in. I really want to see if I can find at least one ab again.

I wish I could go back a few years to 35... there is a lot I would have done differently. Even better if I could go back to 15. @Merboy - hopefully you have many more years in front of you than you do behind you. Its never too late to make positive changes - even one step forward is still a step forward from where you are at. Break things up into manageable goals to reduce the pressure on yourself and make sure you celebrate each success. This is very much a 'do as I say and not as I do' post, because I have rarely taken my own advice. And that may be why I often wish my father had worn a condom the night I was conceived!

While I have not met with any providers myself, I believe your post raises a very important consideration that often gets overlooked. The transaction that takes place is for the provider's time, and it need not result in a sexual encounter.