RJD

Unfortunately "totally shaved" is the new black...
Very hot guys nevertheless!

I don’t usually long for the “good old days,” but to go back in time when the name Kardashian was only associated with one of OJ’s defense attorneys....good times! ?

I don’t subscribe to any of them nor do I know all that much about the OF and JFF phenomena, but it seems like a very saturated market. Almost every adult-oriented Twitter and IG user seems to have one or both accounts. It also seems like you need to subscribe to at least one before you can see who else is providing content. I’d like to browse the available content providers before subscribing to any of them.

I feel @maninsoma and @RJD have made some very good points.
 
I also feel that many people underestimate how much money a very handsome guy could in the recent past earn as a conventional escort. In 2010 I had a year-long affair with a beautifully ripped 23 year old in LA, who went on to be an Abercrombie model and a fashion cover-guy. We’d first met when he was a provider with a small (no face pics) profile/advert, but after 3 paid overnight dates in a week he took me to dinner and told me he wanted me to be with him. I commuted to LA each month and stayed for a week with him in his condo. He didn’t charge me but I picked up all the bills (restaurants, concerts, long weekend trips etc). He was handsome, medium height, 4% body fat, versatile sexually; he liked to top but he was a wild bottom for me.
 
Now the point of all the above detail. He wanted my advice, so he discussed his finances with me in detail. He had overall monthly costs of $6000 (mortgage on his condo, tuition, gym and personal living expenses) so he ran an advert (then Rentboy) when he was short of cash. When he’d made $6000, he took his advert offline and didn’t answer any work-calls. I know for a fact that he often took his ad offline within a week, ie he earned $6000 in a week! Also, he generally saw clients only once as he didn’t want guys to know much about him; he told me I was the first guy ever to live with him.

For some strange reason, that's the way OF is -- well, at least you have to give them a payment method before browsing content. At least with JFF you can see who's posting content before even creating an account, though a lot of content providers don't even offer previews so it's difficult to tell with some of them how good their content is even though you can at least tell how frequently they update their page.

True. I’m baffled by the “why” of this.
 
But 10 years ago who had heard of Kylie Kardashian. She was a self-made billionaire at 21. Hardly Andrew Carnegie but the world has changed and the riches go to the people with the smarts and content to be at the right place at the right time.

You need a new roommate? ?

Mine is Tyler Saint massage videos. ?

I’m sensing a theme....?

It could be a language issue. His profile says he’s visiting from Brazil. Although he only lists English as a language, his native language is probably Portuguese. He could be just learning English or using an on-line language translator.

I think that is the very definition of guilty pleasure!

True!

Mine is Tyler Saint massage videos. ?

Those are pure pleasure, no guilt

That goes without saying! Lol

I almost fell for two Grindr scams yesterday. Thankfully, the little voice in my big head
remembered this thread and overrode the big voice in my little head...for once.
 
Thanks for saving me!

Yes. I was wondering about that. Rather than registering for the whatever safety site thing, I'm getting more requests for my number to text. But on the plus side, the bots are sending the ass pics I demand from them

Curious, was his screen name Hannibal L and did he want to have your balls with fava beans and a nice Chianti?

Hot guy, but he identifies as straight and doesn’t list kissing as one of his activities. Muscle worship?

Eagle’s eyes! He lists anal and BFE though, which in latin standards means he can kiss you if the chemistry is there. Most straight and bi latin guys will do, especially if you are paying well and are nice to them. I would try my chances giving him some 420 and Tequila, and see if he can kiss me! ??

At least now you know. Next time you’re in his town you can schedule a session without that concern.

I’ve dealt with this personally many, many years ago before the internet. You do need to be of a certain mind-set to accept that your boyfriend is having sex with other men. Your social and sex life as a couple are compromised because your time together is being interrupted and your own sex life suffers because he needs to be able to function for clients.

I don’t get the inclination of some providers to throw a block on someone unless that person is making and breaking multiple appointments.
 
I’ll use the posts in this Deli section to check out guys. I clicked on one providers profile, looked at his pics and that was it. Didn’t contact him, didn’t request access to his private gallery. The next day, I had a notification that he viewed my profile. I clicked on his and didn’t have access. What if I was planning a trip and was scoping out the talent? It doesn’t seem very smart. If I was planning a trip and had him on a short list, that would’ve turned me off.
 
On the other side of the spectrum there was a 411 on here recently about Chad Roberts out of Houston https://rent.men/chadroberts who I found incredibly hot. I sent him a message just to say that and tell him if he’s ever up in Philly I would definitely book a session with him. He replied back with the friendliest and most pleasant message thanking me and although he didn’t have any plans in the near future, if anything changed he would let me know. That made me want to get together with him even more.
 
Optics has a huge impact on your business.

I don’t get the inclination of some providers to throw a block on someone unless that person is making and breaking multiple appointments.
 
I’ll use the posts in this Deli section to check out guys. I clicked on one providers profile, looked at his pics and that was it. Didn’t contact him, didn’t request access to his private gallery. The next day, I had a notification that he viewed my profile. I clicked on his and didn’t have access. What if I was planning a trip and was scoping out the talent? It doesn’t seem very smart. If I was planning a trip and had him on a short list, that would’ve turned me off.
 
On the other side of the spectrum there was a 411 on here recently about Chad Roberts out of Houston https://rent.men/chadroberts who I found incredibly hot. I sent him a message just to say that and tell him if he’s ever up in Philly I would definitely book a session with him. He replied back with the friendliest and most pleasant message thanking me and although he didn’t have any plans in the near future, if anything changed he would let me know. That made me want to get together with him even more.
 
Optics has a huge impact on your business.