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This thread has sent me down a Google rabbit hole where I, too, have noticed the reclamation of “whore,” particularly among sex-positive, woman-identified sex work activists. Lesson learned: Inform myself before posting! I would, however, be curious to hear how the male masseurs and escorts we patronize feel about the word.

My bad. I just saw via Google that some people actually refer to today as International Whore’s Day. I had only heard it referred to as International Sex Workers Day (by people who support those in sex work in various ways). Again, my bad.

Perhaps we could start by not flippantly referring to them as whores. People who engage in various forms of sex work get enough crap as it is.

For those in the know, how would you compare Adonis Lounge vs Buff Boyz in NYC? Which one do you prefer, and why? (I did a search and couldn’t find any prior threads on this. If anyone knows of a prior thread on this topic, please let me know. Thanks.)

An eyeful 😳

Big Ben in “Gone Girl”

I’d miss my flight for this one

From a distance

Adding to the favorable reviews, I recently had my first appointment with Mike, and it was enjoyable. The only downside was afterwards. I like to engage in small talk after a good massage to build more rapport with a service provider. Perhaps because English isn’t his first language, Mike was difficult to engage with. Nevertheless, he’s a good service provider, and I plan on seeing him again in the future. Maybe he’ll loosen up during conversation as he becomes more familiar with me.

Joseph Cannata

Former NFL Player Eric Decker

This album cover

Two more suggestions (1) Consider how much risk you’re willing to take. If you’re risk-averse, stick with providers who have lots of reviews, and reach out to forum members for more details on what to expect. If you’re willing to try a provider who has few or no reviews at all, be alert. Assess quickly if there are any red flags upon meeting him, have an exit strategy if needed, protect your valuables, etc. (Before I discovered this forum, I carried mace with me. Now, I stick to well-reviewed providers.) (2) For appointments in hotels, find out ahead of time if visitors can go directly to guests’ rooms, or if they have to be met by the registered guest. I prefer the former, as I worry about the attention that the latter may attract.

Stunning

Chalky white. Yikes!

WOW! Breathtaking!!!!

At 00:24, he’s starts doing jumping jacks. 🤤

Not sure I’d enjoy accommodating all of that, but it’s certainly nice to look at

I was so tempted to schedule a massage with him, but based on the wording of his ad (I think on Rentmasseur), I was pretty sure that the experience would live up to my unrealistic fantasies. Damn, he’s sexy.

Model Matthew Noszka