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I echo opening up with a massage. In my experience, it’s a great way to relax and ease into the session while still working toward the main event. I also like to massage the provider a bit before diving into things. Doing so allows me to surreptitiously inspect the provider’s body for any suspicious bumps or odors in the groin area that might raise concern (especially during my first time with a provider). It can also help me to build rapport with him, particularly if I work out some of his knots. 🙂 A glass or two of wine — or sometimes a shot of liquor — can fill up time while adding to the ambiance. Just be sure to check that the bottle is unopened and the glasses are clean (again, especially during the first time with a provider).

This is one of my nightmares as well whenever a masseur climbs on the table with me. I’m glad to hear that you’re okay.

I find the knowing “tease” entertaining

Just in case this hasn’t already been posted: Jan Kosto and Malik Delgaty

See his X (Twitter) feed for a preview of his services (seems more escort than masseur) https://x.com/upmatth?s=21 if the link doesn’t work, search for @upmatth on X

His X (Twitter) page offers previews of his services Search for @dntlz If the link below doesn’t work https://x.com/dntlz_?s=21 P.S. — as of 5.24.26, he’s partnered with UpMatth, which you can see on his X feed https://rentmasseur.com/UpMatth

Bumping to see if we can generate some momentum on this. 🤞

Bumping to see if anyone has intel to share. Thanks.

heads-up on the spread of a drug-resistant strand of shigella among queer men https://www.advocate.com/health/sexual-health/what-is-shigella#rebelltitem2

I haven’t completely abandoned hiring, but I don’t do it nearly as often as I used to (so much so that sometimes it feels like I’ve quit). My reasons: The frequency of poor-to-non-existent massage skills (since I primarily stick to masseurs), even from those who’ve received flattering reviews from others on this site The amount of time and effort it takes to “research” new potential providers every time my current go-to moves away, leaves the business, or offers increasingly underwhelming service My growing concerns as I get older about safety (especially with a new provider, given how physically vulnerable we can be as clients) and privacy (again, especially with a new provider) My desire (while there’s still time) for a more fulfilling intimacy with someone who might actually be into me, not my payment for service

Bumping. I, too, am curious about others’ experiences with Mingleo. It sounds like a cool idea, but since the ads I’ve seen have featured conventionally attractive guys in their 30s (and maybe early 40s), I wonder how different (if at all) it is from looks-based hook up apps.

Saw him recently. DM for details if interested.

Bumping 🤞

See the rentmasseur ad for the link to his adult content-oriented Twitter/X account

He used to go by Larrymassageman (and at least one other former alias as well — Leo something). See the thread linked below.

Bumping to see if anyone has checked him out since his recent return to rentmasseur

Sooooooo glad I found this thread before reaching out to him. Thanks, as always, to those who share their insights.

Sharing because I found this interview informative and figured others might learn a thing or two from it as well. The doctor addresses gay men’s experiences with erectile dysfunction, covering physical factors (hormonal and cardiovascular conditions), psychological and emotional factors, cultural factors (politics of sex among gay men), etc.

Bumping to see if anyone else has insights to share. Thanks.

I saw him not too long ago. DM for details.

Bump. Ad is back as of this afternoon, so I’m wondering if anyone has updated experiences to share. Feel free to DM if you’d prefer. Thanks. 🙂

I can offer feedback on Andrewcolombia through DM, but I should also note that my session with him was about two years ago.

See this thread for insights: He uses “Colombia” in his profile name, not “Columbia.” Anyone who searches with the latter might miss out on previous threads.

Since starting this thread, I’ve seen even more provider pics that suggest the use of fillers. I can only imagine the pressure these guys must feel to be as lengthy and girthy as possible, but the long-term effects to their bodies seem like a high cost to pay.

@Charlie, @purplekow, @jeezifonly This thread made me realize that there’s no ❤️ reaction option on CoM threads. My blue thumbs ups are really ❤️