CheckCar

Indeed, things are moving backwards, which is one of the reasons why I find myself thinking about discreet queer spaces and social practices. With so many attacks on lgbtq+ inclusion and rights, queer discretion may become important again as a survival strategy.

I’m happy to hear that things have worked out well for you. 🙂

I’ve become one of those older gay men, although I try to balance my nostalgia for how exciting (and at times liberating) those furtive queer spaces felt with how confining and dangerous they were as well. Given when and how I came of age as a gay man, I probably will always feel some distrust of mainstream straight society, which is why I wish we still had more spaces than we currently do that felt like they belonged just to us.

Any intel will be greatly appreciated. Thanks. BigRomero - Male Escort, Gay massage - New York City | Rent.Men RENT.MEN BigRomero Gay Escort in New York City, New York, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

I wish more forum users exercised this level of discretion. We need to strike a balance between sharing helpful insights with each other and not disclosing so much that we place ourselves at increased risk. I worry that some of us have been lulled into a false sense of security. Given the current administration’s attacks on immigrants, I also worry about the potential convergence of anti-immigrant, anti-queer, and anti-sex surveillance. We need to be thoughtful about what we disclose, where, and with whom. In my experience, fisting porn encourages rather than wards off the homophobes who wanna pathologize our spaces. Sigh….. I long for a time when our spaces belonged to us.

Hulk Hogan Statement on Racist Rant PEOPLE.COM Hulk Hogan's racist rant was just released

Jon Dean, a popular gay male podcaster and social media content creator in the UK, just uploaded a “mini-doc” to YouTube on cruising. In the mini-doc, he spotlights actual cruising sites, making them public for anyone to see. It has been years since I’ve cruised in parks, tearooms, etc. (fun times). But one of the things I remember most is how their success depended on their discretion. As queer mating rituals have moved heavily online, I continue to worry about the exposure of our “underground” practices to those outside of our networks. In fact, I sometimes worry about who accesses this website, given the information we share here. How (if at all) can we protect queer discretion in an age when everything and anything can get exposed to the world?

Ahhhh! I didn’t eve notice that it was a different website. Huge sigh of relief. Thanks for pointing that out.

I just checked Masseurfinder listings in a few cities and was caught off guard. A lot of the guys who used to be there are gone, and there are now a bunch of (cis? trans?) women providers listed. Anyone know what’s going on with the site? When I searched Company of Men for “Masseurfinder,” I of course got tons of threads that include links to ads on the site. Forgive me if I missed a prior thread on this particular topic.

He used to have an X/Twitter account with exhibitionist posts of his body. When I discovered that he had had the enlargement procedure, I oddly—and perhaps unjustly—felt lied to (SMH). But yes, his results look good.

After posting the comment above, I saw the thread below. But having a forum—a separate and easily identifiable section of the site where we can post about specific OF and JFF pages—might be something to still consider. https://www.companyofmen.org/topic/153227-good-and-rip-off-onlyfans/#comment-2487158

We have forums on this site where we can offer heads-up on masseurs and escorts. Perhaps it’s time to add a forum on OnlyFans and JustForFans creators.

The penuma implant

This penis doctor has a YouTube page where he posts videos of his penis enlargement procedures. He rails against fillers and has a few videos in which he removes fillers that have gone bad. I suspect some of the providers I’m thinking of may have gotten a procedure like the one this doctor provides, since his results look like what I’ve seen in some providers’ profile pictures: better than fillers, but still a bit odd-looking to me. Note: Some of the videos are graphic. https://youtube.com/@drtajshow?si=9vqt6eJgfNt0grWx

My concern as well

Thanks!

I’m pretty sure this provider has changed his name. Does anyone remember what it used to be? I’m trying to see if there are prior threads about him. Thanks. BigLeoNYC - Male Escort, Gay massage - New York City | Rent.Men RENT.MEN BigLeoNYC Gay Escort in New York City, New York, available for Gay Escorting,Modeling,Erotic Massage. | Find all the best Male Escorts at Rent.Men

(1) Am I imagining things, or are more providers opting for penis filler injections? I seem to be spotting more and more unnatural-looking penises in providers’ private pics that are unevenly thick—and sometimes a bit lumpy—in the shaft, and the shaft seems to be out of proportion to the tip. (2) If some of these guys are getting the fillers, does “being” with them feel the same, better, or worse? I’ve never been with a provider whose penis looks like the ones I’m describing, so I’m genuinely interested in hearing what the experience is like from those who have. Hopefully responses can be offered in a non-combative tone, since I’m not trying to stir up the knock-down-drag-out arguments that sometimes take over these threads. Thanks in advance.

I saw Ken yesterday for the first time in his new, two-bedroom apartment. It’s bigger and nicer than his former spot, and the second bedroom has been converted into a dark academia-style space where he delivers his massages. I’ve always enjoyed his sensual massages, but the ambiance of his new space made the experience even better than before. He remains at the top of my list of NYC sensual masseurs. DM me if you have questions, since I won’t get into specifics in this thread.

Bumping to see if anyone has tried him yet. Any insights based on firsthand experience with him will be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Anyone with firsthand experience with this provider willing to share insights? JoeyPA - Male Massage & Bodywork in Philadelphia, PA | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur JoeyPA in Philadelphia, PA offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.

He got back to me and informed me that he’s coming to NYC today and will be in the city until mid-June

This provider was in Fort Lauderdale but is now in NYC. Any insights from those with firsthand experience with him will be greatly appreciated. Feel free to DM if you prefer. Thanks! MarcoPoloBig - Male Massage & Bodywork in New York City, NY | RentMasseur RENTMASSEUR.COM Gay Masseur MarcoPoloBig in New York City, NY offering a wide range of massages ⭐ experienced in therapeutic, sensual, swedish, hotStone, deepTissue.

@deegeebos: Thanks for the intel. Also, is it my imagination, or has Sergie also done something to his face? In the Rentmasseur pics, his face looks…. I don’t know, different, modified, odd. I can’t tell if he’s using a filter on his pic or if he has actually modified his face in real life.

Bumping again. Hoping someone has insights to share—here on this post or in DM. Thanks. 🙂