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Thank you!

I’ve seen a few threads on oral tops, but based on some of the responses, I’m not sure if others define that as I do. I’m looking for good tops who also are good at performing oral. Lately, the tops I’ve met either didn’t perform oral (they just received it) or they performed it half-heartedly. I’m particularly interested in guys located between NYC and DC, but since lots of guys travel, I’d welcome suggestions based elsewhere. Any recommendations will be greatly appreciated. Thanks. 🙂

If there are threads on the forum about any of the duds you saw, I hope you’ll add your insights to those threads. We can help each other with a heads-up on inaccurate profile pics, mediocre massage skills, etc. I’m sorry this happened to you. I’ve had similar experiences in the past, mostly (but not solely) prior to my discovery of this forum. It sucks when providers don’t deliver. 😞

The pics in his ad are not of him. He has the same look and body type as the guy in the pictures, just a tad darker complexion.

Bump. Anyone else with firsthand experience to share?

His affect reminds me of people I’ve known with mild Asperger’s. Just an observation, not a judgment.

To be fair, some (maybe even many?) of the guys who are immigrants may have legitimate expenses they are trying cover. I’ve been involved with a few guys in the past from the Caribbean and Latin America who had to survive in an American city with high costs of living while sending money back to their families in their home country. And if they were undocumented, their work options were extremely limited. Ultimately, I passed on Mathianis since I wasn’t ready to pay his high fee. But I want to caution myself against assuming that he’s just greedy and unscrupulous.

Glad I hesitated and got more input from other forum members.

I reached out to him recently for an outcall. First he quoted $600/hour. When I told him that $600 was above my budget, he went down to $500. I quickly realized that he was out of my price range, so I politely told him I’d have to pass. By the time he went down to $350/hour for an in-call, I had already confirmed an outcall with another provider who was in my price range. I’ve never negotiated over a provider’s rate, and I wasn’t trying to do so in this instance (honestly, I was caught off-guard when he started lowering his rate). For those of you who’ve had good experiences with Mathianis, would you say that the experience is worth the higher rate? I might give him a try if I knew that he offered something special that the $300/hour providers don’t.

I saw him this week in NYC. Charming guy, great experience. Will definitely repeat if I can catch him when he’s traveling in the northeast.

Thank you to those who posted positive remarks about Jorge. I just had my first massage session with him, and it certainly will not be my last.

Same!

or popping Ibuprofen all day!

Can anyone suggest good providers who are medium-sized? Like in the 6-to-7 inch range? The superhung, while delightful to look at, have become increasingly difficult for me to accommodate in my (cough, cough) middle age. 😔 Any suggestions, particularly in the I-95 corridor, would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.

Bumping. Hopefully someone has firsthand experience to share.

Red flag. Thanks for sharing.

Bump. Anyone with firsthand experience?

Bump. Anyone with firsthand experience?

Bumping. Anyone meet this gentleman yet?

Each one of us needs to decide what he is comfortable with. I’m risk-averse; hence, I’m continuing to avoid travel. I’m not preachy about it, but I’m also not ashamed of it. Regardless of the range of perspectives on this thread, you (OP) must figure out what works for you.

Does anyone know what his former RM profile name may have been? I’m pretty sure I’ve seen his pics before, but possibly under a different profile name.

He’s been on Rent men since Nov 21 but I can’t find anything about him in the forum. Does anyone have firsthand insights they’re willing to share? Any intel will be greatly appreciated. Thanks. https://rent.men/KinkyBoyNYC

Wow, that was fast!!

Yikes. Maybe return to him in a few months after he has a better sense of the market.

Never mind. Found it.