Ray

Saw Carlos at Gman Spa yesterday and I was not disappointed.  While it was more of a body rub, there were fun elements mixed in. And, while ymmv, it was a really fun time.  Left happy.  
He is a compact, muscular guy with tattoos, doesn’t speak much English.
 

Ask for what you want to fulfill your fantasy. A good provider will lean into the dynamic you want. If he can’t entertain it, keep asking others until you find the right one.

This, plus his ad states that he offers erotic massage. Multiple name changes are a big red flag too. Seems like a scammer. I did take notice of the last line in his ad:
 
“PS. Also available BOYFRIEND EXPERINCE [sic] without intimacy.” WTF is that?? Just taking him out to dinner, buying him things and listening to the same stories repeatedly without any sex happening? You can get a real ”boyfriend” to do all that without having to pay by the hour.

This is 100% false. People carrying and transmitting the virus may be asymptomatic or pre-symptomatic. Stop spreading disinformation.

It is both extremely risky - and highly irresponsible - to be giving or getting massages presently. We have a societal obligation to refrain until the rate of new infections has dropped to very low levels, or even zero. That is the harsh reality of our present world.

Masturbation is your friend right now. Rely on the spank bank of beautiful gems locked in your memory. This, too, my friends, shall pass.

Outstanding post!!!
 
Also very revealing. The fact that this good looking guy has been literally body shamed, for gaining a few pounds ultimately disgusts me.
 
What disgusts me more is that many of the people who are critical of his minimal weight gain, are probably the same hipocrites who cry “body fascism, ageism, and complain about the shallowness of men”, when they are on the receiving end of criticism.
 
Ironically, this man has probably been such a success, by providing massage services to a wide variety of clientele, even some who may be “chunky”, “out of shape”, or “not the prototype”, and for this, what he gets in return is a bunch of critiques from people who have the convenience of hiding their looks and bodies behind the anonymity of a user profile.
 
I hope this thread builds his client base significantly. I plan to book an appointment with him in the near future, just because.

Wow. Incredibly ignorant and racist. @Guy Fawkes perhaps you can take a look here and see if this should stand.

What in the actual fuck does that even mean, dude?

Just had a great time with Alex. I think many of the complaints about him demonstrate how frustrating these encounters can be for both sides when expectations are not balanced. If Alex were advertising on Rent.men and providing the same service then sure, I could understand someone's disappointment. But Alex is advertising on Masseurfinder, and in my opinion, he delivers. For anyone to try to force more than a massage out of him and then complain about it is being unfair.
 
We discussed my expectation prior to meeting and he was professional, super friendly, and an absolute pleasure to talk to. Let me reiterate. He is nice, if you respect him and allow him to provide what he advertises. He told me stories that made me laugh, all while receiving a relaxing massage from a very HOT straight guy who made me feel like he genuinely enjoys his job, and in that moment, my company. He was not rude, he was not cold. He exceeded my expectation in man ways because I did not ask him to give me something that he never agreed to in the first place.
 
He set his own boundary and then just as easily lifted it to his comfort level, after getting a sense of me and following the "feeling", taking the session exactly where he wanted to and that was my only request. This is what we describe wanting from strictly therapeutic sessions in spas all the time! Wishing that a relaxing massage might cross into a more sensual and arousing experience, but never demanding or forcing the moment. That's disrespectful. I left pleased, satisfied, and pleasantly suprised because I allowed him to do his job and did not expect him to be something he does not claim. This is how a professional like him has been able to stay in business despite a few bad reviews. Thanks Alex!

Leo has a rent.men link.
 
https://rent.men/Leo_guy

Leo has a rent.men link.
 
https://rent.men/Leo_guy

Thanks! That helps a lot.

The handheld sprayer gets a workout in every shower I take :-)

Rude replies don't really help anyone but they do create a toxic atmosphere. I asked a simple question, "PAL."
 
I thought the rule about identities only applied to information about other users. "2. No personal information may be posted about other posters. This includes all information that could identify a person, including photographs and other images. Personal information that an individual has publicly provided may be allowed in some cases. But we ask you to always err on the side of respecting the others who come here and those who are the subject of discussion here."
 
But there's also a definite rule about being a dick on the forum: "1. Attacks against other people are not allowed. Personal attacks stifle discussion and create an atmosphere that discourages many people from joining us. We want all people to feel welcome here and welcome to state their opinions. Those who come here for advice or assistance should be treated with respect. You are free to criticize the opinions of other people at will. But please do not attack, insult or disparage others themselves; all are worthy of respect, even those with whom we disagree."
 
Anyway ... ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

But the larger point is that even if some of these men reciprocate after the fact, your description makes absolutely clear that none of them consent to the initial contact that you've initiated solely for your own sexual gratification. This retroactive consent that you believe you're receiving from the few men who reciprocate does not excuse your initial unrequested touching of all of these men. This isn't a special context like a bathhouse, darkroom, or other cruising spot where everyone is there looking for some sort of sexual experience and it's understood by all that bodily contact generally replaces verbal communication. What you're doing is wrong.