big dale

If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.

If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.

https://www.masseurfinder.com/massage-therapists/14229/
 
And he also has started just trolling Scruff and offering services to people directly.

If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.

If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.

*BUMP*

If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.

If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.

If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.

If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.

If not for his passion about this subject we wouldn't be here on this forum today. He will be missed.

I am saddened. I am one who also never met him but he, and his sites, have played a significant role in the later years of my life journey. I hope there is way for his life’s work to continue. It will hurt even more if all the vast information put together in the 10’s of thousands of conversation threads in this forum are lost.

I met Midwest_guy recently, he looks like his pix, nice guy. he lives in a well organized, clean one bedroom apartment, the massage table is set up in his bedroom. I took the $160 sesual massage which I enjoyed (don't think he was professionally trained, light touch). Anyway I might repeat, but will not be a regular.

If this is all new-agey healing with no happy ending, I’ll be disappointed. So, any intel?

Masseur is making booty sales-calls to me.
Fixed that headline for ya. Don't get it twisted.

Hahaha, I work in a lab so my job has been unaffected. Honestly, I had half a mind of posting some pictures of myself here, were it not that it's such a hassle to do so (because I'd have to upload them elsewhere and then link back here).

Hahahaha, omg, this had me howling! Thanks for the laugh

Thank you so much for this very thoughtful response. It has been very helpful in helping me assess and adress the situation. I really, really appreciate it!! It helped me a lot!

I don't know where you guys are getting this from. From the masseurs (the professionally trained who only offer masseur services) I have spoken to, they were unanimous that giving massages is way easier for them than sex. Because they can give a great massage to anyone, regardless of looks, whereas fucking someone they can't. Now, for guys who are mainly escorts and offer massage on the side, I would agree, but for guys who are masseurs who sometimes do more with clients, I have not found this to be true at all.

Not gonna lie. I enjoyed it when one masseur gave me a hj ending this way. As he was stroking me, he noticed me getting close so he stopped touching me. He said “Nope. You can’t, not yet,” leaving my tool so stiff and throbbing. And he just teased me more with his fingers lightly brushing my feet to my balls and gave me a release minutes later. It was an unexpected sensual massage finish that I still crave for up to now. 90% of the time with him was a therapeutic, legit massage. So the ending really blew me away.
 
But back to your point, Idk why I am so horny to be controlled that way, but it really excites me when that happens! Lol

HIV aside, when you have sex you have to realize that "regular" STIs are just something you have to deal with. I would personally never do oral sex with a dental dam. I recognize that some STIs can be transmitted orally. Solution? Do regular throat swabs to catch anything early. Also get the HPV vaccine.
 
There's even stuff like giardia which people generally don't think about when talking about STIs.

lol....i recently bought some cheap oven mitts that caught on fire from high heat, so i may be brand-conscious now too

I realize this thread is very old, but let's be clear... the title of this thread gets it ALL WRONG. The opposite of "safe" is not "bare", it is "unsafe". Bare still means unsafe. Even with PrEP.
 
PrEP will protect you from HIV, but it doesn't give you any protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Using a condom is the best way to prevent other STIs such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes, and hepatitis C.

I realize this thread is very old, but let's be clear... the title of this thread gets it ALL WRONG. The opposite of "safe" is not "bare", it is "unsafe". Bare still means unsafe. Even with PrEP.
 
PrEP will protect you from HIV, but it doesn't give you any protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Using a condom is the best way to prevent other STIs such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes, and hepatitis C.

I realize this thread is very old, but let's be clear... the title of this thread gets it ALL WRONG. The opposite of "safe" is not "bare", it is "unsafe". Bare still means unsafe. Even with PrEP.
 
PrEP will protect you from HIV, but it doesn't give you any protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Using a condom is the best way to prevent other STIs such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes, and hepatitis C.

Masseur is making booty sales-calls to me.
Fixed that headline for ya. Don't get it twisted.

I realize this thread is very old, but let's be clear... the title of this thread gets it ALL WRONG. The opposite of "safe" is not "bare", it is "unsafe". Bare still means unsafe. Even with PrEP.
 
PrEP will protect you from HIV, but it doesn't give you any protection against sexually transmitted infections (STIs). Using a condom is the best way to prevent other STIs such as gonorrhea, chlamydia, herpes, and hepatitis C.

Masseur is making booty sales-calls to me.
Fixed that headline for ya. Don't get it twisted.