Gar1eth

In a parallel dimension that is far and yet somehow still paradoxically near to our own ... on a planet called Terra Firma in that dimension, which is both like and yet again so completely different from our own beloved Earth, evil from that world's Starbucks is BREWING!!! (Cue the spooky music....)
 
 
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Gman
 
 

Personally, I don't see what the fuss is all about.
 
 

 
Gman

So typical:
 

 
TruHart1

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Personally, I don't see what the fuss is all about.
 
 

 
Gman

Personally, I don't see what the fuss is all about.
 
 

 
Gman

Personally, I don't see what the fuss is all about.
 
 

 
Gman

Personally, I don't see what the fuss is all about.
 
 

 
Gman

My own personal preference and experience is that kissing is paired with cuddling. Without kissing and cuddling you are left with the mechanical aspects of sex/massage.
 
I'd agree with WisconsinGuy that kissing is a blend of emotions and sexual sensations. It serves as the wrapper, ribbon and bow of the entire package of the experience.

I love long kissing sessions with both men and women. I can't imagine an intimate act such as having sex without locking lips at the beginning, middle, and post-coitus.
 
My most recent hire was such a good kisser that I had to rush to finish because all I wanted to do was keep kissing.

Since I have no experience with multiple hires, I am fortunate that my regular does enjoy kissing. From the soft brushing past of each others lips, to more passionate mutual "deep" kissing. For me, kissing is a blend of emotions and sexual sensations. That kiss, after not seeing each for a time, pulls everything together for me. It's a big part that drew me to him, and one of the reasons he remains exclusive to me. WG2

It all depends on what a client wants/needs from a session. As I said earlier in this thread, I've refused hiring some really hot guys because they didn't kiss. Kissing for me is part of sex just like topping or oral is. While I like to cum as much as the next guy (or maybe I don't since my libido is on the low side these days), but my preferred method to cum is while at the same time passionately kidding my partner-or my partner passionately kissing me. If I don't have that, it feels like something is missing-kind of like if I end up masturbating and cuming without being totally hard. In fact that happened yesterday-and it just wasn't that enjoyable.
 
A former frequent Forum poster used to frequently say "De gustibus non est disputandum" (in matters of taste there can be no disputes). If you don't need passionate kissing to have a good time with an escort, that's great. But some of us do. In my case I wouldn't knowingly hire an escort who didn't like to kiss anymore than I'd hire an escort who hated bottoming because that doesn't fit in with my likes.
 
Gman

It all depends on what a client wants/needs from a session. As I said earlier in this thread, I've refused hiring some really hot guys because they didn't kiss. Kissing for me is part of sex just like topping or oral is. While I like to cum as much as the next guy (or maybe I don't since my libido is on the low side these days), but my preferred method to cum is while at the same time passionately kidding my partner-or my partner passionately kissing me. If I don't have that, it feels like something is missing-kind of like if I end up masturbating and cuming without being totally hard. In fact that happened yesterday-and it just wasn't that enjoyable.
 
A former frequent Forum poster used to frequently say "De gustibus non est disputandum" (in matters of taste there can be no disputes). If you don't need passionate kissing to have a good time with an escort, that's great. But some of us do. In my case I wouldn't knowingly hire an escort who didn't like to kiss anymore than I'd hire an escort who hated bottoming because that doesn't fit in with my likes.
 
Gman

There's a scene from the late 1980's comedy Cheers where Carla the barmaid's ex husband-a sleazy guy named Nick Tortelli-supposedly has this magic power over women. Diane the educated know-it-all, who is slumming as a barmaid, is repulsed by Nick. At the end of one episode, he motions to Diane and says he wants to whisper into her ear. She starts out skeptical, and then almost faints. I thought the scene was funny. But I had no experience to relate it to until almost 20 years later. And when I did finally have some experience and many times since, I've felt like
 

 
Gman

There's a scene from the late 1980's comedy Cheers where Carla the barmaid's ex husband-a sleazy guy named Nick Tortelli-supposedly has this magic power over women. Diane the educated know-it-all, who is slumming as a barmaid, is repulsed by Nick. At the end of one episode, he motions to Diane and says he wants to whisper into her ear. She starts out skeptical, and then almost faints. I thought the scene was funny. But I had no experience to relate it to until almost 20 years later. And when I did finally have some experience and many times since, I've felt like
 

 
Gman

This has all been discussed long ago, Wolfer. But I agree with you. It's very hard for me to have sex without kissing. But there are posters (clients) right here in River City, errrr I mean this Forum, who aren't particularly 'into' kissing also because it does nothing for them. For me-I'm in the camp of it helping make me hard.
 
I've passed up meeting some incredible looking escorts because they didn't kiss. One in the past was Jason Land. He was blond, muscular, all-American looks-one my favorite types of guys.
 
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Jason told me he didn't like to kiss. But I'm pretty sure he classified himself as gay.
 
More recently I didn't meet with Trenton Ducati who while he kissed in his porn videos doesn't kiss clients while escorting.
 
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Even if the client is attractive, I doubt that kissing is going to lead to the escort falling in love with the client. And if the client likes the escort, he could probably fall in love whether they kiss or not.
 
I'm sure there are multiple reasons for not kissing. In most cases unless the person isn't into kissing I'm sure it's a boundary issue. While having sex seems pretty intimate, most tallywackers and butts are fairly interchangeable. Yes, some will be longer, smaller, larger-but they don't give you the 'essence' of the person. Ahhh but the face, that's the external seat of personality. It's what makes you, you. Not kissing is a way for the escort to be less involved. I've heard of couples-escort/escort and escort/non-escort who reserve kissing as something special in their relationship that they don't share with clients.
 
Gman

There's a scene from the late 1980's comedy Cheers where Carla the barmaid's ex husband-a sleazy guy named Nick Tortelli-supposedly has this magic power over women. Diane the educated know-it-all, who is slumming as a barmaid, is repulsed by Nick. At the end of one episode, he motions to Diane and says he wants to whisper into her ear. She starts out skeptical, and then almost faints. I thought the scene was funny. But I had no experience to relate it to until almost 20 years later. And when I did finally have some experience and many times since, I've felt like
 

 
Gman

Ah, wow, this actually makes sense to me... Yes, the face is where we are the most personal. Bodies are interchangeable to a certain extent. But then to me involvement and intimacy are cornerstones of good escort services. 

Yeah, this one always reeked of bullshit to me. To me it just seems again like a way of self delusion to hide inner shame or guilt about behaviour or types of relationships they're not completely comfortable with having or doing. 

Ahah! So I was misinterpreting it! No, they don't need to go to the back of my throat. I think one escort did that and I didn't like it one bit. But stick their tongue completely in my mouth? Yes, please! 

You and I are not so different, Gman. I'm also not a fan of the spitting, as in I'm like "EW DON'T DO THAT". And until last week I thought I had not a single erogenous zone on my body until a beefy latino took charge of me and worked my ears, neck and back into ecstacy.

It's a deal breaker for me. No Kissing = No Hiring

Mostly a condom site, some BB videos, but mostly condoms. Though a lot of the guys on there do BB porn too.

he isn't actually measuring it the right way, but what's an inch or two among friends (with benefits).....(the correct way is along the very top of the dick and not pushing the tape measure into the body)

I opened my first Spanish textbook an the first day of my HS freshman year. And found a list of English to Spanish curse words and phrases that had been overlooked by the school staff. That list is all I remember.

You are right Gman but there were innies and outies then, too.

No, Gman, don't know why that is. As you said, there are some singers who don't slide into a North American accent, and others who don't do it in all their numbers. It's not limited to the ones you've listed, regional US accents tend to be 'normalised' too.

Nope, but my nipples are like this:
 
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