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I'm gay-in case anyone had any doubts. Large lips on a woman do nothing for me-actually large lips on a man don't do a lot for me either. I hope it's not an expression of dislike for myself as my lips are on the larger side. (For a possible medical explanation -see below). But a reel popped up on FB-with two women. And I was just struck by how much I disliked the thicker lips. So I thought I'd ask-which do y'all like better? I prefer the picture on the left. Ok medical time for those who might be vaguely interested. It's possible my lips were going to be on the thicker side naturally, but--- I had a bad overbite as a child. They determined it was due to a tongue thrust. My tongue wasn't in the correct position in my mouth. Where the normal tongue arches up and hits the cavity in the roof of the mouth, mine somehow made more of a u-shape. The back portion I think was up, the middle portion was down like the 'u' and then the tip pressed against the back of the teeth on top with enough force that my upper jaw had moved forward. Before I could get braces they said I needed myofunctional therapy (tongue therapy) otherwise once the headgear and braces were off everything would go back to the way it had been. I probably saw the myofunctional therapist for over a year. She had her own office One of the exercises I did was to -I suppose strengthen my lips. It was called Tug-of-War. There was a string. On each end of the string was a button. I would put one of the buttons in my mouth -behind my lips but in front of my teeth. Then I would close my lips tightly. Someone (often myself) would then pull on the string making the button pop out of my mouth. Or possibly two people could play. (I was 11 and 12. I don't remember exactly). And a person could put the button on the other end into their mouth. And we'd pull against each other. So voila -lip resistance training. It's probably the most resistance training I've ever done and also the one with the most effect.

I'll admit I'm Santa-figured, and you can't see mine. That might be natural. But mine wasn't visible even when I was skinnier as a teenager or young man. Along with that my voice is on the higher side. I even have trouble intentionally speaking in a low (as in tone not volume ) voice. Come to think of it, I may have trouble speaking in a low volume too. I'm told my voice carries. Add in a bit of hearing loss, and well, you can guess the result. 😝 But what says the Message Center-how's your Apple -prominent or not-and speaking voice-low or high?

That's what I thought. But the slow cooker has a definite frozen meat mode with a temp probe. I don't understand why a major company would blatantly disregard a USDA advisory on that. Aside from anything else, it seems it would leave them open to possible lawsuits if someone became ill because of it.

Three dates before sex!!! Funny straight people!!

What is the Irish Curse-sunburning instead of tanning?

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The link in the first post worked for me. https://rent.men/japanesebro The guy has a great physique. But in his ad, he puts 'Muscular'. To my mind he looks more 'Athletic," but then again I'm not the Official Physique Term Decider although I'd like to be. 😝😝

@LukePhx I've always thought you were incredibly handsome. I narrowly missed hiring you back in 2011 when we both happened to be in Las Vegas at the same time-much to my persistent regret. I will also have to agree with @maninsoma about the tongue pictures. I don't think they do a lot for you. If it were me, this is the one I'd choose as my main picture. It shows how handsome you are-and then leads me to wanting more.

Is that like 'Bump'?

The last one went so well-let's try Jim Slade-former boyfriend of Chris Steele A story about him... As I've related both in the past and recently I lost my virginity at the age of 41 right around October 2002. After that I was in a training program and not making a lot of money. But I had a bit of money from a previous job and started hiring occasionally. I was living in Cincinnati at the time. But my training program ended abruptly-and I was looking for a new job. I managed to get a paid for interview in Temple, I wasn't thrilled at the idea of living in Temple because the population was only around 55,000. But on the good side Austin was only an hour away. Plus it would get me back to Texas-and my parents were in the Dallas area about 150 miles away. I can't remember how I got there as Temple doesn't have a major airport. I might have driven in from Austin. In any case at some point I had a rental car. I had the interview -it went meh- But I was really horny. I looked at Hooboy and Rentboy all the time. And I love muscular guys. I can't tell you how many times I looked at Jim Slade's ad. And the fact that he was in my hometown of Dallas just made it better. I was determined to meet him. So I contacted him-but he was in Dallas 150 miles away. But I had to see him. I didn't knew when else I would have the chance. So I have the interview. They take me out to dinner that night. I probably get back to the hotel around 9 pm. I change out of my finery. And I drive to the 150 or so miles to Dallas. We meet at Club Dallas. It was my first time in a bathhouse. But I wasn't going to meet random guys. I was there specifically for Jim. I remember being so nervous being inside that place. But it didn't have the dark and dingy vibe a lot of them do. I had rented a deluxe private room. I waited in the inside lobby for him. This was before texting. Every time someone entered I was wondering if it would be him, or if I would recognize him. When he finally showed up, there was no problem recognizing him. He looked just like his ad. We got inside the room. He had an incredibly hard body. He was the most built guy I and been with at point-but I had probably only been with 3 to 5 guys at that point. He was maybe not the most personable guy I was ever with-but that may have been my nerves-hiring was still very new to me at that point. After we finished our business-I still wanted to be around him. So I asked him if he were hungry. And we ended up at an IHOP. After we finished breakfast, I had to drive the 150 miles back to Temple. They were having a realtor come by and show me the city. I think I made it back around an hour or so before she was to pick me up. She arrived while I was showering. But I was so tired. I could barely stay awake while she showed my the city. I was so glad when the tour ended. I didn't end up getting the job. But on a plus note aside from meeting Jim Slade, my parents drove down from Dallas to Waco (about a 40 minute drive for me from Temple and a 2 hour drive for them from Dallas). I met them there. We toured the Dr. Pepper Museum and had lunch. (Dr. Pepper was invented in Waco https://drpeppermuseum.com) Shortly thereafter Jim moved away from Dallas and quit advertising. So I'm glad I had the opportunity to meet him when I did. But I've always wondered WEHT him.

I saw a post on his Instagram. He was 19, walked into the Joe Weider Building, and said, "I want to be in the magazine." The next day they were putting him in a feature.

Va Va Va Voom!!

And now returning from the hijack to our thread -- Thanks -with yours and @ProGay's comments, I was able to find his Instagram when I wouldn't have known what to look for without them. I'd say there's a good chance he is in Denton which is, I believe, where he's from. Why so negative? He looks great to me albeit not 24 year old Mark Dalton great. If he's managed to put his life together, that's a very good thing.

While he's no longer 25, he still looks great. I hope he's managed to get his life together. I'm not surprised since he's straight. (I'm hijacking the thread here. But since it's my thread, I give myself permission). I did that once -hire a gay-4-pay guy. He was a really muscular surfer dude/ physical trainer from Florida. He had long -oily hair. But as I think back he really wasn't very gay-4-pay, he was mainly just straight. There was only one main problem I had with him during the entire weekend hire. I only found out during the drive from the airport to the hotel that he was basically straight . Of course under that main problem there were lots of little problems. He'd kiss (a little). I can't remember if he performed oral or just gave me handjobs. At one point he said he would attempt to bottom. But I was so disgusted by things at that point that I never even tried. Funny thing was throughout the weekend he kept asking me if I were having a good time. I'd think to myself "yeah for being with a straight guy." I remember asking him why he listed he was into so much (like bottoming) if he weren't. He actually said it was to get more clients. So I guess honesty is the best policy. Remember you heard it here first, folks. On the other hand a muscular non-straight guy I had a weekend with was Matt Miller. My weekend with him was 90% perfect. He was an incredibly nice guy. The main problem with him was he was in a bulking phase, and I was expecting him to be ripped. That was disappointing. Also there was about a 30 minute showing of a really unpleasant mood (which was a bit worrisome considering his muscularity ) which he later attributed to hypoglycemia. And it may very well have been as he was fine after I found us a steakhouse for dinner.

Reading about Chris Duffy made me think of other muscle guys from years ago. Did you mean he didn't do many films, or didn't do a lot in the films he was in? In either case it was probably because he was straight. Did it mention where? He was formerly located in Dallas. ?????!!!!!!!!!🤨🤨🤨

He used to text me occasionally like once every other year or so -but I haven't heard from him in a while, and he hasn't responded to my once a year texts for a while. So it's sad. But they are nice memories.

I know he went to jail a few times. But I don't know anything after that.

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I'm not overly fond of Reese's. Don't get me wrong. My Santa Claus bod will def eat multiple pieces at a time if offered. But they aren't something I'd usually choose on my own. I'd be much more likely to pick them if they had some caramel thrown in the mix.

Meatloaf had an album about getting semi lucky on a first date?🤔🤔

I believe it was. In this case she knew he was gay beforehand. A spiritualist of some type told her that he was her soulmate. I guess I'm just too conventional. My intellectual side says as long as they are happy and not hurting anyone. But my emotional side says this is bananas. In this case I know my intellectual side is most likely right. But he still hasn't convinced my emotional side. Maybe this link will work. https://www.washingtonpost.com/style/trends/2025/10/09/mixed-orientation-lavender-marriage/

Will you let me get to first base?

I'd never heard of either of them. Mr. Fouts was nice looking. He has a Paul Newman look to him. (As an aside-I thought Mr. Newman was handsome-but my Mom really liked him). But going by how slender his arms are in this photo, he was much too skinny for me to be interested in. I'm assuming this isn't the Gary Ware you're talking about, is it?m Gary Ware - Wikipedia EN.WIKIPEDIA.ORG

I don't remember it. And if it was in the masseur section, I probably didn't even see it. Was it an over 10 year discrepancy? If you repost it, I'll make sure to gasp rhis time.

I even being gay, I'm too much of a traditionalist. But apparently there are more things in heaven and earth.... Let me know if you can't open the article, and I'll try another link. He’s gay. She’s straight. They’re happily married. APPLE.NEWS Meet the couples who are redefining what it means to be in a relationship, including those in gay-straight and...