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Please don't roll your eyes at one of my boyhood crushes @Vulgarii While I had many besides Mr Gautier, he was a legitimate hunk in his day. I'm sure I'm not the only gay male to think so.

I've heard of T-socials . But weren't those actual dance parties or something? At first I thought you meant the line was there for sex. Then I realized you meant guys needs to use the installed facility. "Walking" or "Wanking"?

It's ok but I prefer Art-and while difficult to know-I don't think it's my natural gay inclination toward males at work-was never really attracted to Art or Paul.

Strangely enough young Gman was more attracted to a later version of Mr Gautier (I'm not sure I remembered him being Hymie at that point). But nowadays I'm more attracted to his earlier look as Hymie. The chief never did anything for me. But I have been with some very nice looking bald guys such as Ray Stone. The child -Randy Gautier-who later on had a short career as a porn actor named Austin Moore was vaguely cute as a teenager, but I won't post a picture of him as a teen (it's easy to find a family photo of him, Dick, and Dick's wife at the time Barbara Stuart (aka Bunny on Gomer Pyle, USMC)). But he grew into his looks as an adult. Per that fount of all knowledge Wikipedia, he was one of the ones who stole Tommy Lee and Pam Anderson's sex tape. I'm not very familiar with Bye Bye Birdie. I don't think I've ever seen the movie-actually I think I have seen a few bits and pieces of it. I didn't remember he was Conrad. He was kind of an early day Arthur Fonzarelli.

What is a T-room? When I was either in high school or college-1979 or early 80's, Texas Monthly had some kind of article about 'gays.' I still wasn't sure (or more likely was just lying to myself.) But as I recall the article stated that the 1st floor men's bathroom next to the elevator at the JCPenney's (my city only had one Penney's) was a known cruising spot. I went to the mall one afternoon or evening and watched the bathroom for a small bit of time, but nothing happened. Instead it took me until October 2002 for my first sexual experience ever with my first hire.

Paul and Art would know!!

Young Gman was quite smitten with this hunk.

I kinda doubt all those ideas since he was only going in there to do non-sexual business

At least in the past, he's also been on Rentmen. And searching his name, there was note of a thread (that I can't find) that people took as a warning to stay away from. It's sad because the guy is really great looking. And if he provided good service, his clients would have been ecstatic. Addendum-here's his RM ad. He's got 20 reviews. And all but 1 or 2 have rated him 5 stars. I haven't gone thru to see if they look like real profiles though. So I wonder if he's hit and miss or a total scammer. Axil - Pornstar Performer, Rentboy, Gay Massage in Houston, TX | RentMen RENTMEN.EU Pornstar Performer & Rentboy in Houston, TX - Axil: CUM AND CELEBRATE MY BDAY WITH ME...

I was just thinking about longtime frequent posters and noticed @bigjoey hasnt been on since April. I hope he's still with us.

Could you expound on this as have no idea what you're talking about? "Chat" here on the Forum-or are you talking about some kind of "Chat" on RM, or a "Chat" somewhere else? The man was gorgeous. I would wonder even if he looks older, assuming he's kept in shape, whether he looks really distinguished. I always thought he was straight. Although after thinking about it, just being straight wouldn't prevent him from having a sugar daddy. Gosh-I so would have liked to have hired him in his heyday. The only things that really stopped me were-1) I was fairly sure he was straight. And while I might have accidentally hired some straight guys unknowingly (I know did once, and it wasn't a great experience), about the only known ahead of time straight guy I came semi close to hiring was (and I can't remember his name) was the guy in Philadelphia who advertised for years-that guy even admitted he was married on his ad and that his wife knew about his escorting -although I think I called or emailed Leo Giamani at one point too; 2) I got the feeling he wasn't really into kissing, and just as important 3) Jeremy advertised as a strict top-and that was never going to fly as I'm a top too. All of those same points went for why I never seriously tried to hire Leo Giamani too.

How did you find his LinkedIn account? You must have mad detective skills.

¿primless?🤔🤔🤔 May I ask how did they target him? Was he wearing something obvious like a Gay Pride t-shirt?

His profile says expired.

Do you have a link?

Sorry to interject. But the phrase, "what life is really all about" seemed very familiar to me -other than it being a popular phrase. Then I remembered this. It's at 2:34 in case anyone is interested.

There is also the fact that @sailortom55 has just joined, and only has two posts to his (screen)name -both about Mr. Fit. Now it all may be totally innocent. All of us were noobs at one time or another. But it's something to keep in mind.

This is the guy's profile I should remark that his picture seems to be of a guy much heavier than 225 as he has very pendulous breasts. I mean I'm heavier than he is, and my breasts don't hang like that yet. But I guess it's possible for weight to distribute differently on different people And this is our conversation. According to the app, he was last active one minute before my last reply. My texts are in brown.

Well after not answering all yesterday and not answering to a few texts today-before I had chance to rant at him-he just texted and said he had Covid. So if true, not an &hole after all, and if a lie, he finally figured out how to get me to stop texting-although he could have just blocked me.

Several times lately on Growlr guys whose profiles don't show mileage or list a city have texted me. During the conversation they ask "where I'm from." But I have my city listed ( or at least a close suburb -it's where I used to live, and it's fairly close to where I am now) and my mileage. So why are these guys asking my location? I almost always read a guy's profile to see the information before contacting them. Are they not reading the profile and just going by pictures? Or are they fake accounts of some type? What is the consensus of the Forum?

Well I know I shouldn't. But later today I'm going to text the ghoster from an alternate phone number of mine (in case he's blocked my original number). I'm not going to curse. I'm just going to say he Is obviously not as much of a stand-up guy as I thought after ghosting me.

My Dad used to call his shaving kit a dap kit (so do my brother and I). I've run across people who have no idea what I mean when I say it. An older friend once told me it was a military-possibly naval-term. For those not on PrEP and trying to play safe-I don't think coconut oil is safe for latex condoms. I'd never pack lube without putting it in a baggie of some type --although come to think of it-currently it is in a small chest in my trunk in a flimsy Walmart bag. But in myvluggage it would definitely be ziplocked or the equivalent.

I shouldn't have gone to the trouble to look him up. We texted off and on for several hours yesterday. He wanted me to come over last night. But I had just eaten a big pasta meal and was bloated. He said yesterday he might be free after 1 PM today to meet. I told him I'd be up at 10 AM. I text him at 10 to say good morning. I hear nothing back. I text again at around 5 pm and 7:30 pm. And still nothing. This is ridiculous. He's the one who contacted me 1st. All he had to say-whether it was truth or a lie that work got too busy. Instead he's ghosted. Aside from being gay or bisexual, I wonder if he was unreliable to his former wife. Too bad I can't pick her brain. It's just upsetting as not that many people are interested in me. And he said he was. And I could have gone for him. Plus in our first talks -he even said it would be nice to make a friend even if we weren't compatible for more intimate things. ☹️☹️☹️

Is he wearing mascara?