Gar1eth

On the old site I could cut and paste quotes manually to point out exactly what I was referring to. The quotes still ended up in quote boxes. But I don't know how to do that on this new site. But since I don't I'll just have to ask 1. What exactly do you mean by Peruvian? 2. It's probably me. But I'm confused. Toward the end you say 'be wary' of what I think you are talking about less well-known or less expensive escorts. But then it sounds as if you are advising us to keep them in kind for hiring. When you first put 'wary,' I was thinking you were going to advise us to avoid them. If you are saying, we should think about giving them a try-did you mean more 'be alert' to them.

I was-am a solitary guy. I was a virgin until I was 41. My first time was with an escort (I am very grateful to him for being so patient with me. He even had to teach me how to kiss). After that for years my only outlet was with escorts. I can't remember my first non-escort sex. It's possible it didn't occur until was 47 or so. Prior to that I had feelings that needed to be satisfied. And those 2 hour meetings were how I accomplished it.

It definitely was. And the strange thing if I'm recalling correctly, the guy asked me several times if I was having fun. I'd think to myself-sure for spending time with a straight guy-it's ok. I wonder if he felt guilty.

I didn't talk to him. That was just from looking at his ad.

In another thread someone spoke of a provider in NYC charging $500/hr. I know that's not abnormal now, but---- Gosh!! $500 per hour-I don't see how y'all do it. Before my involuntary retirement 13 or so years ago, I hired fairly frequently-often a few times a week when I wasn't busy. But at least once every two to three weeks. It seems to me that I could usually get 2 hours for around $350 to $450. On top of that, I'd schedule semi frequent weekends every few months for Friday to Monday if I could get away with it for around $2500 (and even if we stayed local, we'd be at a hotel-so add in cost of hotel, dining out, activities, plane flights for the escort, and miscellaneous) If I were still working, I'm going to assume I would have a low 6 figure salary. But even with that I just can't see that I'd be hiring as frequently as I was accustomed to. My preference was for two hour meetings. I just can't imagine plopping down $1000 weekly for fun time. On top of that, I never hosted at home. So there'd be hotel fees on top of that if the guy didn't host. So as salaries don't seem to have risen as fast as escort fees, I'm thinking even if I were able to hire, my hiring would be sharply curtailed compared to what I was used to. I'm just in awe that so many of y'all can afford to hire as often as you do.

I guess I'm the odd one out (wouldn't be the first time). For me as a top (back when I was hiring), listing 'Ask Me' for position -and possibly also as orientation-would make me more inclined to skip the guy unless I thought he was so handsome I just had to check. In fact in many cases I'd be using the search function with inputs of bottom, versatile, top/versatile. So I'd never see the 'Ask Me' ads to begin with.

He claims to be straight unfortunately. If you plan to meet, just make extra sure he's into what you like. Years ago I hired a guy off of Rentboy for a weekend. He was a tall, muscular surfer dude-ish kind of guy from Florida. He was muscular but maybe more of a basketball player physique. I believe he worked as a personal trainer. He advertised that he was into just about everything that Rentboy listed. What he didn't say in his ad was that he was straight. On the way from the airport to the hotel, he was saying something about a woman friend -nothing dirty -but possibly about her driving him to the airport. I get a sneaking suspicion. I ask him about whether he likes men or women better. He says women. It was the start of a wonderful weekend. 🤬🤬He wasn't into most of the stuff I wanted (I'm very vanilla usually that means he didn't really like kissing). I asked him why he had posted he was into all those things like kissing. He said it was to get clients. Towards a day or so into the trip he said he'd be willing to try bottoming. I was so disgusted with the situation and him by that point that I didn't even attempt it.

I wonder if that would have been true say 10 to 15 years ago. Plus the place I recall was more of a bar. They had set up some curtains towards the back end of the bar for the privates. The place wasn't terribly large. Wish could remember where it was. But the memory is extremely faint.

In my previous hiring career, I did lots of overnights. ( I don't hire anymore-for one thing I have no money. And even if I did, my libido is mostly in the 'toilet'. My urologist on seeing how low my testosterone level was recently said, "I'm surprised you're awake.") Oh you've said or rather written a mouthful. When I was last on testosterone, my PSA shot up really high. While testosterone can cause elevations, this was really high. It made the urologist nervous. He sent off an experimental test that I can't remember the name of to assess my risk of prostate cancer. He expected it to be low. It wasn't. He decided to get an MRI. I was in a tizzy because some places insert an endorectal coil to perform a prostate MRI. And the place I was getting it done did use one. As I've told on here in the distant past but will repeat for newcomers, aside from not wanting to be gay, one of the things that kept me a virgin until I was 41 was the thought of bottoming. I have a phobia about being penetrated much more than possibly a finger tip. And maybe really only a 1/4 of a finger tip would be ok. (In case anyone is wondering I also have a phobia about catheterization). Also as a background to this-I have a history of some type of chronic pelvic pain syndrome or chronic prostatitis starting in my early 30's. I could go on but to make a long story slightly shorter-I was able to get them to perform the MRI without the coil-some places routinely do it without the coil. So this isn't unheard of. As I recall the results, the prostate showed evidence of inflammation. And there was one area that they couldn't really define well for some reason. They didn't say it was cancer. But because of this area, they wouldn't resume the testosterone unless I had a biopsy. As my PSA was low with a normal digital exam, they were fine with not doing the biopsy if I wasn't on testosterone. So that's where it stands. Plus now they say I have evidence of coronary artery disease. So they might not start it even if my prostate we're suddenly normal.

Really nice looking guy. I'd be concerned about all the "Ask Me's"And the fact that he doesn't list what all he's into. I understand about wanting to be discreet. But it makes me think of a college boy who might think he can make mega bucks for minimal interaction. However to paraphrase Madam Morrible I'd love for him to "Prove me wrong!!"

I'm sure Samuel must have heard it from me. 😎😎

The link didn't work. There was a message that the site didn't allow hot linking-whatever that means. You could probably take a screen shot of the video case and add it that way.

WOW- behind a curtain at a club or was there a private room of some type?

I don't like cum either. I mean obviously I like to cum, and it's cool to watch someone spurt. But that's about as far as I go. While I don't mind kissing someone who has just swallowed my load-I don't really like tasting cum. And no way do I want anyone cumming on my face. An escort -long retired-we were on a train trip from DC to Dallas. I think because of the logistics -probably mostly me-but the small swaying sleeper car didn't help-I wasn't able to top him. As a consolation he asked me if I wanted to cum on his face. I told him if he really liked it, I'd do it. But that it wasn't a particular thrill for me. I recall that put a kibosh on the moment whether he actually wanted it or not. But I was being truthful, and if he were only doing it for me-I didn't need it.

I have to admit the memory is vague-no substances involved then or now. It's just due to time -would've been about 10 years ago and age. But I'm fairly sure it happened.

Who's on first?

I'm fairly quiet too-maybe an 'Oh f-ck' when I'm about to cum.

By the way the song is called Biblical. It's originally sung by Calum Scott -a gay very hunky British singer.

I wasn't entirely sure if that was allowed. But thank you.

Looking at his reviews through a proxy, his first review is very worrisome.

I haven't stayed at hotel in years. But if we're talking an average place and not a 5 star deluxe, then I often liked either Hamilton Inn or Embassy Suites.

Two words not applied to me very often. 😢😢😢

Why am I asking? 🤫🤫🤫No reason.

Thanks. That was my thought too.