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A little of both. You can tip the dancers anytime - while they're walking around, on the bar, on a box, etc. Some are more chatty or aggressive than others. Some you need to approach if you're interested or just want to tip. To go in the back for a lap dance, the rate is typically $20 per song, paid to the dancer at the end of the lap dance. It's STRONGLY recommended you confirm that rate with the dancer before you go in the back or if you're expecting anything else. Some ask in advance - how many songs do you want? Sometimes I take the lead and say - I'd like X number of songs please - so they know what I'm willing to give them. And if it extends while I'm back there, it's decided in the moment. But typically once that little exchange is done and out of the way, then you can just sit back enjoy the dance.

A little of both. You can tip the dancers anytime - while they're walking around, on the bar, on a box, etc. Some are more chatty or aggressive than others. Some you need to approach if you're interested or just want to tip. To go in the back for a lap dance, the rate is typically $20 per song, paid to the dancer at the end of the lap dance. It's STRONGLY recommended you confirm that rate with the dancer before you go in the back or if you're expecting anything else. Some ask in advance - how many songs do you want? Sometimes I take the lead and say - I'd like X number of songs please - so they know what I'm willing to give them. And if it extends while I'm back there, it's decided in the moment. But typically once that little exchange is done and out of the way, then you can just sit back enjoy the dance.

A little of both. You can tip the dancers anytime - while they're walking around, on the bar, on a box, etc. Some are more chatty or aggressive than others. Some you need to approach if you're interested or just want to tip. To go in the back for a lap dance, the rate is typically $20 per song, paid to the dancer at the end of the lap dance. It's STRONGLY recommended you confirm that rate with the dancer before you go in the back or if you're expecting anything else. Some ask in advance - how many songs do you want? Sometimes I take the lead and say - I'd like X number of songs please - so they know what I'm willing to give them. And if it extends while I'm back there, it's decided in the moment. But typically once that little exchange is done and out of the way, then you can just sit back enjoy the dance.

A little of both. You can tip the dancers anytime - while they're walking around, on the bar, on a box, etc. Some are more chatty or aggressive than others. Some you need to approach if you're interested or just want to tip. To go in the back for a lap dance, the rate is typically $20 per song, paid to the dancer at the end of the lap dance. It's STRONGLY recommended you confirm that rate with the dancer before you go in the back or if you're expecting anything else. Some ask in advance - how many songs do you want? Sometimes I take the lead and say - I'd like X number of songs please - so they know what I'm willing to give them. And if it extends while I'm back there, it's decided in the moment. But typically once that little exchange is done and out of the way, then you can just sit back enjoy the dance.

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I liked Bain Colonial Sauna for an authentic old school sauna and men's only massage.

Been to a few parties left with a smile, a well earned dent in my pocket and excitement for the next time. The 3-4 times I’ve been have all been amazing! The manager Prince is such a sweetheart super informative, not pushy and kind. I saw him take care of multiple customers including a heavily intoxicated one. Music is always a good mix with good oldies and current, no complaints about this place if you get a chance to go definitely have the experience

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Gosh what a trip down memory lane. It's almost like I can still smell the inside of those walls! 
My first real job was in 2000 in Times Square and lord knows I would take many a lunch break at the Gaiety. I was a young, hung, 21 year old with an obsession for male dancers. I was way too shy and naive to ever talk to any of them, let alone hire one, but boy did it make the work day fly by.  Thank you @Buffdaddyfor keeping that spirit alive all these years later! 

Gosh what a trip down memory lane. It's almost like I can still smell the inside of those walls! 
My first real job was in 2000 in Times Square and lord knows I would take many a lunch break at the Gaiety. I was a young, hung, 21 year old with an obsession for male dancers. I was way too shy and naive to ever talk to any of them, let alone hire one, but boy did it make the work day fly by.  Thank you @Buffdaddyfor keeping that spirit alive all these years later! 

Gosh what a trip down memory lane. It's almost like I can still smell the inside of those walls! 
My first real job was in 2000 in Times Square and lord knows I would take many a lunch break at the Gaiety. I was a young, hung, 21 year old with an obsession for male dancers. I was way too shy and naive to ever talk to any of them, let alone hire one, but boy did it make the work day fly by.  Thank you @Buffdaddyfor keeping that spirit alive all these years later! 

I've had my fair share of attendants at Equinoxes here in the city linger and enjoy the view when I've showered with the door slightly open. That's always turned me on and, at least in my mind, given me the green light to be a little more playful in the steam room during that attendant's shift. Chances were he wasn't going to report me when he's standing there watching me soap up. 
By the by, anyone else enjoy just sitting in the steam room without a towel covering themselves when they're alone? I just find it so freeing and enjoyable. If someone comes in of course I cover up but sometimes, if it's something they enjoy too, it gives them some sense of "permission" to do it as well and then we're just two guys steaming naked, whether or not anything comes of it. 

Gosh what a trip down memory lane. It's almost like I can still smell the inside of those walls! 
My first real job was in 2000 in Times Square and lord knows I would take many a lunch break at the Gaiety. I was a young, hung, 21 year old with an obsession for male dancers. I was way too shy and naive to ever talk to any of them, let alone hire one, but boy did it make the work day fly by.  Thank you @Buffdaddyfor keeping that spirit alive all these years later! 

Gosh what a trip down memory lane. It's almost like I can still smell the inside of those walls! 
My first real job was in 2000 in Times Square and lord knows I would take many a lunch break at the Gaiety. I was a young, hung, 21 year old with an obsession for male dancers. I was way too shy and naive to ever talk to any of them, let alone hire one, but boy did it make the work day fly by.  Thank you @Buffdaddyfor keeping that spirit alive all these years later! 

Gosh what a trip down memory lane. It's almost like I can still smell the inside of those walls! 
My first real job was in 2000 in Times Square and lord knows I would take many a lunch break at the Gaiety. I was a young, hung, 21 year old with an obsession for male dancers. I was way too shy and naive to ever talk to any of them, let alone hire one, but boy did it make the work day fly by.  Thank you @Buffdaddyfor keeping that spirit alive all these years later! 

I've had my fair share of attendants at Equinoxes here in the city linger and enjoy the view when I've showered with the door slightly open. That's always turned me on and, at least in my mind, given me the green light to be a little more playful in the steam room during that attendant's shift. Chances were he wasn't going to report me when he's standing there watching me soap up. 
By the by, anyone else enjoy just sitting in the steam room without a towel covering themselves when they're alone? I just find it so freeing and enjoyable. If someone comes in of course I cover up but sometimes, if it's something they enjoy too, it gives them some sense of "permission" to do it as well and then we're just two guys steaming naked, whether or not anything comes of it. 

Gosh what a trip down memory lane. It's almost like I can still smell the inside of those walls! 
My first real job was in 2000 in Times Square and lord knows I would take many a lunch break at the Gaiety. I was a young, hung, 21 year old with an obsession for male dancers. I was way too shy and naive to ever talk to any of them, let alone hire one, but boy did it make the work day fly by.  Thank you @Buffdaddyfor keeping that spirit alive all these years later! 

I’ve always found Rock Center to be the most consistent. Between their massive steam room and the sauna across the way, and the “straight” finance bros that swing by on their lunch hour, I’ve always had fun there even in the quietest of times. Sometimes it gets way too busy for my personal liking, and then you have the trolls who do nothing but go back and forth between the steam and the sauna, but also having the rows of showers that face each other… opportunities are endless. Just don’t get caught  

I love this question!  I'm a big fan of the Equinox locker room in NYC.  It's a financial splurge that I twist myself in knots to justify, but I do love it.
Equinox is great if you're like me and you enjoy casual non-sexualized nudity among men.  Agreed that Rockefeller Center is the best I know of for that vibe.  You do get a lot of straight guys doing what I call the high-school-swim-team-change, where you fully wrap a towel before changing.  But a lot of guys - myself included - are comfortable carrying a towel rather than wrapping it.  Heavily mixed gay/straight population, which can sometimes be hard to navigate in terms of knowing who's who.
In terms of mischief, Rock Center is still the best location.  (You can find it at Columbus Circle in the steam room, but you have to be willing to hang long term in hopes lightning strikes.  Liable to be a big waste of time.)  The advice I'd give at Rock Center is: don't be fooled by all the nooks and crannies.  Most of it is NOT a safe space.  The cleaning staff is on the lookout, and the will bust guys for sharing a shower.  So don't try that.  The sauna may also seem safe, but it is not.  The steam room - while the steam is on, with an eye on the door - is the only real opportunity.  If you're careful and patient, you can have some super hot experiences there!
Though the rule for me is... the hottest guys always want to suck me off when I'm on my way to a client.   It's like they know!

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