DallasClient

Swallowed a straight guys big load a couple months ago and it came out of my nose! First time that ever happened lol

Almost all of the "professed straight" guys I have had over, hit me up asking to come over again. I think they find it an easy and enjoyable way to make some cash although several have been lazy want to play videogames all day instead of working full job. Many of the guys in their 20s nowadays do not have the homophobia our generation had. I also find many of the ones I have met have done things with girlfriends like her using a toy on him and he liked it so bottoming with a guy is new but not totally foreign.

It's not like I'm hanging out at unemployment offices trolling guys. One guy advertised on rent men and had a friend who needed money and hooked us up. Another guy had a cousin that wanted to make some extra cash. I cannot think of one guy that didn't hit me up to come back over. These aren't desperate guys, mostly they are lazy and will do a little sex work each month because it's easy and pays well. Especially when they don't want a 9 to 5 job.
 
Good grief it's not like I'm flashing a few Benjamins at homeless guys!

Is making an offer that helps them out financially considered coercing? I have helped many straight guys out and they return on their own so it must be ok with them. I've even had one baby momma call me asking if her baby daddy can come back over because he needs to pay the rent.
 
I see no problem with these arrangements. They are free to say no, I'm not threatening to beat them up if they don't comply.

Oh ffs don’t be dramatic this comment is way over the top

Almost all of the "professed straight" guys I have had over, hit me up asking to come over again. I think they find it an easy and enjoyable way to make some cash although several have been lazy want to play videogames all day instead of working full job. Many of the guys in their 20s nowadays do not have the homophobia our generation had. I also find many of the ones I have met have done things with girlfriends like her using a toy on him and he liked it so bottoming with a guy is new but not totally foreign.

Many guys get desperate and go looking on Grindr or will place an ad on Rent Men. Do you ask to see their net worth statements to make sure they aren't doing this just for the money??

It's not like I'm hanging out at unemployment offices trolling guys. One guy advertised on rent men and had a friend who needed money and hooked us up. Another guy had a cousin that wanted to make some extra cash. I cannot think of one guy that didn't hit me up to come back over. These aren't desperate guys, mostly they are lazy and will do a little sex work each month because it's easy and pays well. Especially when they don't want a 9 to 5 job.
 
Good grief it's not like I'm flashing a few Benjamins at homeless guys!

Is making an offer that helps them out financially considered coercing? I have helped many straight guys out and they return on their own so it must be ok with them. I've even had one baby momma call me asking if her baby daddy can come back over because he needs to pay the rent.
 
I see no problem with these arrangements. They are free to say no, I'm not threatening to beat them up if they don't comply.

Almost all of the "professed straight" guys I have had over, hit me up asking to come over again. I think they find it an easy and enjoyable way to make some cash although several have been lazy want to play videogames all day instead of working full job. Many of the guys in their 20s nowadays do not have the homophobia our generation had. I also find many of the ones I have met have done things with girlfriends like her using a toy on him and he liked it so bottoming with a guy is new but not totally foreign.

Almost all of the "professed straight" guys I have had over, hit me up asking to come over again. I think they find it an easy and enjoyable way to make some cash although several have been lazy want to play videogames all day instead of working full job. Many of the guys in their 20s nowadays do not have the homophobia our generation had. I also find many of the ones I have met have done things with girlfriends like her using a toy on him and he liked it so bottoming with a guy is new but not totally foreign.

Is making an offer that helps them out financially considered coercing? I have helped many straight guys out and they return on their own so it must be ok with them. I've even had one baby momma call me asking if her baby daddy can come back over because he needs to pay the rent.
 
I see no problem with these arrangements. They are free to say no, I'm not threatening to beat them up if they don't comply.

How is it any different than asking guys on Grindr if they are looking for generous guys?
 
That and Rent Men, friend boy, are where I meet 95% of my guys. Once in a while, someone will have a friend or cousin who wants to try it out and make a few bucks.
 
You'll probably really blow a gasket when you learn I'm also a top. Lol

Almost all of the "professed straight" guys I have had over, hit me up asking to come over again. I think they find it an easy and enjoyable way to make some cash although several have been lazy want to play videogames all day instead of working full job. Many of the guys in their 20s nowadays do not have the homophobia our generation had. I also find many of the ones I have met have done things with girlfriends like her using a toy on him and he liked it so bottoming with a guy is new but not totally foreign.

Almost all of the "professed straight" guys I have had over, hit me up asking to come over again. I think they find it an easy and enjoyable way to make some cash although several have been lazy want to play videogames all day instead of working full job. Many of the guys in their 20s nowadays do not have the homophobia our generation had. I also find many of the ones I have met have done things with girlfriends like her using a toy on him and he liked it so bottoming with a guy is new but not totally foreign.

Almost all of the "professed straight" guys I have had over, hit me up asking to come over again. I think they find it an easy and enjoyable way to make some cash although several have been lazy want to play videogames all day instead of working full job. Many of the guys in their 20s nowadays do not have the homophobia our generation had. I also find many of the ones I have met have done things with girlfriends like her using a toy on him and he liked it so bottoming with a guy is new but not totally foreign.

How is it any different than asking guys on Grindr if they are looking for generous guys?
 
That and Rent Men, friend boy, are where I meet 95% of my guys. Once in a while, someone will have a friend or cousin who wants to try it out and make a few bucks.
 
You'll probably really blow a gasket when you learn I'm also a top. Lol

I think the onus is on the employed to determine where they will and will not labor for their money, regardless of whether they are destitute or not.
 
To suggest that sex work is exploitative by nature on a board dedicated to the act is ... willfully ignorant? Not in good taste?
 
Exploiting people by driving them to do anything when they would not otherwise do it is offensive. Sex work, by necessity, should be done only by the willing. Anything otherwise is a form of rape. The people being discussed at length don't meet my criteria for "coercion". They enter into the bargain willingly when other avenues exist. And as discussed in points across the thread, there's no way for you to verify "how" coerced they are in the matter. You don't live inside their head. The only thing you can do is enter honestly into the agreement.

It's not like I'm hanging out at unemployment offices trolling guys. One guy advertised on rent men and had a friend who needed money and hooked us up. Another guy had a cousin that wanted to make some extra cash. I cannot think of one guy that didn't hit me up to come back over. These aren't desperate guys, mostly they are lazy and will do a little sex work each month because it's easy and pays well. Especially when they don't want a 9 to 5 job.
 
Good grief it's not like I'm flashing a few Benjamins at homeless guys!

Is making an offer that helps them out financially considered coercing? I have helped many straight guys out and they return on their own so it must be ok with them. I've even had one baby momma call me asking if her baby daddy can come back over because he needs to pay the rent.
 
I see no problem with these arrangements. They are free to say no, I'm not threatening to beat them up if they don't comply.

How is it any different than asking guys on Grindr if they are looking for generous guys?
 
That and Rent Men, friend boy, are where I meet 95% of my guys. Once in a while, someone will have a friend or cousin who wants to try it out and make a few bucks.
 
You'll probably really blow a gasket when you learn I'm also a top. Lol

It’s called ‘reductio ad absurdem’.

We’re also not talking about destitute, or homeless or crack addicts or whatever other fantasies you have rolling around in your head. We’re talking about someone who claims to be straight and may live a straight lifestyle who is looking for sex for money because he’s out of work right now. Why are you taking it to the extreme?

I believe there is a fine line or grey area to this.

so a friend of mine was out of work. i helped him get a job through a connection i have. is that considered preying on his misfortune of being broke? he was offered a job and he took it willingly since he needs money. for the men on this board to start such moralistic thinking and piousness... give me a break!